Family & Relationships - 30 October 2007

2007-10-30 23:59:56 · 9 answers · asked by Aylica 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together 3 years and a few months, I know he loves me, and i love him, but he says he is getting bored of the routine. I try to always think up things that he would love doing, I aint in a well paid job, though i could afford doing something special now and then, I hardly have any holiday days left, i only have 5 which i want to keep as im looking for another job so need them for interviews, my b/f has just came out of retail work and has joined a temp job from an agency which "maybe" ending in november (he hasnt been told much about that) he gets paid weekly and is absolutly broke, hes outgoings are double what hes incomings are. So with that, we dont have a lot of choices to do things, we go cinema and go clubbing now and then, Do you have any other ideas what we could do, and what can i do for him to get out of the "bored of the routine" phase. I please him everyway i can, its hurting me knowing that we could finish over not being so active socially.
Please. Thank you

2007-10-30 23:56:38 · 24 answers · asked by Fader's Girl 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I chose to leave the marriage after 13 years. My leaving her was, because everithing in my life with her has to be a nag and complain. I just could not take it anymore. Control issues, lack of patience. I love her, and she loves me. The divorce is imminent, and we are still together. She says she wants to be with me but she cant, in accoubt that I left her. I did not leave to be with another woman, in fact that was the last thing I needed then, more complication, no way. Just needed peace. She begged me back and I asked her to please make sure that if I did , to not be resentful or make it an issue, (I knew it would become one). I bought myself a car while I was separated, and she did not like that. I needed a better car for work. (only an issue because of what comes next). She said , If we are going to be back together, then I want a diamond ring. (not a 1 karat or 2 karat, but a 5.5 karat ring). I bought her one with my savings, which I knew thatit was stupid, but I love her so what.

2007-10-30 23:54:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-30 23:52:01 · 11 answers · asked by mandm68 6 in Marriage & Divorce

sometimes whenever we have really good sex and it starts getting rough and she gets wild and starts saying stuff like ima piss on your face and fart in your mouth and its turning me off please help

2007-10-30 23:50:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you do when your friend leaves his gf and wants to go back to his ex girlfriend who has caused trouble for him in the past, nearly ruined your friendship and is just a b*tch in general?? how do you convince him that he's making the wrong choice without getting him mad??

2007-10-30 23:41:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-30 23:39:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

scared you all when you saw the heading? I miss her posts because i looked forward to reading our responses. i like Roar he is so funny,

2007-10-30 23:37:58 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this guy we pretty much olny talk on line sometimes hang out for real but yea mainly online how can i amke him jealous cause he keeps trying to do it to me and hes not doing a very goodjob at it and he says he has a gf but i know he doesnt and has her pic up and he admited to likeing me before but i ididnt like him backat that time so i wanna get back at him for making me jealous without making it look like im trying to?

2007-10-30 23:37:29 · 4 answers · asked by Alysia 2 in Singles & Dating

I shower, I use deodorant and body spray, but still smell, I've been dealing with this problem for years now. I feel really hopeless, I notice everyone I'm around covering their noses & coughing when I'm near, even my freinds. Please someone help me. People say I reek, and I just dont understand how? I shower and everything. I've broken down in tears wondering whats wrong. I just want to live a normal life where I can interact with people without being paranoid that I smell. I feel like I'm losing my freinds over this dillema . If anyone can help me out, I would highly appreciate it.

Jason.

2007-10-30 23:36:53 · 11 answers · asked by Jason C 2 in Singles & Dating

Lmao, ok ok since I don't see myself getting back wit my ex any time soon, I met this girl who wants to get wit me. She's cute, funny, and got a sexy body, but she use to be in porn lol. Now I'm not one to judge but this is just something I had to ask before I decide rather to go out with her or not.

2007-10-30 23:36:23 · 23 answers · asked by startgate_kent 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl refuses to be with me, but keeps on calling me. I told her not to contact me anymore. Last time she called, she was crying about her exboyfriend from two years ago. I was offended by this. I thought it was B.S. I shouldn't have to hear about it. She broke up with me but keeps on calling. Well, last time she texted me. I told her flat out. "I don't want to be involved with you because I don't want to be around when you date other guys. I don't want to be a part of that". She sent me a text saying "I am not dating nor do I have any intentions of dating anyone". This was a lie because the day before she changed her myspace profile from here for friendship, to here for dating as well. Should I contact her? Should I keep doing what I am doing, which is staying away from her and refusing her contact? I don't know what to do. When I asked her why she texted me, she said "to see how you are doing". Not "lets get back together".

2007-10-30 23:36:13 · 5 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together just over 3 years now, 3 months into it we moved away from everything together, at about 18 months I cheated on him, twice with one guy then again with another, he caught me out and i confessed to everything, its been a long year and a bit since he found out, we've been through alot of arguments and tears and emotions... he said he'd try to forgive me but he doesnt know if he ever can...
And but whens hes angry with me he'll bring it up again to make me feel bad, we've thought about moving back home, but now its getting close he says hes not going till the scores even..?? I agreed to this as we havent been the same in the bed ever since I thought it may help...?? but when i agreed he said 'Maybe Im not like that' In other words he probly wont do it... but I want to move back home the sooner the better as this place brings it up often... if you know what i mean...
Do you think if we move back it will get his mind off it or will it make the situation worse? never ag

2007-10-30 23:31:48 · 16 answers · asked by twincamcelica 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 23:28:20 · 10 answers · asked by mike 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a geologist who should travel very much and mostly is in official missions. then it is very difiicult to find a wife who accept such a life situation with me.

