is the past really the past... should i forghet the past and give a guy another shot or move on???
2007-10-31 00:24:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course, it's always wise to move on. But it's only you who can weigh the pros & cons of your past relationship. If you officially decided not to turn back & give him another chance, at least you must learn from that experience in making a new one a lot better. Past whether good or bad will always be a part of you. What matters most is the wisdom that you earned from it. Good luck & God bless.
2007-10-31 00:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by zynjen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If the guy in the past had hurt you continuously, give another guy a chance. Don't think every boy out there would be the same one as the one in the past.
2007-10-31 07:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the past is in the past.. and you should give a person another chance.. everyone deserves to be forgiven and get chances to prove they are repent..
The only thing is are YOU willing to make that sacrifice to accept and forgive that person for what they did to you. And start something with them, and not bring anything up and trusting them?!
If you can then go ahead forgive him and give him another shot.. If you care for him that much you can over pass anything.. just make sure he's willing to make sacrifices as well. Because if he doesn't want to or doesn't care then move on better things awaits you.
2007-10-31 07:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never forget the past, you can only learn from it. If you believe he has learnt from the past, and that you have as well, then use that lesson to make an informed decision.
However, always believe what a man DOES not what he says he will do - promises only ever mean something when they are fulfilled.
2007-10-31 07:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by Paul M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The past is the past, and you can't change it, but you can learn from it. You can forgive someone for past actions, but have to remember all the signs so you don't get hurt again. Remember a leopard doesn't change his spots.
2007-10-31 07:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what he did to you - if you were not serious about eachother and he cheated on you, for example, then move on and don't look back. If you were in a serious committed relationship and you can live with whatever he did, then give it another chance!
2007-10-31 07:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this....
"Was that guy honest with me before?"
"What is his communication like with me?"
"Before things got bad, how were things when they were good?"
Then make your decision!
The past is always the past but just remember this:
He/She who conquers the past controls the future and He/She who conquers the future controls the past....
Think about it! Hope everything works out!
2007-10-31 07:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what the guy has done really. and the past is always part of the future.
2007-10-31 07:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by miss_laura_jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when somebody cheats u for the first time, it is their fault. but if we get cheated by the same person a second time, it is our fault.so we should not allow others 2 cheat us again and again. check out if he is feeling guilty 4 what he has done.if he is,then thnk about giving him a second chance
2007-10-31 07:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah forget what he did unless...... he cheated or is in jail right now if he is wow stay away but if he did not call you for a month ask him why and move on!!
2007-10-31 16:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