Family & Relationships - 31 October 2007

Say it's a friend (and just a friend) you are very open with and you are talking about sex, sexual stuff etc, and you notice he's excited. Do you check it out? Do you say something? Are you offended? Any comments would be appreciated. I had a similar situation happen so I am looking for advice.

2007-10-31 06:30:49 · 23 answers · asked by Josh B 3 in Friends

calling.should i contact him

2007-10-31 06:29:07 · 10 answers · asked by confused in il 1 in Singles & Dating

My mil has been very rude to me during my marriage to her son. She has compared me to her daughter. She has compared herself to my own kids. When I am around her she tries to be so nice to me when she knows she has done me so wrong. I try my best to get along with her. She loves reading biblical books. So I go on the Internet and give them to her. When we are around each other she always says off the wall things to me. She waits to say these things when noone is around. What can I say to defend myself around her?

2007-10-31 06:27:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and I are thinking of moving into a 7 bed, 4 bath house with the in-laws to save money. Our financial situation is tough right now and it would help us pay less in rent.

My mother-in-law is wonderful and welcoming, but the sister and her husband are a total nightmare. It's complicated, but basically the sister and her husband have taken over the house and have trashed it. They moved in 4 years ago saying it would be for 3 weeks. They never left and pay minimal rent. Now they occupy 6 bedrooms and 3 of the bathrooms.

The rest of the family wants us to move in and hopes that the sister and brother-in-law will move out because of it. My husband's family tip-toes around difficult subjects and avoids conflict beyond reason.

I want to move in if it can improve his Mom's situation and our own, but I just don't know if we will be able to handle it. Plus it sounds like the brother-in-law will restrict us to one bedroom and a shared bathroom with his kids now. Scary.

2007-10-31 06:25:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My schools mascot is the Wildcat and I want to get my boyfriend a sweatshirt that says "My girlfriend is a WILDCAT" but as far as I know they dont make them so I want to order one online but I need to know a reliable and cheap site to order from. Please only give me sites you know are reliable!!!

2007-10-31 06:24:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 06:24:07 · 11 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I wonder why parents choose these 11 letter names that noone can pronounce. And these kids will have to go thru life spelling and pronouncing their name to everyone. Do parents consider these things when giving their child a name? There are getting to be too many weird names out there if you ask me. (My real name isnt Dianna but a variation of my real name which I do not care for)

2007-10-31 06:20:41 · 9 answers · asked by dianna 2 in Family

Say person A expresses love with flowers. Its there natural way to express love and receive love.
Say person B expresses love with sex. Its their natural way to express love and receive love.
Person A wants more flowers from Person B and Person B wants more sex from Person A.
So should a person express love the way their partner would like it OR should a person accept love in the way their partner wants to give it?

2007-10-31 06:20:09 · 12 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 06:19:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-31 06:16:21 · 17 answers · asked by non active 2 in Family

What would you say to or think about a woman who KNOWS he husband has been having an affair, knows he has been cheating on her since she was pregnant and only ended the affair after a few years when the mistress ended things? And she also knows he has had other flings before and after and stays with this man? Any words or advice for her? There is a child involved. What would you think of this woman? Do you believe the husband loves her since he always comes back to her?

2007-10-31 06:14:58 · 50 answers · asked by lookinfortruth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would ya Shagg 'em?

2007-10-31 06:14:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-31 06:13:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know its only 2 months but still. Am i just being silly? I think i am but i just want your opinion. Should i even mention it?

2007-10-31 06:12:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has custody and I pay child support but I have our child quite a bit more during the year than she does.

2007-10-31 06:09:10 · 16 answers · asked by d_eic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had been dating my bf for almost 7 months. Everything was going really great and we both really loved each other. He had to move away for school in september only for 4 months. in october is grandpa passed away, and he said that that made him more religious. he knows im not and never have been, and said he doesn't see himself having a future with me now. It seems so weird because the person i knew never would have said something like that to me. He told me he thinks this is what he wants, for us to break up, but things could change. so we have broken up. i don't know how to get over it, or what to do...

2007-10-31 06:08:55 · 13 answers · asked by skaylin89 1 in Singles & Dating

i was talking to this boy in my form that i like today and he calls me names and that (in a very flirty way)and sings my name and we flirt LOADS!!!
today he said to me that he was my pimp! lol and that i was his ho and when he was saying it he was tapping the table and i was hitting his hand kind of lol
WE WERE HOLDING HANDS (in a way) =)
he seemed kind of shy too i think because he was lookin at the floor alot

what did he mean though by the pimp and hoe thing?
is it good? lol
help me xxx

2007-10-31 06:08:40 · 7 answers · asked by SophieKayy 2 in Singles & Dating

I have seen an orgasm where some white discarge comes out spraying long distance. But what about a very wet, very warm, clearer in color type. Last time it came out very fast. This time it came out alot almost like pee. Can a woman pee while receiving oral sex? If this was an orgasm then there are two different types for females right?

