Family & Relationships - 31 October 2007

platonic love?
Platonic love in its modern popular sense is a non-sexual affectionate relationship, especially in cases where one might easily assume otherwise.[citation needed] A simple example of platonic relationships is a deep, non-sexual (overtly romantic) friendship, not subject to gender pairings and not excluding close relatives.

what do u think about it?? do you have platonic love relationship??

2007-10-31 16:35:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wanted to know why feel degraded once you are dumped my a man who dont want you when you are married. with children. and in your.40.s dont women thing before they are used and dumped like trash ever wonder what yur children thought where you told them about it yes. it.s fact she told her.4. kids it . now who looks more siller. when trailer trash like this even tells her children about it and to even think a man. 19. would want you must have been dreaming. to ever think so and to tell your kids. wasnt very much like a mother. at all nothing but a cheap thing. and trash to

2007-10-31 16:31:07 · 2 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 16:25:18 · 4 answers · asked by asllemh 1 in Friends

Is it normal for a married man with a family to get together with his male friend everyday after work for drinks. Not at a bar..at each other's houses.

2007-10-31 16:24:20 · 17 answers · asked by Another baby boy! 3 in Friends

Me and my boyfriend just came home from seeing Tyler Perry "Why did I get married?". So we were talking about the movie and during the course of the conversation I asked him if in 10 years of us into marriage, does he ever think he will look at another woman and want to have sex with her? He says" Im going to be honest, yea I think I will". I was so hurt by that comment that I couldn't even speak. He said he was joking but I dont believe him. Do you think he is lying? I dont understand how he claims that he loves me with all his heart but he says he might cheat on me and now I am going to leave him. Do you think I am overreacting?I am really hurt by that Any suggestions?

2007-10-31 16:22:15 · 32 answers · asked by Little Older, Much Wiser 2 in Singles & Dating

my best frind is having trouble...she made a guy wait 4 months to go out with her.when they finally started dating they were together for 1 month && some odd days.the problem is he always called [[i mean always]], he would b sweet sometimes && yell others but he bought her a real expensive bracelet too.there was another guy tho tht liked her && he was our frind so we tlked to him er day.but she liked him bakk...finally one day she said she couldn't take the drama anymore so she broke up with the first guy && waited a couple of days && then now she's dating our frind.but i'm not sure if i think she shuld be with the one she loved for a month && some odd days or the frind tht she just likes at the moment.please help.this is totally killing my life.

2007-10-31 16:22:09 · 2 answers · asked by bby_grl_69 1 in Singles & Dating

Just like around the house for sexy fun? my hubby does it once in a while i think its hott any other ideas? if so what does your guy wear?

2007-10-31 16:21:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Whats the most important thing a woman can do for a man?

2007-10-31 16:21:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend dated this girl in high school 10 years ago and hooked back up with her, once, 3 months before we met, now he wants to hang out with her without me there. he sees no problem with this saying they are just friends and that she is not what he wants. I see BIG RED FLAGS. He has never given me a reason not to trust him but I am still very concerened. Would you feel comforatable with your boyfriend hanging out with an ex?

2007-10-31 16:20:01 · 22 answers · asked by shyleeblue 1 in Singles & Dating

teenagers? We have all been through the crap they are going through and you so want to let them know our experiences and they so don't want to listen. I remember being that age and just thinking that I knew everything and no one could tell me any different. I guess it's just the way things are, but if you've ever figured out a way to get through to them, fill me in.

2007-10-31 16:16:22 · 22 answers · asked by it's me 5 in Friends

i have 6 kids, when youngest was 6 i broke out with genital herpes, ive never cheated on my husband, can you carry the virus or did my husband cheat?

2007-10-31 16:15:34 · 38 answers · asked by ivy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 16:09:15 · 4 answers · asked by Maria L 2 in Friends

With out too much soppy stuff! Cheers people.....

2007-10-31 16:08:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and my mother in law is very aggressive. It's hard because she is so jealous of me and I don't like that. She is nosy with me and asks too many questions. I feel like she tries to push me over. She also tells me she knows best.

I'm so nice and respectful of her. I don't know but I hate her. I hate her so much. She is not a nice person and my husband says she is uncontrollable. I dont know what to do. I don't know how to play her game and I don't know how to be mean. It's just not in me. I hate this.

I wish I could hire someone to slap the bizitch because I can't do it. I would never do that.

2007-10-31 16:07:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I do not know where my daughter nor my ex wife are livining, haven't known for years. I owe it to my daughter to pay but, what rights do I have? I have called the court house, child support services, and the children and family services and yet nobody wants to help me locate them. Do I still have to pay full support when I cant talk nor see my daughter? PLEASE HELP

2007-10-31 16:05:19 · 15 answers · asked by larry g 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to cheekily use jealousy as a means to seduce a guy (well trying to) if a guy's mates are interested in a girl and trying to get into her pants & think shes a bit of alright, do you think a guy would want the girl more, if his mates want her too? im not talking about a realatonship here, i just want to sleep with this guy. he used to like me, but i mucked him around too much, so im trying to regain his interest and prepared to try anythiing!

