I found divorce papers in the back of their closet,but i didn't see the names,and there's this "big" family secret!
2007-10-30 14:50:01 · 32 answers · asked by ♥caligirl99♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
confront them about it...they are your parents...they should not kepp things like that secret from you!!!
2007-10-30 14:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by .... 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Did you have a legitimate reason for being in their closet?
If the papers were in blue paper, that doesn't mean that they are divorce papers, or even theirs. A lot of legal papers come in blue. If you didn't see the name why assume.
If there is a family secret, are you going to be apart of it by sneaking around things / places and not talk about it.
You might be in the correct family or make a difference.
2007-10-30 14:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by benejueves 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents can always fill out the paperwork without an attorney. However, to make it legal, it has to be stamped and signed by a judge. It would appear that maybe the 'big' secret is that they are planning on getting a divorce, but have not filled it out yet. Divorce papers MUST have the names on it. If all else fells, ask them!
2007-10-30 14:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're driving in the car with one of your parents (without the other one there) ask them what the "big" family secret is. If they don't fess up at first. Ask them if it has something to do with divorce. Try this with both parents separately, then compare answers.
2007-10-30 14:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by sightlines 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hesitate. Its your right to know. Ask them if they say there still married then go to the closet when you have a chance again and look at the names. What you do next is up to you. Me I would look at the name to see if it's them then ask then and see what they say. Don't tell them that you already know.
2007-10-30 14:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you're asking what to do about your findings. As almost everyone has said, ask them about it. If you have any siblings then I wouldn't do it in front of them. Ask if you can talk to them privately and tell them what you found out. That's not something you keep from your kids when it's going to effect them too. They may be planning to tell you later, or it could be a big misunderstanding. Either way you need to confront them about it. Good luck.
2007-10-30 14:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by Crosby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back to their closet and check the names. it is better to be sure, than to create an awkward moment. maybe the big family secret is a new baby! (or maybe its the divorce)
2007-10-30 14:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by ▐▀▀▼▀▀▌ ► Pogo ◄ ▐▄▄▲▄▄▌ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uhm, if your parents are living together, it really doesn't matter if they're married, have been married or divorced. In fact, I wouldn't even consider it your business. For you, it's like they're married. Now, I think asking your parents will only upset them because you were snooping through their things, you know when your parents snoop through your stuff? Well, what can you say now? You do it too. Terrible.
2007-10-30 14:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by some female 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask them.Tell them you were snooping and found out .Go back and look at the name on it.Mabe they will tell you in time or mabe they were married to someone else before you came along .Might be one of them was married to someone else at one time.Ask if they have ever been married before.If you want to know you have to ask
2007-10-30 14:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by mamaw2305 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a question here? If they are divorced wouldn't you probably know it? Do they still live together? Are they friendly towards each other? Do they sleep in the same bed? Do they knock boots? Does this answer your question? Are there enough questions here?
2007-10-30 14:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by en tu cabeza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask them what the papers are. You might get into trouble though snooping in their closet...think about that first.
2007-10-30 14:53:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