Now me and my ex are cool, and I still got some feelings for her. But a couple of weeks ago I saw her new boyfriend wit another girl. Now I'm not 100% if the other girl was just nobody you know. I do know that wasn't my ex. I wanna say something cuz I don't wanna see her hurt. And I don't wanna say anything cuz she may think I'm say this just to start something and I may just be wrong. Or if I don't say anything and he is being a cheat, she might not ever know. Some body help me out.
2007-10-30 22:27:33 · 10 answers · asked by startgate_kent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her everything you know and what you saw. She might already know about the other person, but if she doesn't, she needs to know. And let her know you are just watching out for her. She will understand and may even thank you.
2007-10-30 22:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kismitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youre still in good terms and have full trust in eachother, then maybe she would appreciate you telling her.
However, she could take this as a jealousy thing...like youre trying to break them up or something. It really depends how close you are to her at the moment
Try finding out more about this new girl....she could simply just be a friend or something..
2007-10-30 22:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by heart_sunglasses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id tell her,
Ask her to just bring it up with him and see what kind of reaction she gets...
If hes all defencive theres gotta be something and if he has a perfectly good explanation for it then no need to worry..... ( Unless hes a good lier.....
But do be cautious when bringing it up with her as she may get that feeling that your trying to cause something but Assure her that your not and just care for her!
2007-10-30 22:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by twincamcelica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you consult ur ex's boyfriend. you ask him who was that he ws hanging out with and maybe it was just a friend. but if things get a little nasty with him and that girl, u better break it to ur ex calmly and truthfully. you bring with you a good friend who knows abwt all the lying and the cheating when you tell her this so that she wouldn't think u were just making up lies. good luck with it...hope u take my advice!
2007-10-30 22:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by bellaviolet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Dude,
I really appreciate your concern , understand something this is a delicate issue and you have to put it in a way that it doesnt offend herand also she shouldnt think bad of you....so go to her speak to her and show that you really care for her and you really mean what you say...
Cheers and Chillax
2007-10-30 22:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by Prince 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved. Let someone else tell her. She probably would not believe you anyway, considering your previous attachment.
2007-10-30 22:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to tell her. It would be alful if she is being cheated on and he brings her and STD. If she doesn't believe you, that is no longer your problem, you did your part...
2007-10-30 22:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sure then approach her personally or through some mutual friend or any friend
2007-10-30 22:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by dust s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her... then say... see i never would have done that. then make out with her sister.
2007-10-30 23:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by 2amend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends
2007-10-30 22:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