Family & Relationships - 30 October 2007

The girls I work with keep stealing my sequined G-Strings and matching tassels. Now, I can't prove who's doing it but I have my suspicions... I know she's jealous of how many dollars I get during my shift and how many loyal customers I have.

Whenever I take a client to the private VIP couch in the back, she follows me back there and tries to muscle in on my action! She even threatened one of my regulars once claiming to know his wife! I just can't take it anymore and I'm considering telling the owner that she's dancing on a fake ID. Even though she'll be 18 in 7 months, I think the owner just might make her take a couple days off for being less then forthcoming with him! Not having her around for a few days would sure be a nice vacation!

It's really horrible, and I can't really apply myself to my craft while there's this negative cloud hanging over me.

Any suggestions on how to handle this would be greatly appreciated!

2007-10-30 15:13:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For you current students and former students, how much did you see/do in your school in terms of PDA?

Did you see the acceptable limits pushed?

2007-10-30 15:12:50 · 11 answers · asked by Heat 1 in Singles & Dating

We (bride and groom) take pictures with wedding party SEPERATELY starting at 6pm. The ceremony starts at 7pm. I want to meet him in the garden outside of the chapel to "steal" a moment alone with him around 15 min before ceremony starts. Plus, I want our photographer to capture our looks of surprise ( or disappointment ha ha) when we first see each other. Is that so wrong? Am I messing up tradition? No mean or stupid answers, i am serious.

2007-10-30 15:12:44 · 35 answers · asked by sweetsfromdat817 3 in Weddings

my dad and my stepmother are paying for the wedding and I think the invitation should be addressed that my dad and my step mother be hosting and say there names. The problem is is that my mother is upset if i do not mention her in the invitation but technically since she is not paying and i do not think that she should be mentioned but i dont want to hurt her feelings. Any suggestions on wording for the invitations so that i dont hurt anyones feelings?

2007-10-30 15:11:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

where do you find a rich women? perferrably 19-22 years old. where can i go to find them?

2007-10-30 15:09:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have narrowed my choice down to 2.

One of my friends I have known for about 12 years. We were best friends in high school, we have been roommates for 3 years, and we work together. However I am worried about him doing something stupid because when he drinks he drinks too much and always gets plastered. He says stupid things and dosent remember what he said the next day.

The other I have known for about 10 years. I hang out with him more often, our girlfriends get along, I also feel like I can tell him anything. He was the only one that knew that I bought a ring and was about to propose. I feel that he is a closer friend to me. He is more responsible in general and I would trust him with anything.

I just don't know. I think that #2 is a better choice but I am afraid that #1 will hold it against me because we have been good friends for so long.

Do you have any advice for letting one of them down easy...

2007-10-30 15:09:03 · 19 answers · asked by Brian W 2 in Weddings

So theres this girl who after the day i met her, she became obsessed with me. Now when i say obsessed i mean obsessed! So much that her friends kept advising me to ask her out to our high school homecoming, bcos she kept telling her friends how much she thout i was hot and she liked me!
At the time, i didnt like her enough that i would ask her out, however i had nothing against her because she was a very nice person - which is how i started becoming attracted to her. As days and weeks went by she would keep questioning me as to whether i liked her or not, i wasnt sure so i kept saying 'yes i do'. It seemed like the more i like her the less attention she gave me, especially after i asked her out to homecoming.
At homecoming I spent $50 on her including her ticket. Everything was going smooth until we got there, she ditched me and that nite she txted me how she was sorry and she likes me but she thinks we're different, i told her i like her.
Can someone please explain this girl to me?

2007-10-30 15:07:53 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k, theres this guy and i really dont like him , but he likes me....alot, its getting sooo annoying, and lately ive been acting sorta cold to him, you'd think he'd get the point, right? wrong, i think, he thinks, that im tryna play hard to get or sumthin....ughh how do i get him to leave me alone???

2007-10-30 15:03:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is to determine, which among the two is better.

