Family & Relationships - 30 October 2007

Me and my boyfriend lives together. I let him use my phone one day. He came home late. The next morning before I went to work, I checked my phone and there was a *67 and a phone number. I questioned him about this phone number. First, he told me that it was his friend's phone number( this guy we know). I called the number back because this phone number was located on my phone where you could find out the last number a person dialed IF YOU ERASE IT FROM THE DIALED MENU. He doesn't know this. It was a childhood friend of his that he grew up with, but she was not around for a long time and just resurfaced recently. He try to tell me that he calls her "his cousin" because they grew up together. Anyway, a few months ago, I came to pick him up from work one day. He vanishes after work.. He knows I pick him up around the same time from work. I trusted my first instinct and went over his sister's house and guess who was on the porch ? His sister, him and the childhood so-called cousin.

2007-10-30 12:29:36 · 3 answers · asked by shybutnaughty 1 in Singles & Dating

How was it? It happened the way you imagined? Was romantic? Was the most important day of your life? Have you promised your mom or your grandmother you will be a bride? I am just curious how people weddings are, what do people feel in their wedding day. I was reading somewhere how the wedding day is the day when the groom loves his wife the most. It sounded romantic. Tell me about you guys.

2007-10-30 12:27:40 · 10 answers · asked by Divinaâ?¢ 2 in Weddings

2007-10-30 12:27:10 · 17 answers · asked by Trisha 1 in Weddings

Okay guys.... This sis orta a serious question.... Okay so my family just had a wedding and a BUNCH of my family members came up to visit for the wedding.. Well sadly they left today and im feeling sorta depressed about my 2 cousins... We got to hang out only like 3 days because he had to leave right away since he's in the army, and my OTHER cousin had to leave with her baby..... I've always felt this when someone left... ( GAY, i know right..) Well, anyways, i was asking someone about this and they said *they had NO clue thought..* that this could be a sorta of depression.. And it kindda sucks.. Anyone want to help me out with these..

1. Could this be a sorta of depression..
2. Anyone want to help me cheer up - My other friend suggested that I find something to do besides think about missing them... Got any ideas for ANYTHING?

2007-10-30 12:24:35 · 1 answers · asked by Jamie L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My hubby of 3.5 yrs and i have so many problems i would like to solve one for my sanity!My hubby and i have a lot of dogs 3 Labs and one German Shepard who are part of my families breeding program.Since my family has been breeding champions and work dogs since the 80's i know my dogs.Then we have an Akita,Westie,beagle,a cat who thinks its a dog and a rhodesian ridge back that my hubby bought a year ago to go hunting with him.Four of theses dogs were taken in by me personally or bought.The rest were brought home by my husband with the exception of the cat(stray)that wandered into our yard.I love animals and am the main caregiver to the animals but it takes alot of time /effort on my part to train each one.My hubby recently brought home a Cane Corso with the logic of making 2 grand per puppy.How to convince him this is a horrible idea!The dog is already fighting with our current dogs..

2007-10-30 12:23:57 · 14 answers · asked by Jenna F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i met this girl while i was away working in the US.we got incredably close,as were great friends.i have never had such a close conection with a girl and it was great.Towrds the end of the time working together she kissed me,on two separes a occasions.The second time we spent much of the night kissing,but it waas her that innitiated it.After i finished working there and stopped seeing her i relised how much she had become to mean to me,in the short time i had known her.We both live in London,and the other week we meet up,along with others that we worked with.It was like we had never been apart we laughed and joked just like we did all summer.And that night we kissed again,which she once again initiated.But since i have not been able to stop thinking about her.I know it may sound like she likes me to,but i think it was just a bit of fun for her in the summer,and when she kissed me she was always drunk.So i doubt anything could ever happen.But i like her so much.What should i do?

