We have been married for 17 yrs and he filed divorce.I was tried of the bad treatment.So he decided to tell me this about two weeks ago.He cheated a couple of times,I came up with a s.t.d in 1998.I was so crazy to stay with him.It has been very hard to deal with this.Our divorce will be final tomorrow.Do we have to talk about this in court?
2007-10-30 14:56:28 · 7 answers · asked by cash07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Strange that I don't know you, but I feel a sense of happiness for you & your new beginning tomorrow.
I have experienced your tomorrow and I will share with you how I felt. As much as I wanted him out of my life, when we walked out of the court & I was single again, I felt very alone & I said that to him. He laughed, and said "well we can go get married again". I said, OH no, I'll be alright, I just feel empty & then it came to me, I was going to miss all the
"Wasted Days & Wasted Nights', I'd spent with him.
I did just fine, one day at a time and you will to hun.
Four years later, I married a wonderful military man & we had 4 children & having Christ in this marriage has made the difference. We are so grateful for every day we share with each other. This is what I wish for you, a great future ahead.
I will be thinking of you tomorrow & put yourself out there, with your head held high. Congraulations !!!! ~~~~~
2007-10-30 15:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, if he is the one that filed for the divorce you don't have to say anything at all but just agree. If you have papers that show you had the std you may want to take them with you in case he pulls something strange but you shouldn't need then and he probably won't mention that because it is a reflection upon himself. You just need to be happy that you are rid of him!!
2007-10-30 15:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You don't have to sit together and won't have to talk. Let your attorney do as much of the talking for you as possible. And stick to your attorney like glue until you can get out so you don't have to deal with your ex at all.
2007-10-30 17:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. you will not have to explain anything in court why you want to get a divorce. that's so pathetic of your husband to be such a jerk like that. girl you can find much better than him anyways. good luck.
2007-10-30 15:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he doesn't do anything but hurt you.. you don't have to talk in court to him the lawyers will do that. i hope you fine life more pleasant without him now.. and congrat on starting a new life. one that will be filled with laughter and happiness. good luck
2007-10-30 15:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't have to talk about it in court. You won't have to explain why you want a divorce.
2007-10-30 15:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope you really dont have to talk about this in court.
Best of everything to you and may you get through this with the grace of a woman
2007-10-30 15:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by itsjust me123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