I broke up with my ex end of last yr... well we just stop contacting each other so it wasnt a verbal breakup.
We havent met up for a yr but we still keep in contact with each other.
Today we are gonna go for dinner and i dunno if i should sleep with him or no. We always laugh and get along great, we are both very similar to each other...He's really gorgeous and i do find him attractive..but i dont know if i should make a move on him tonight?
2007-10-30 14:57:43 · 14 answers · asked by amy r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No sex. Don't complicate things.
2007-10-30 16:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are unsure, so you should wait. I've been in a similar situation, seeing an ex after an extended break. A lot of the attraction is still there and you realise why you were together initally. But seriously, I did choose to sleep with him, and we had a honeymoon period of all of 3 weeks until we both realised... "ah, that's why it didn't work!". Since you are unsure, wait, and before you make the decision to go there again, be sure you look at all the reasons you left (or he left) the first time around... can you take him back with the good AND the bad???
2007-10-30 15:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by violet 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You broke up once already.Why?
If you should end up pregnant whether intentional or not, what then?
What if you realize you still love him and he uses you for a "booty call" then dumps you?
No to the sex and if he wants to date again, date with no sex for a yr and see what you BOTH are to one another.
2007-10-30 15:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't know where and with whom he's been since you last saw him. You're also assuming he wants to sleep with you. Nowadays, being hot for someone isn't a good enough reason, especially if you don't have any kind of real relationship with them. There's just too much disease around; regardless of your history it only takes one time to get a "lasting memory."
If you want it because it's there, it's up to you. Personally, I'd pass.
2007-10-30 15:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why SHOULD you make a move? Let him. Whatever the reason why the two of you broke up has no bearing on whether the two of you will hook up. Let him pursue you and then do whatever your heart tells you to from there.
2007-10-30 15:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you make your move another time?
At this meeting, let your choice intrigue him .. and charm him.
If you and he like each other enough .. and like each other in the right way .. then there will always be another time.
Just wait. It will be worth it.
2007-10-30 15:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What wrong with making friends without sex?
2007-10-30 15:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Seph2 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever feels right when the time comes.
2007-11-01 12:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jeremy© ® ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that guy your BF? If yes and you sure you love him and he loves you too and both of you are prepared for responsibility so why not..... don't do it if it is just curiosity.....but in the end you are the one decide it.
2007-10-30 15:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by ivillijo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
remember Elaine and Puddy from Seinfeld...
if you sleep with him....you will fall back into something that you may or may not want...you have to decide if you want that..
2007-10-30 15:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