Family & Relationships - 31 October 2007

I am losing hope. I've become completely depressed. I don't know what to do anymore.We were only together 4 mo
Should he and I get back together? He said that he is not violent.That he would never hit me.?
Where did I go wrong?
Oh No!!!! He is dating someone else!!He told me that I am the reason he acted this way! Will he treat her nice
Abuse? What did I do wrong.I'm depressed again?
Was he on his way to being abusive to me?We broke up three weeks ago. Why am I sad that he's gone?Am I paranoi
I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT LEAVE!!
13 hours ago - 1 week left to answer.
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He said that he has never behaved that way before.Then said he would get frustated when I would drink.I told him that he acted that way even when I wasnt drinking.

2007-10-31 08:57:01 · 15 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Singles & Dating

im tires of the same ole stuff i want something new! i want and adventure some excitement and for goodness sake i want to make it where hes so turned on he will just go down on me without me having to ask him to! almost everytime i have to ask him to!

2007-10-31 08:55:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we are already separated, as it seems he will always be addicted to something or another. we have two little boys which i have always stayed home with full time. no job, family, or money of my own to fall back on, as any money he makes between now and january 2nd(the day he has to turn himself in)will go to pay his fine, for a reduced sentence. he'll probably do less than a year. he makes very good money running his own flooring business(no proof of income). and he is still paying our living expenses, as well as his own. i am frightened for myself and my kids, as i cannot even pay the rent on any job i'm qualified for, much less other bills and living expenses. he asked for a divorce before he was sentenced, but i wanted to work on our marriage. he was obviously not interested, as we interfere with his freedom and "fun time".now my family's future must come first. surely this has happened to other women. smartest course of action for me and my kids?HELP!!!

2007-10-31 08:55:37 · 9 answers · asked by doo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 08:54:05 · 8 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom did receive a little bit of child support but not much. He owes a ton, not sure how much and my mom has always told me that she was scared for her life to go after him for it. Is there any way possible for me to go after my dad for this money and to keep my mom out of it. Of course it would go to her. Not sure how to do this without including her... you know?

2007-10-31 08:53:35 · 19 answers · asked by ashley_m_conner 1 in Family

i love sex and all but my ubby gets tired and im tired of having to just be on top when he gets tired what are some other positions where i do the work?

2007-10-31 08:53:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but nothing has been done about it, plus it's difficult to get talking in that enviroment. Is it ok if I were to break the ice by slipping him a note with my number and little message? I'm still pondering on the message.

2007-10-31 08:52:18 · 9 answers · asked by Smokella v2.0 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 08:51:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been facebooking this guy and have just found out he has a girlfriend?
he keeps on asking me out for a drink!

Again his girlfriend is like a porn star dont really no what he wants with me or why he is asking me out help any reasons!!
Im really conservative and she is taking about the sex they had last night on his wall!!!is this normal behaviour or a little trashy!!

Do men like trashy women or prefer girls who are not so in you face with sex and leave more up to the imagination

2007-10-31 08:50:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay this guy asked me out. I said yes. While we went out I started noticing his flaws and became interested in other guys so I dumped him. He asked his best friend to ask me why. I told him the truth "other guys...flaws..." Well when I said "OTHER GUYS" his friend thought I meant him. I kinda do like him and don't want him to know because I just dumped his best friend. He was going to ask me out before and didn't because best friend liked me. I like him and he likeD me.




How can I like someones best friend when I just dumped them???



Is that wrong? I mean I like the friend .

2007-10-31 08:50:06 · 37 answers · asked by gadfgfrsdfer 3 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl at my chruch one time i was talking to my firend and she was talking with her firend but she was stareing at me when i look at her she smile more big and then nextweek when i go to chruch and if i look at her she keepon smileing and she lauge for my jokes and the same day when she tas talking to me she keep on toching my arm 4 5 times does she like me?

2007-10-31 08:49:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 08:49:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you have plans to get together with a guy and he blows you off, without giving you any explanation (except that he fell asleep), do you give him another chance??

2007-10-31 08:48:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of a friend keeps asking if I am gay over and over again. I keep telling her no I am not gay but she won't let up. Is she just a lowsy flirt or is she doing it out of spite? I don't flirt because I have had several prophecies saying God has a wife for me and so I am just waiting for her to show up. She is going to have to come to me. I want to tell this girl that but she is so damn malicious. I don't even like guys so where does she get off asking me that question over and over again?

2007-10-31 08:47:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My heart is broken and I want to die !!!!!!
They brought her to get her stuff from our house, and she gave me such a awful. I have to keep on living to support the rest of the family, but I wish that I did not have to!!!! How do other people survive this? What rights do we have to get her back without money for a lawyer?

2007-10-31 08:47:04 · 6 answers · asked by castillotwila 1 in Family

Like no sex for a long time- on purpose? How has it helped your well being?

