why do men marry and why do they stay married?

Question

Whats the most important thing a woman can do for a man?

Answer 1

You're in a for a world of disappointment if you think their is just one answer to that question. To each man it's differant, and at differant points in his life it will vary, just as it will for women.

While there are some generalities that fit men or women, they're just that, generalities, and people in relationships aren't general, they're specific.

Men can get married because of love, preasure, desire (physical or other), trickery, friendship, the list can go on and on and without knowing the dynamic it could be any, none, or a mix of those or others.

Men generally stay married because they are having their needs fufilled within the relationship, but some stay for religious or upbringing reasons, some stay for financial or childrearing reasons, some stay but don't stay faithful, and just like the above... if their was some simple answer to 'why men get and stay married' or 'why women get and stay married' then everyone would just use it and we'd all be living happily ever after.

For better or for worse, the real world and the reasons of real people are just more complex then that, and even when they're not all that complex for one individual, they're still varied from individual to individual.

If you want some VERY generic advice, then I will say this... making someone happy is the best way to get and keep them. How you do that can differ. Some meant want bed mates, some want soul mates, some want life mates, and vice versa for women. However if you can do that, and keep that way, you'll at the least have a better chance of a long and happy, healthy forever together.

Answer 2

Men do require always some kind of attention, personal affection, like from a mother, like a lovely woman who gives everything for him, a home where he can relax, find rest and feel security.
A girl friend may be able to give the above but never on a permanent basis. Wife doesn't expect ant gratitude for her service. Because it is a relationship having tied their minds, bodies with a social tie up. A recognition of both for each one of them, they have freedom to act one, on behalf of the other, take decisions, share suffering also in addition to enjoyment.
While a girl friend is some thing different in the early youth, while one enters the middle age, there is nothing like a wife can be an asset to any man.

A woman can do to a man, most of the things being a wife and never being a girl friend.

The most important thing a woman can do for a man is giving warmth and security like in a mothers lap, convince and console him in situations, and stay forth with him.

Answer 3

Men marry for the same reasons that women do, companionship, partnership and love anything else is optional. Well, at least that's why good men and women marry. Others may marry for sex, control, a maid, money or to raise children. The best thing a woman can do for a man, and a man a woman is continue to provide companionship, partnership and love.

Answer 4

I married because I felt a connection with this woman; even though the connection is missing, I still believe in her.

The most important thing a woman can do for a man is be there with him

Answer 5

I don't think there is one set answer to that any more than there would be to asking "why do women marry".

Everyone (man and woman) gets married for their own reasons, hopefully good ones. My husband and I got married because we are best friends and we are very much in love.

Answer 6

Most marry for love, stay married because they don't like the thought of not getting 'it' regularly. Most important thing for him, give 'it' to him regularly. If not, they go looking around for someone who he thinks will.

Answer 7

The three B's

1. Beauty
2. Brains
3. Booty...

The best sex he has ever had, and he thinks about her constantly because she is the most beautiful woman he has in is life. and she is smart and down to earth and she can be trusted to make decisions for the both of them...

Answer 8

The most important thing that you can do for each other is to raise a family, teach them values, love each other to bits and be happy and content. Be happy with a little house, a little car, and a lot of envy from unhappy people.

Answer 9

well if your married be a good wife.
if it is your b/f you need to respect him also trat people the way you would like to be treated.
and why married men stay married is because they know were there better off and these days it is better the devil you know than the devil you dont'

Answer 10

To quote A.Einstien, " A man marries a woman believeing she'll never change, and a woman marries a man believeing she can change him, and they both go to the grave truly dissappointed"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1