2007-10-31 16:04:50 · 9 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you keep it to yourself or tell your friend and break her heart?

2007-10-31 16:02:46 · 23 answers · asked by superduper 3 in Weddings

Well as we all know Myspace... tells all. My husband had a comment from a girl on his page stating "Babi it was nice seeing you last night". My husband never mention going out to a local bar with one of his friends and then the next morning the comment. I just had an awful feeling in my stomach when I read the comment. When I comfronted him, he told me that he went with one of his friends and did want to say anything because he knew that I would get upset. Now.... that made me irate.
Why wouldn't he tell me... I feel like he is hiding something... Should I feel this way or am I exaggerating?

2007-10-31 16:02:44 · 19 answers · asked by vivi's mommy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 16:02:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yeah I know this guy and girl that smoke pot right after they take drugtests. The girl cheated on me with the guy when he knew we were going out. So I already know how to let their jobs know about smoking. What are some other good plots?

Anyone insulting me or answering like cheaters don't deserve revenge, GO AWAY. Don't even click that "answer" tab. Got it?

2007-10-31 16:00:03 · 2 answers · asked by Sweet Lou Singer 3 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to cheekily use jealousy as a means to seduce a guy (well trying to) if a guy's mates are interested in a girl and trying to get into her pants & think shes a bit of alright, do you think a guy would want the girl more, if his mates want her too? im not talking about a realatonship here, i just want to sleep with this guy. he used to like me, but i mucked him around too much, so im trying to regain his interest and prepared to try anythiing!

2007-10-31 15:59:00 · 1 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 15:58:31 · 10 answers · asked by markymark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend proposed three weeks ago. Before we were engaged, we were talking about getting married in summer 2008 and all the sweet ideas towards marriage.

However, after the engagement, when our discussion topic relates to getting married, he totally panicked. And he told me that he's scared to get married and does not want to get married soon. He also hesitates to tell his parents/friends that he proposed. He said he's shy.

His reluctance of marrying me soon and not telling his friends/family that we are engaged made me questioning myself that whether he really loves me and wants to marry me.

Now, both of us are afraid to touch the "getting married" topic. It creates so much stress between us when we talk about it. And whenever we talk about it, we have no conclusion whatsoever.

Is it wise to ask him to propose when he's ready to get married? Should I cancel my engagement or should I wait?

2007-10-31 15:57:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

when they tell there friend to ask you questions...They don't speak up for themselves,
This happened in 7th period today my friend was talking to a boy i used to like the boy wanted to know how tall i was he told her to me.....What does this mean?

2007-10-31 15:56:55 · 4 answers · asked by Live Love & laugh 4 in Singles & Dating

i want to naughtly talk my bf, can u tell me some that i can use or maybe give an idea of to say to my bf?! thx!

2007-10-31 15:53:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are getting married in about a year. We won't have bridemaids or groomsmen or best men or maid of honor. We have two dogs who will be ring bearer and flower girl and a good mutual friend to walk them.

My fiance and I will both walk down the aisle.

We would like to include his parents in the wedding. My parents will probably not be participating (they're pretty racially intolerant, and not happy for me at all) if they decide to come.
(please no comments about this)

So how should I have it conducted? I figure the dogs will come out first, but what then after that?

We really want this to be a unique and special intimate wedding :)

2007-10-31 15:53:15 · 4 answers · asked by Mee 5 in Weddings

I have been dating this girl for like a week and we have been on 2 dates ... till now we were only planning about the place and each person was driving there alone! Now I am taking here to a club soon, so I will go to pick her up, do I need to go and ring their house bell, mom and dad and all those classic stuff or its OK to call her when I am in front of her house and ask her to come down!!!

2007-10-31 15:50:56 · 3 answers · asked by sdfsdf s 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy, and im pretty sure he likes me too but his friends are complete jerks. They tease and make fun of me like every day for no reason, so i get mad at them and we go at it alot.

This guy never goes along with his friends when they tease me, so thats ok, but he never says anything because his friends are older than him and they'll make fun of him for saying anything, so after they walk away he usually apoligizes.

The problem is his friends are keeping him from asking me out even though i can tell he wants to, so he just flirts with me alot.

today, some kid told him to kiss me and he said "okay!" and then i blushed and changed the subject (im shy)


what am i to do...ugh

2007-10-31 15:50:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do guys like to talk about?? whats something girls can talk to guys about for a long time that isn't something boyish like videogames or comic books?

2007-10-31 15:48:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife has BPD and goes psycho all the time,but there is no way to prove she's assaulted me - I've tried the PD and she just cross-alleges. If I split,the woman virtually always gets the kids. i would be leaving my children with an abusive female. What can I do? i just want to get out of her life,but I don't want to leave my kids. I guess this is why guys have to stay in abusive relationships.

2007-10-31 15:46:10 · 17 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Marriage & Divorce