2007-10-30 23:25:42 · 19 answers · asked by dj71_casanova 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to learn how to do a family tree

2007-10-30 23:19:40 · 6 answers · asked by deb 1 in Family

What will be a good marraige present to present to a very close relative of yours?

2007-10-30 23:12:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Please give me both medium priced and expensive gifts.

2007-10-30 23:11:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

And how old are/were you? I was 18 and I waited until we were going out for four months.

2007-10-30 23:06:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Also what could be the practical problems and drawbacks associated with this kind of relationship? And the solutions (if any) to these problems...

http://www.polyfamilies.com/index.html
http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html

2007-10-30 22:57:47 · 13 answers · asked by prad 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I'm 51 and am in my 2nd marriage of not even 3 years that is probably going to end within a few months from now!

In my 1st marriage my then 12 year old son walked in on me with my now current husband I was having an affair and well the divorce came not long after!

My husband got full custody and I got visitation plus child support of $900 a month, 3 weekends and once a week visits that I had to go to court for. My son was so angry and informed the judge what he thought of my husband and I for cheating on his father, he would not accept me anymore as his mother!

3 years later he'll be 15 on the 20th of Nov. and I'm still in doghouse and my son refuses to see me. Husband and I have more arguments now to the point that he left me and asked me for a divorce!

I thought I finally found my soul mate but he's living with another woman and telling me it was nothing but lust between us!
He also says I was a dry f**k and he was glad to get rid of me,
So much for true love!

2007-10-30 22:55:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What to do if you are on a first date with a girl and she offers to pay the bill, would you say no and act the nice guy or would you allow her to go ahead? Remember, its a first date.

2007-10-30 22:45:20 · 9 answers · asked by Jay U 2 in Singles & Dating

i like a girl and we've been texting each other for three weeks. she prefers it this way. i'm not sure why. i told her she looked beautiful in all her pitcures and asked her why she is changing her myspace pitcure so often. this is her reply:
':p awwh haha. yeah i guess i do change them a lot lol. I get bored of looking at the same one that's why :p'. What does this mean? does she like me? please dont give harsh answers as im not feeling really well now

2007-10-30 22:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First things first, i live in joint family......and can't move out right away.

So, give me solution other then that.

My bro-inlaws wife , who is very dear to my M.I.L and S.I.L by doing all her politics is runing my any chance of good relationship with my inlaws. She lie in funny way and criticize me to the point, she has convinced every female of the house that im going to take thier son away and move out.

Also that ONLY she does most of work, and i'm this that blah blah. She keeps telling them the smallest of things that happen in house. I married one year after her. She already had them stick to her all the time.

They never let me in, i tired and i tried. My sil and mil will even fight with me or accuse me coz of wt thier other D.I.L said.

They will even fight with thier son/bro if he takes my side. To the point that she yesterday said to my hubby that ur wife has definetely cast a spell on u.

its going no where, its all coz of bro-in-laws wife. help

2007-10-30 22:43:40 · 10 answers · asked by abeer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok .. i met this guy on the net i kinda lied about a few things like my age (by 2 years) and a few other small things.... we rely like each other .. atleast i think .. i feel really juilty .. should i came clean??

I'm a scared he will hate me and stop talking to me if i tell him ...

[[ -_- I sounds like a lozer!!!! ]]

Please help..

2007-10-30 22:39:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 and I've been sleeping with my best friends mother for the last few months and yesterday her husband found out. Now I don't know what to do cause I man oh man this has been the best 4 and a half months of my life. What should I do.?

2007-10-30 22:37:11 · 3 answers · asked by wildbeat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont understand my ex. We were together for three years and broke up a year ago. We cut off all communications for one whole year and suddenly he pops up out of no where and comments one of pictures on myspace 2 weeks ago, i took off the picture (including his comment) and put another one up which he commented again! I really love and care for him that's why i tried to keep my distance, cause i've come so far and was getting over him, but i dont know... is he trying to open up a friendship again? guys help me out! and he has a gf too. thanks in advance

2007-10-30 22:31:24 · 9 answers · asked by LT 1 in Singles & Dating

Now me and my ex are cool, and I still got some feelings for her. But a couple of weeks ago I saw her new boyfriend wit another girl. Now I'm not 100% if the other girl was just nobody you know. I do know that wasn't my ex. I wanna say something cuz I don't wanna see her hurt. And I don't wanna say anything cuz she may think I'm say this just to start something and I may just be wrong. Or if I don't say anything and he is being a cheat, she might not ever know. Some body help me out.

2007-10-30 22:27:33 · 10 answers · asked by startgate_kent 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 22:26:51 · 22 answers · asked by Wizzy.F.BABY 1 in Singles & Dating

This is for both girls and guys to answer. I want to see if you can list 5 things, from most important to least important which in your eyes make a guy or a girl a good catch for dating or more..what are they and why is it important to you.

2007-10-30 22:19:12 · 15 answers · asked by Sexy Bear 1 in Singles & Dating