2007-10-30 15:03:23 · 23 answers · asked by Ramy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother in law, is crazy, for real, she has never liked me, cause she says I act like I am better than they are...Which I do NOT...I just have my ways of doing things, and they differ from thiers. Well we have had fight after fight, cause she favors her other grandson over our two kids. She never visits us, gets the kids crap for holidays and such, and we just bought a house, invited them numerous times to come see our new house, and they finally came after 4 months. My hubby wasnt home, so I sat there for an very awkward 15-20 mins. and talked to them and updated them on the kids and thier activities. Well she just sent me an email stating that she wants nothing to do with us "all". How crazy is that???? And with the holidays coming and my daughters birthday is in two weeks and I invited them, and now they want nothing to do with us...the bad part is I did nothing to any of them.... What is the best way to deal with this? and should I respond to the email or ignore it?

2007-10-30 15:01:51 · 16 answers · asked by luv my gsd 1 in Family

im 15. my house is loud. i cant sleep. its 2:00 am. i have school. i get up at 6:00. i cant stay up all night, i wont make it. how im crying so hard because im so angry about not sleeping. how can i sleep and i mean now? i want to die. mom will make me to go to. even if im puking or really sick. help

2007-10-30 14:59:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 8 months.. i'm 17 and he's 19. (seeing he should be more mature) we've recently been arguing over the stupidest things lately. He gets mad/jealous anytime i'm TEXTING on my phone- even when i'm not with him. He makes it a big issue and then it turns into a fight. i can't even use my cell phone anymore- there isn't a point in me having a phone anymore! Is this normal???

2007-10-30 14:58:26 · 28 answers · asked by ERiKA ! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents are always sticking up for him, and they see what goes on but do nothing. They yell at me. Im not playing the poor me card either, this is all true. I am nothing but nice to him. I would love nothing more than to physicaly mess his *** up but Im not strong enough. And I know that would just make things worse. Any Ideas? Please help.

2007-10-30 14:57:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I broke up with my ex end of last yr... well we just stop contacting each other so it wasnt a verbal breakup.
We havent met up for a yr but we still keep in contact with each other.
Today we are gonna go for dinner and i dunno if i should sleep with him or no. We always laugh and get along great, we are both very similar to each other...He's really gorgeous and i do find him attractive..but i dont know if i should make a move on him tonight?

2007-10-30 14:57:43 · 14 answers · asked by amy r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married for 17 yrs and he filed divorce.I was tried of the bad treatment.So he decided to tell me this about two weeks ago.He cheated a couple of times,I came up with a s.t.d in 1998.I was so crazy to stay with him.It has been very hard to deal with this.Our divorce will be final tomorrow.Do we have to talk about this in court?

2007-10-30 14:56:28 · 7 answers · asked by cash07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have dated the guy I'm with now for almost 5 years, we have already been through sickness and heatlh and through richer and poorer. We are so close now, he really is my best friend. He has even told me that he knows I'm "the one" and he knows that we will be together forever and he is so happy with me and I feel the same...but he has yet to ask me and there is no hint that he ever will. I don't want to force him to propose but should I keep waiting or what I've been thinking lately is asking him, my sister did that to her now husband-but I'm afraid he'll say no and I'll be crushed. Please help with any advice.

2007-10-30 14:50:59 · 5 answers · asked by dixiechick_sc 2 in Singles & Dating

I found divorce papers in the back of their closet,but i didn't see the names,and there's this "big" family secret!

2007-10-30 14:50:01 · 32 answers · asked by ♥caligirl99♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

tomorrow is halloween
and i spent alot of money on
my halloween costume and i prolly
wont be able to go what should i do please
help

2007-10-30 14:46:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my mom had me check my sisters email , to see what shes been up to, she has recently been stealing off my mother and lieing and my mom just wanted to know. So i gave my mom her pass word and username . Should i feel bad for invading her privacy.

2007-10-30 14:44:32 · 5 answers · asked by LuckY GirL 4 in Family

do you think it's fair that my mom's was boyfriend of 11 years is messing around with my cousin on my dads side which still called my mom aunt and even went to help make arrangements for her

2007-10-30 14:42:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mom and stepdad got divorced years ago and she got custody and she kept the house (which she paid the down payment for and has paid the mortgage on for the last 6 years). My stepdad wants custody of my brothers because they are failing in school, and my mom is willing to give him custody so they can go to a better school but is afraid if she gives him custody he will try to take the house from her in court. Will a court allow something like that to happen? We live in Utah, and my stepdad has paid child support of about $500 a month for the last 6 years. He did not put any money into the house initially, but did pay the mortgage for the 3 or 4 years he lived there while he and my mom were married. Does he have any interest in the house?