2007-10-31 06:07:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were together 13 years, he had affair left year ago, and lives with her. I have cried every day since. I miss him so. despite the pain he caused me. We have kept in contact he knows where I live. It upset me so much that I told him I have moved (I havent) but we still text and phone sometimes. I have been rude to him about her - ignored his messages for days - told him to leave me alone, but he persists and then I end up answering the texts or phone calls. (yes I know Im weak etc etc) He knows this upsets me, and makes me cry, but he says he hates not talking to me for a couple of days, but even he needs to know im still there and ok and that the fact that we are still in contact trying to be friends means something ? He doesnt want us to be back together but he needs me as a friend. Why ? after my insults does he carry on texting me? You are probably thinking control, but why he left me...... My friends cant fathom him out......

2007-10-31 06:06:34 · 18 answers · asked by kitten 2 in Singles & Dating

Arrange it in the order of increasing preference.

2007-10-31 06:06:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Appropriate answers please.

Did you think it was right for your parents to discipline you this way?

2007-10-31 06:06:28 · 27 answers · asked by Brian S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

have 3 kids for him

2007-10-31 06:06:24 · 28 answers · asked by faith 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I see her 4 days a week and she wants to know how they were but I don't want to seem unappreciative of the jesture. But I also don't want her to think I enjoyed them because she'll no doubt cook them for me again. We've known each other for about a year now and she's a really nice person but I don't want her to ever cook for me again. How can I say that w/o being rude.

2007-10-31 06:05:53 · 6 answers · asked by daqueen_v 1 in Friends

I'm invited to a bridal shower this weekend. My boyfriend will also be invited to the wedding (we both know the couple), but the bridal shower is girls only. It's not a lingerie shower or anything - just lunch, and giving gifts for the couple's new home. My question is, on the card that accompanies the gift, should I just write that it's from me, or should I include my boyfriend's name also?

2007-10-31 06:03:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I split up with her about 3 months ago now, im 100% over her (i split up with her not the other way around) and i believe shes over me too (which is good) . I have a different girlfriend at the moment and we're going good. I havnt spoken to my ex-girlfrind practically since we split up but should i say anything forher birthday? Or do you think it would upset her or my current girlfriend?

2007-10-31 06:03:29 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I came home for summer vacation. Just a few weeks before the semester was over, i started dating this guy i thought was really nice. but he lives in NY. i live in OH He said he would make the effort with me to make it work while i was gone since would not be able to call him as often as i would like due to my situation at home.

I remained faithful
I held my end of the relationship
and he cheated on me for something i could not control and then was angry and lashed out at me because i did not want to tell him my plans to transfer to another college after the fact.

Was i wrong?

2007-10-31 06:03:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you ride a guy? slow or fast?
i thought they all liked it fast. whats the best way???????
please help gimmie sum tips

2007-10-31 06:02:14 · 9 answers · asked by GrownNSexy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

So my boyfriend and I have lived together for quite some time, and been together for several years. Yesterday he called me and said he no longer wanted to be together that one of us needed to pack our things and when I decided who it would be to let him know. This is the man of my life and I care about him deeply, in fact we were planning on getting married, and were trying to have a child. I don't quite understand. We've had our share of fights don't get me wrong, but what couple doesn't right? I just can't stand the thought of him leaving....help!

2007-10-31 05:57:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating over 4 years and he proposed about 3 months ago. I fell in love with a venue and want to book an available date towards the end of the summer before someone else takes it. The only thing is that my Fiance won't give me an answer and dances around the subject.....what do I do?

2007-10-31 05:56:41 · 17 answers · asked by ID1034 2 in Weddings

okay, so one of my best friends (i'll call her V) is getting married, and myself and our other best friend (i'll call her T) are bridesmaids or matrons of honor (it's not clear yet--V also has two sisters...)

well, i was wondering, who would throw the shower?

V & T were both in my wedding & i didn't get a shower (wasn't ever mentioned & didn't even occur to me till just now) and V & I were in T's wedding & her shower was thrown by her MIL....(T didn't mind us not throwing her one--but then she was notoriously hard to get ahold of in order to plan one; also, i think V would understand if i didn't since i'm quite pregnant & very broke... and T would be of no help)

i was just wondering... should i worry about throwing her a shower or leave it up to her sisters or mother or MIL?

2007-10-31 05:56:35 · 22 answers · asked by Ember Halo 6 in Weddings