What to do?

Question

I'm 18 and I've been sleeping with my best friends mother for the last few months and yesterday her husband found out. Now I don't know what to do cause I man oh man this has been the best 4 and a half months of my life. What should I do.?

Answer 1

DO about what?
You can't undo the damage to the marriage
or the"best friend" relationship. You can't excuse your behaviour (even though you seem to revel in all the fun you had - at the expense of distress to others).
You make no reference to the wife's feelings
so it's a matter of conjecture as to whether
she's full of remorse or glad of the
experience.
But since you ask for advice I can only suggest you think very carefully about YOUR responsibility in the matter.It is a fact that some young men are easily led on but that is often the excuse of dickheads who follow their own selfish desires and ignore the consequences.
If the conseqences are painful for all concerned you should face up to them and appreciate that adultery is a very serious
matter - not a bit of fun you can walk away from. One day you might be the deceived partner - would you then treat it lightly?
If I was in your shoes (marriage wrecker?)
I would keep my head down but find a way of expressing regret for the distress - a
simple letter could be helpful. But if you aren't sorry for the escapade there's no helpful advice others can give you.

Answer 2

Don't even go there, just move on and forget about it. You are such a GOOD friend that you broke up his whole family, and because you destroyed this family with your and her selfishness, you made that decision tooo, so go cry to your mother, or maybe your friend needs her to cheer him up????


peace

Answer 3

Idiot!!