2007-10-30 14:39:01 · 9 answers · asked by lulu22785 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He says he not a sexual person like me. Why would he say that and then look up porn. I don't have a problem with him looking at porn but it makes me wonder.
I'm thin, should I be concerned?

2007-10-30 14:38:13 · 11 answers · asked by Mrs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband when he is angry with me say that he has slept with another woman in the current one a female co-worker. He says its the only way to hurt me because I have not done the lying he has done about dumb things like not telling me he was eating lunch with his female co-workers for 4 months, has given people rides home. Tells me he doesnt tell me about it because I get to jeolous and i don't have to know everything. Well I beleive you should tell your spouse things that happen with the opposite sex because then there is no reason for lying, hiding and wondering what else is not being told. I tell him about everything so one he is apart of my life all the way around and he knows what I am doing and whom I am with. I am married him not anyone else. I care what he thinks of me so that is why I can't understand why he hides things or lies about them. I go sick of him saying that I made hide it or lie . That is blaming me for him not be honest.

2007-10-30 14:34:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

On saturday my sister asked me to babysitt with her (me 14, her 17) they are two kids I think one is an infant and the other is abour 2 or 3, She said we would watch them froma about 10am-10pm. But she said I would be doing evreything becuase she is going to sit around and do homework. But she said that she gets paid and not me. Does that sound fair?

2007-10-30 14:34:15 · 12 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

We have been married since march of 2007, I'm in the military she hasn't worked since april. Now she goes to school, and school only.

2007-10-30 14:32:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I get sooo nervous around men. This has been going on for years now. When I'm in a coffee shop and they look at me, I flinch, then I think oh they might think I like them, then I get so nervous. Having a guy sit in front of me? Forget it! Can you help me conquer this ONCE AND FOR ALL?
I will give you 100 points to someone who really helps me.
It has to do with, I get nervous around them to begin with, until, maybe, I hear them talk, either to me or other people about themselves.
My biggest FEAR is that they'll think I like them because I act so nervous around them, which isn't the case...because I don't. Help PLEASE ? Thanks!!!

2007-10-30 14:32:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, my mother in law lives with us (my husband, myself and our daughter). I am ready to do something that I said I would never do, make him choose between our marriage and his mother. She is always in our business, even when we don't ask her advise. She is always trying to tell me what, how, when to raise my daughter. She goes out and buys things that I plan on getting my little one, when I tell her she gets mad. There is so much that goes on I can't even explain in it all in here because it just all won't fit. Another for instance, when the baby gets up n the morning, you can lay her down and tell her she can't get up until daddy is up, she lays back down, my mother in law gets her up and puts her in bed with her and then it causes problems. When I try to talk about my husband tells me I am over reacting and leave it alone. Blames me..sticks up for her. And won't listen to anything I have to say.

What should I do?

2007-10-30 14:30:15 · 8 answers · asked by Just Want To B Me 4 in Family

Im 19 and a virgin by choice. I recently started going out with a guy from my university and I really like him - hes funny, smart, friendly and good-looking - but only prob is he keeps pressuring me for sex. We've only been going out for three weeks! He says that i'm getting a reputation as a ****-tease and that he keeps getting really painful blue balls. Aside from this our relationship is great so far. Am I just being prudish or is it right to wait a bit longer until im sure hes the right guy??

2007-10-30 14:28:29 · 5 answers · asked by SunnyGal 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 14:27:12 · 3 answers · asked by Linda Fallsrock 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Her sister used her the way my "friend" used me so I thought she would understand. She told me not to be negative & wouldn't even listen to me! Her sister & my ex-friend were friends.

My so-called "friend" stayed with us for 6 months, no expenses, I bought not only her needs, but her wants, cigarettes, vodka, etc.

2007-10-30 14:26:29 · 6 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Friends