Family & Relationships - 31 October 2007

and yet i dont know what im doing still being her friend
-such sad things

2007-10-31 11:03:16 · 18 answers · asked by soulmate (HERE & FOUND) 3 in Friends

Me and my fiancee broke up a year ago and he told me that he doesn't want to get married in his lifetime. But 2 months ago when he learned that I'm gonna move to another country, he came to me and said that he still loves me and wants to get married with me. When I went to his facebook account, I saw his ex there. I felt so idiot. When I told him about this, he said what's wrong? He thinks this is just normal but he gets mad at me when I talk to my friends ( men ). He behaves like I'm cheatin him with my friends ( and we only talk about politics and religious topics, nothing else! and he knows that )
I'm so indecisive, what should I do? I don't think I can go on with a person like him but I love him , too... I'm so confused and sad.. What would you do if you were me?
Thanks in advance...

2007-10-31 11:00:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is getting married on February. I am helping her with planning the wedding. She has a specific theme that she wants. That is that she wants a mirror and candle theme. Can anyone help me with ideas on how we can plan this and for decorations for the church and reception I would really appreciate.....

2007-10-31 10:59:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

scratch my scalp, scalp massage. does anyones eles husband do that and doesnt feel soooooooo good!?

2007-10-31 10:57:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 10:55:10 · 84 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

BEST FRIENDS...AND FAMILY

2007-10-31 10:54:10 · 8 answers · asked by Jackie Mac. (: 3 in Friends

Long story short-lost parental rights when they were 7 & 10. Elder son is turning 18 on Saturday. Do I go to the house, knock on the door and ask to see my son? Park in their cul-de-sak and wait for him to come out? Will not be able to see /speak to my now 15 yr old, would that not be too heartbreaking for him? I've cried with pain & reget every day for the past eight years...I need to see them so this hole in my heart can finally start to heal and these tears of sorrow can turn to joy. I've been dying inside for eight long dark years and I need to live and love again, hopefully with my sons in my life. How do I do this the right way?

2007-10-31 10:53:26 · 6 answers · asked by gmoney 3 in Family

My boyfriend is going to be spending Thanksgiving with his family, daughter and ex-wife. I will not be invited, so what should I do for Thanksgiving? I'm not going to give him a hard time about him going, and me having the days off. I don't want to go home either, so what should I do?

2007-10-31 10:52:22 · 12 answers · asked by torn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do since my mother doesn't let me go out anywhere with my friends and for god's sake I'm 17 years old!! She claims that she doesn't know them, I know she's trying to protect me because she cares about me, but it's really starting to get on my nerves!! HELP!

2007-10-31 10:50:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is it for control ?
Is it a reward ?
Is it of no interest to you ?
Do you view it as a chore / obligation ?
Is it your man's job to initiate or is this a mutual responsibility?
Who usually starts things?
Is it for mutual satisaction?

Please answer and add how LONG you've been married AND if you have children or not....

Just interested to know if there is a correlation with length of a relationship (and addition of kids) and how a gal views (or how her views) have changed over time....

Thanks in advance....

2007-10-31 10:49:51 · 22 answers · asked by aa889d 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Oohh isn't that sweet

2007-10-31 10:47:15 · 39 answers · asked by Shaz 4 in Singles & Dating

So for our wedding my fiance and I are thinking of incorporating one of his GREAT loves which is movies.

Since it's a wedding I suggested romantic movies...like Casablanca, Titanic, The Notebook etc...

We were thinking of naming every table the name of a movie (instead of having plain old TABLE 8) and then doing a few more movie things....maybe something related to when the guests make the couple kiss (as opposed to clanking on glasses).

I want it to be romantic and not tacky in any way....Please...I need suggestions. Let me know if you think this is a dumb idea period...and any ideas you may have relating to this theme!

Thank you!!

2007-10-31 10:47:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

do you guys really care if were a size 7 and dont have the exactly flattest stomach??

2007-10-31 10:45:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like when guys are in front of you, or if we leave a room? Did you ever turn around to see a guy's butt? Thanks, I had to ask, or I would never know!

2007-10-31 10:42:23 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 13 now and all my friends are allowed to stay out till 10pm I want to stay out till the same time so I can see my bf and friends,there parents are cool with it but mine say no u should stay out till 9pm it really annoys me how im not treated the same and Im not the tpye who gets into fights so how can I conice them Im not a little kid anymore and dont give me answers like ''do what your parents say'' I have and its the first time ive ever been populer so I really really want to stay out so what should i do?

2007-10-31 10:39:13 · 83 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to go to the club with my guy friend, but what if I want to dance with someone else, would I be rude if I do?

