Family & Relationships - 31 October 2007

i'm married for almost 4 years but i was never happy in my marriage most of the time. my husband is verbally abusive, calling me names, and always yells all the time. i came to a point wherein i just ignore him because i hate to argue. i told him that we need marriage counseling but he told me that im the one who's got a problem. he doesn't like my kids either and didn't bother to speak to my mother when she came over for a visit. i need help what should i do?

2007-10-31 00:33:54 · 18 answers · asked by azbabe37 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I will be a wedding guest soon and I have one satin cocktail dress of mocha color. Since the wedding is in November, cold... I would need some top, shawl, bolero... anything to cover my shoulders but stay elegant. It is very hard to fit anything with this color. Please, help.

2007-10-31 00:32:23 · 14 answers · asked by Aurora 4 in Weddings

is the past really the past... should i forghet the past and give a guy another shot or move on???

2007-10-31 00:24:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he has been late 2 hours before, 4 hours before, and yesterday three hours. at the end of the 3 and four hours he never came i just gave up and went home, and he told me "oh i overslept blahh blaahh blaaahh..." when he made me wait four hours last time he apologized alot
this time i texted him saying if he loved me for real, he needs to stop doing this to me, and he didnt even say sorry. maybe he did but just a pity one...
once i was late 15 minutes he got soooooooo worried
i never made him waiting on scheduled dates more than 30 minutes
if i ever did longer, it was on dates when he called me at random un-planned times to meet him, and even then it was max one hour...


what do i do with him?

2007-10-31 00:21:28 · 7 answers · asked by ABANDONED 5 in Singles & Dating

if not, do you feel you should have talked about the "ONE THING" that made you mad, but you didn't discuss it. And, now the perverbial straws have pile up and almost to the point of breaking the camels back??

we always here " I don't why they left" or I didin't "see" it coming. But if we truly go back and think of the thing that bugged us that we "didn't" tlak about we could have avoided the 20-30 year unhappy marriga? your comments

2007-10-31 00:18:23 · 9 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Right we all know that if you catch your partner cheating on you, you need to leave, move on, kick him to the curb etc. BUT thats easier said than done right?

Whats your alternate option? Ill share mines when I choose a best answer.

2007-10-31 00:16:01 · 15 answers · asked by Claude 6 in Singles & Dating

your man can say to you that makes you feel on top of the world?

2007-10-31 00:13:23 · 29 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok me and my boyfriend are sexualy active and also do head and hand to each other! I have never had an orgasm with a guy before but can easily give myself one.

I "faked it" with him a few times because he kept asking are you almost there, and in the end i was sick of him asking so faked it and he believed me.

The problem is now i really want him to be able to give me one! How can i explain that what he is doing isn't working for me, and that even though it feels good it isn't going to give me an orgasm? I don't want to mention that i've faked it though, it would hurt his self-esteem.

Please advice, i know how he can give me one but just how can i tell him without hurting him!

2007-10-31 00:11:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son's father has never been in his life. He wasn't there for his birth, and has never seen my child. After two years of searching I finally found an email for him and offered to meet him somewhere that he could meet him and I never got a response. I went after child support and after the DNA test came back I got an email from him. It was the first time I had actually heard from him since I was pregnant. It was insulting, demanding, selfish, and childish, and down right scary. I let several people read it and they all agreed, though there is no out right threat, you can tell that my son is currently nothing but a financial burden and finances are everything to him. I started to worry about the safety of my son and they all agreed, to make sure I wasn’t being paranoid. I emailed him back asking about signing over his parental rights which he jumped at the chance for. I don’t know enough about it and intend on calling a lawyer, however before I do and spend the money I wanted to see if there was anybody out there that knew anything about it. Is it even possible without an adoption? With Child Support is there a settlement amount, will I receive back child support up to the day he signed his rights, or do I never receive a dime. Right now I feel like I am trading my son’s safety and security for money, so I definitely need to look into my options. Thanks

2007-10-31 00:02:47 · 3 answers · asked by katjha2005 5 in Family