2007-10-30 12:22:47 · 23 answers · asked by Xavier W 1 in Singles & Dating

had someone tell you that you were the love of there life.. they could not love someone so much.. only to leave you and marry someone else.. oh yeah they also use the old .. i dont want things to change betwee us

2007-10-30 12:21:44 · 14 answers · asked by vis 7 in Marriage & Divorce

hi...
can anyone tell me what should i do??? i found out that my husband watches porn and visits adult chat sites when i was checking for something else in history of explorer...i came across this....now.....what should i do??? should i discuss this openly with him or just let me continue by ignoring this...our sexlife is ok and i love him.

2007-10-30 12:20:30 · 19 answers · asked by wise 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the 2 of them have never gotten along. She also has a new BF that is not much older than the son and the 2 of them clash badly. She sent him here with the clothes on his back and that is it. Here is the problem. My husband contacted Child Support enforcement and let them know that the son was dwelling with us and faxed them paperwork from his school showing that he was indeed enrolled in school here. OCSE them mailed the mother a form to sign to stop child support and SHE REFUSED TO SIGN IT AND STATED THAT AS LONG AS THE COURT ORDER SHOWED THAT SHE HAD PHYSICAL CUSOTDY SHE WANTED THE MONEY. Unbelievable, I know.We do not even want support from her.We just want to stop paying her. My husband and I went to an attorney who wants 3 thousand bucks just to change the court order. In our state the age that a child can choose which parent they want to live with is 14. OKay, so here is my question. Isn't there an easier way to go about having this court order modified since he is living with us

2007-10-30 12:14:25 · 9 answers · asked by whatshername 5 in Marriage & Divorce

over the coarse of 5 or 6 years, and you never have.


What would you do


It seems "Im cheating on her wit a new person every week"

2007-10-30 12:12:29 · 56 answers · asked by That Guy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't think there's anything wrong I did, and she won't tell me otherwise, but I know there's something wrong.

2007-10-30 12:12:18 · 26 answers · asked by Iceman 3 in Singles & Dating

this guy at the gym said"you don't work"?Becauise i am always there at odd hours 9-11 am,but i am a musician and supplement it with other stuff(designing websites).How could he ask such a thing?What an idiot...-

2007-10-30 12:10:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my older brother is mentally ill, it's something where he is jealous of people, and he can't control his emotions or anger, espicially anger.
So he hits (family) people, and he starts getting everything he wants, he misbehaviors
my parents take him to a fitness center (he likes those)
he goes fishing
he gets the pinpong table he wants,
he gets a new desk,
the new computer,
he even got my room,
everything to anything like my only slice of cake.

And I feel like I can't take it anymore, I want to kick him out of the house, I hate him, so much.
Sometimes I ignore him, but he gets me so depressed.
I still have to be in school for 9 hours, then homework, then waking up in at 6 a.m.
Then I have to listen to him, how he wishes that I would have died in my sleep the next morning.
How should I behave infront of him?
What should I Do?

2007-10-30 12:07:58 · 21 answers · asked by ;) 2 in Family

2007-10-30 12:07:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they look at girls with light brown skin instead of girls with dark brown skin. why?

2007-10-30 12:02:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've heard my friends say that. What does it mean?

2007-10-30 11:59:50 · 1 answers · asked by . 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay the guy i like is in my house right now hanging with my brother. just about 10 mins ago he came kncking on my room door asking me for a chord for the computer that they needed.only i was so embaressed because i thought it was my brother and whe he kncked i was kinda rude and was like "WHAT!?". anyway now i feel so embaressed. but i really like him and it was like closest ive been to him and the most ive talked to him and there is just this amazing feeling inside me right now that is hard to explain.When i opened the door im pretty sure my mouth was open but i dont know since i was too busy looking at him. lol. anyway i just wanted to share that and wanted to ask: do you thing there is anything there?could i really feel that strong about a guy i hardly even know?was this a way of flirting with me at all?

and other things you wanna comment on or say.please do. i need as much advice as i can get..

