how do i get girls if i'm always nervous?
2007-10-31 10:14:13 · 12 answers · asked by JU JU KILLA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself
2007-10-31 10:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of young people ask the same question. then they worry if they are pregnant or caught an infection. sex is always something to worry about. But it doesn't really matter when you do it - it matters how. you can always pay a professional, but it's not the best way. you can find a girl who is doing it easily... or you can find a girl you really like. if you're so nervous... why don't you find an elder woman who'll be more experienced? but in fact you're worring about nothing. that'll happen when you don't expect. just don't forget to play safe and you'll be fine no matter how it all happens. first time is rarely great so don't expect much and think about it a lot. Have you watched that film about 40-years virgin(a man)? he found his love at last.
2007-10-31 17:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by ania361 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nervous. Act like you know what your doing. Rent the movie 40 Year Old Virgin
2007-10-31 17:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by biscuit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean nervous when you're around them or nervous when something intimate is about to happen? There's nothing wrong with waiting for the right girl to come along, you know. Just be yourself...
2007-10-31 17:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WRONG!! dont be yourself!!! obviously being yourself isn't working right?? what you got to do is "play the part" girls tend to go for guys who are cool. or pretend to be. build up your reputation as being cool and outgoing. trust me you'll get girls. go to parties socialise. think of it as an acting job.. you are apparently really shy, that's what's wrong. it wont get you no where unless you get lucky and come across a girl who knows what she wants and comes on to you. it can happen but if you want a lot of girls you need to stop being so shy! when you go out have a drink or two to loosen up, alcohol is liquid courage you know. dont over do it but have fun!. when girls see you are fun just act like "whatever" they'll come around. and when you meet a girl who you really want to be witn no just mess with her then you can open up to her and show her your shy side!!! good luck!
2007-10-31 17:27:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to start talking to women, even if you are not interested in them. It will break up your shyness.
Make yourself talk to girls everywhere you go. Then when you see one you like, look for signs that she's into you!
Buy a book on body language and learn to read them better.
Here's a link to the best one I have seen.
2007-10-31 17:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by Date Dr. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. 90% of the US population will marry and have children.
And if you only want to have sex so as not to be a virgin, you are doing it for absolutely the wrong reasons.
2007-10-31 17:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by truefirstedition 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just relax. dont think about it. act smooth. get their number and text them. youll be more outgoing when you write it out. seem cute, but not desperate.
and no you wont be a virgin forever :]]]
<33 Jillian
2007-10-31 17:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by CJ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No sooner or later someone will come by and show you the true meaning of pleasure
2007-10-31 17:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by yazmin21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and be yourself. If you act confident and try to flirt with her, it will go OK
2007-10-31 17:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by Gabrielle G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. If you be honest. There is nothing to fear, because your telling the truth.
2007-10-31 17:17:18 · answer #11 · answered by Finally Got It 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