2007-10-31 10:35:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

look at ur feeling or listen to your feeling or something like that. so today at school this guy asked why we werent going out and so david said that there were complecations with us going out (i slept with this guy 2 days before homecoming and we were supposed to go together i know it was stupid and i regret it!!!!!) then that guy or someone asked if we were over it or something with being over and david said apparently not. what did he mean by that and when i asked he said to listen to my feelings? what is he talking about what did he mean by those 2 things!!! please help!!!

2007-10-31 10:33:56 · 4 answers · asked by Ak 1 in Singles & Dating

Were talking about 13 year olds here...
Ok there is this girl that says hi to me more that normal and more than she does to anyone else, she laughs at things I say that aren't really that funny, she chose her seat near me in the two classes we have together, and her personal bubble twards me is about a foot smaller than anyone else (but not touching). Does this mean she wants to be friends or does it mean she likes me more than friends?

2007-10-31 10:33:40 · 10 answers · asked by Danny 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend says it is. He says that if I don't trust him then I don't love him. I disagree. I think you can love someone and not trust them.

2007-10-31 10:31:29 · 16 answers · asked by Green Tea Happy 3 in Weddings

Girls!
Today is your day.
Iam 19
I work out at lest 3 times a week
Im not much of a talker but I am a good Listener
I work as a boxing teacher at darlo gym.
So girls GET IN TOUCH
x x x x Ted Smith

2007-10-31 10:26:26 · 8 answers · asked by Ted Smith 1 in Singles & Dating

I really really like this guy we have went out once before & we have talked a few times since then!!(ABT GOIN BACK OUT)
But now he is goin out wit one of my friends and yet he still flirts with me when shes not around! I just have no idea wat to do! He wanted us to take him home from the bball game last nite & he told me dat he wasnt gonna call his gf bc he just didnt want to! I dont understand him! Pleaz HELP ME!!

2007-10-31 10:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by KEELY 1 in Singles & Dating

I Love you just to get something from you or just to feel Loved???

How many have Told you that they are in Love with you Online???
Do You Believe them???

2007-10-31 10:23:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm worried about my friend. I think she may need professional help. I asked her if she wanted to see the new 'Halloween' movie with me and she said she didn't want to because seeing movies like that gives her "strange thoughts". I couldn't go trick or treating this year and asked her did she want to go to a haunted maze. She said she didn't want to because being in that type of enviorment gave her "strange thoughts". I asked her what kind of thoughts she was talking about, but both times she couldn't tell me because her parents were in the room. Why would you be afraid of thoughts unless you thought they might turn into actions? Do you think I'm overreacting? What do you think I should do? Another thing is, she would say "I envy you" frequently. I remember one time I had just gotten my hair done and she said something like "It's so shiny, it looks soft. I envy you." She's the 'good girl' type but I can't help feeling like there's a side to her no one else knows. What do you think?

2007-10-31 10:19:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I saw uhhh my bro making out with a handheld gaming system O_O (god this is so stupid) Help me out here before he becomes the next Hitler

2007-10-31 10:18:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-31 10:18:22 · 5 answers · asked by Pam S 1 in Friends

however I have a child with him who he has not paid child support for in nearly 2 years, he also left me in tons of debt when I kicked him out including me paying off a car that he had and I was stupid enough to buy things for under HP. What should I do? Its like hes holding me to ransom

2007-10-31 10:18:21 · 19 answers · asked by groovy_glittered 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For the past 5 years, people i nmy family and people at my church have been saying I am going to marry a particular guy. I find it really weird because we are 10 years apart. The numerous people that tell me that I am going to marry him do not really communicate with each other. I just find it strange that people from numerous groups that I know say this. What am i suppose to think? He is 27 and im 17.... is there anything wrong if i do date him?

2007-10-31 10:18:13 · 31 answers · asked by babydip1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 10:16:59 · 1 answers · asked by patsy 1 in Friends

Well...I have had a good friend of mine for the past few yrs that is a Italian living in Italy (he speaks good English). Then, all of a sudden he told me that he started feeling pain in his body. After about half a yr, he told me they found a cancer in him but was not worried because he already has a plan for a surgery with a well-known doctor.

Then later, he told me the surgery was not successful and that he was just going through the treatment while planning for a next step.

Now I can't get in touch with him any longer. My emails get returned to me (his email account doesnt exist any longer), his cell phone is disconnected....I have his house and apartment phone numbers but when I contacted the numbers the people who picked up the phone said "No English" and hang up on me so...at this time I really dont know what to do....can anybody share their thoughts on what I should do as a friend?

Im really concerned about him.... sigh

2007-10-31 10:16:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how do i get girls if i'm always nervous?

2007-10-31 10:14:13 · 12 answers · asked by JU JU KILLA 1 in Singles & Dating