2007-10-31 08:46:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How soon after you get into a relationship is "too soon" to have sex? I was seeing this guy for about 1.5 months before he asked me to be his girlfriend. I'm 22 and he's 25. We have made out but that's as far as I let it go... I would like to sleep with him but I also want him to continue to respect me and I don't want our relationship to turn purely sexual. How can I ensure this? And how long should I wait to have TOTAL respect from my man? I don't want to make so many mistakes in this relationship! Thanks!

2007-10-31 08:45:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently iv encountered a constant problem where guys initially seem really keen and txt/ring all the time then for no apparent reason seem to lose and interest and leave me kinda hanging and wondering what i did wrong (even though i know iv done nothing!) Id be grateful if anyone has any insight to offer on why men play such mind games.

2007-10-31 08:44:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 08:44:12 · 3 answers · asked by kutaiba1980 1 in Singles & Dating

How many people have you been with so far in your life?

2007-10-31 08:42:57 · 10 answers · asked by zarro 1 in Singles & Dating

My lawyer says to stay but the house will have to be sold and the proceeds split. I can't get it sale ready by myself with everybody still living in it and messing it up. We really need to move out to get it sale ready. Husband is stalling and using this as a control issue. It is so frustrating that I want to just walk away from my share of the proceeds. I could just ask for
him to pay off my credit cards and that would be about equal to my half of the house proceeds (at market value).

2007-10-31 08:42:53 · 9 answers · asked by psi2006 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 08:41:40 · 8 answers · asked by y e s i 1 in Friends

evening folks,if your boyfriend went out on a night out with friends and ended up at lap dancing club.then paid for a dancer to dance for HIM.would you have a problem with it?

2007-10-31 08:41:31 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a friend who's husband is bipolar and abandoned her when she was 6 months pregnant with their second child. He moved back home to mooch off his Mommy and she's been paying for him to divorce my friend. He took both of there vehicles and spent all their money. He's still living off his parents and doing horrible things like racking up (more) felonies ,soliciting minors and offering pot to girls on the internet yet his Mom is still paying all his bills, child support (he's never paid any) and providing transportation and cigarettes for him. He only wants to see their oldest child just for his mom to take care of him and NEVER wants to visit the new baby. No one is perfect but my friend really wanted their marriage to work, this guy just kept walking out on them , spending their money on pot and baseball/football cards and finally just left.I'd like to be able to tell her some way that this will stop but with an evil guy who has an evil mother what can I say? Any suggestions? Kandy

2007-10-31 08:41:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's sad because i think of things that he has done while we have been together & it drives me nuts. I get into moods where i would love to beat him down. So i am hoping others have the same problem.

2007-10-31 08:41:05 · 5 answers · asked by MiChele 1 in Singles & Dating

GIRLS!
If you are female would you ask a guy out? How would you?

BOYS!
Would you be ok with the girl asking you out? Why or Why not?

2007-10-31 08:40:49 · 3 answers · asked by Lala 2 in Singles & Dating

Two nights ago my husband asked me this, he was really disappointed when I told him it depends on how old I am, and if I'll find love again. So would you re-marry?

2007-10-31 08:38:19 · 32 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We where together for almost 4 years. I thought that I wanted to be apart, now 4 months later I so deeply regret what I did and I don't know how to fix it. She says that she still loves me but that she is just too angry with me right now to even date me. I am desperate to get her back. What can I do?

2007-10-31 08:37:15 · 27 answers · asked by luvmyflipflops 1 in Singles & Dating

*Fred* says i make excuses to not meet him && stuff && this really bugs me because we supposed to be going out and i never do make up excuses!...so my friend told me to go with her to go see her boyfriend *Bob* so i can see *Fred* too ...but *Fred* was at this girl *Pennys* && was staying the night! It seems like he would rather spend time with her and he says she is just a really good mate...but she is really pretty...Once i was in the bar where he works and she came out in this low top && ripped jeans...and Fred* noticed straight away that she had changed...this p***ed me off really bad because it like he doesn't notice i'm there!...He also has been wanting sex 8-) && i don't feel i am ready but we like tried but yeah...that another story....and sometimes i just think he wants to be with Penny* ....He says he loves me but i don't know cause he isn't prepared to come meet me i always have to trek to see him!!..I dont know if he is interested?

2007-10-31 08:33:30 · 3 answers · asked by no name 3 in Singles & Dating

Is thursday an ok day to be married? we have chosen August 21, 2008 and that falls on a thursday - we chose the date because it is a combination of our birthdays (mine: 05-01 and his: 03-20 added together)....
yeah its corny but i think its cute.....

2007-10-31 08:32:10 · 19 answers · asked by --Wedded--Bliss-- 3 in Weddings