2007-10-30 11:57:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Currently i am in college and most of the women i like, i have hard time talking to them. When i try to talk to a women i keep keeping getting nerves. I can talk to women but the ones that i like or meet, i just don't know what to do for some unknown reason.
Any help will be good thanks

2007-10-30 11:57:34 · 9 answers · asked by Johnny 5 in Singles & Dating

and several other "family members" inwhich some may and will be seated at the same table.I have limited my options to be 1 of 3. Dont go #1 , Leave after cocktail #2,and call and decline after i have accepted the invite. Need advice my wife has no problem with staying, the problem is leaving after cocktail hr. I have the problem staying.

2007-10-30 11:57:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Has this ever happened to you? Were there any RED FLAGS in the begining of the relationship.What were the warning signs that the relationship was going to become abusive.

2007-10-30 11:57:15 · 13 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Explain why please. =]

2007-10-30 11:56:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 11:55:31 · 14 answers · asked by Jenny E 1 in Weddings

I totally like this guy in my class and today i gave him the impression that i had a boyfriend. and when he heard that i did, he was like 'NO YOU DONT, YOUR LYING' lol ya he was also smiling when he said that. so do you think he was jealous or something? ( and i really dont have a boyfriend lol)

2007-10-30 11:53:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His family is rude. We never talk to them. He is just my bf, not husband, fiance, etc. His father told me " You are going and that is final" I dont want to go!
Its 2400 miles away from where we live. The only reason I have a ticket there is because its in our home town and my mom bought me one to vist her over Thanksgiving.
My bf is in the wedding, therefore I wont even sit by him at dinner.
I have plans to be with my family and friends.
Is this rude of me????? Im sure the wedding will go on w/o me!

2007-10-30 11:52:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My sister just got married in July, her husband is very verbaly abusive, they can't get along without arguing. He's after her money, she quit her job as an accountant to pursue her master's in finance. He's nagging her every day for having to quit her job, and he gambled their money away on stocks.
She called today and told me that she met this guy that graduated from MIT, and they're having an affair.
So I'm wondering if this is too good to be true, do guy like him chase after married women for the sake of competition or maybe he's for real?
I'm asking because she talk to me everyday, I'm tempted to tell her to dump her husband go for the other guy

2007-10-30 11:52:05 · 10 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I'm 19 and I have never had an orgasm, with someone or by myslef. I have a bf, and whenever he goes down on me I get to a feeling like I really have to pee. I am afraid that I will pee on him. He tells me to just let it go, but even when I try I can't. Does this mean I am close to having an orgasm, or is it something else? Also, how can I just relax and let the feeling go?

2007-10-30 11:48:40 · 1 answers · asked by love2luvya90 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so my bff likes this guy who i am not sure is so good to hang around..hes my age and shes a year younger than us..were sophomores & shes afreshman...he liked her this summer and asked all his friends to ask her out and stuff but she hated him...he got her vibe and tried to give her space and not be really in her face..but he was always really nice to her and got upset with her once before because she kinda has a fiery spunky headstrong personality and i guess they kinda clash even tho hes usually like really calm...but now she likes him and he still likes her...i kno that once he sees she doesnt hate him anymore he will ask her out and i told her that..i think they both really like eachother now...but the thing is hes a year older than her (not much i kno), he smokes, he's done a lot of girls, and im not sure if he drinks or does drugs but i wouldnt be surprised...i dont like him at all and she knows that...should she go out with him even tho he is bad news but she really likes him?

2007-10-30 11:48:27 · 20 answers · asked by Nicole 3 in Singles & Dating

I had an affair this last summer with a married man, got pregnant and lost baby but before that i told him about the pregnancy and four weeks later lost the baby(girl) at 17 weeks. he did tell his wife now she wants to talk to me and wants to hear my side of the story. what should i do? how do i do this with out hurting her feelings which i've done so already?? help...anyone

2007-10-30 11:46:59 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Will you dump a guy for being a bad kisser?

2007-10-30 11:46:43 · 1 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think they are prostitutes? Why do these women do such nasty stuff. ( rim-jobs, ATM, DP, *** shots) I really don't understand how or why they could let someone the don't know very well come in her face and other crazy crap. Even if they are giving you 1500 bucks. What do you say to your kids? ( I hope they have none) Would you do it if it was a solo? how can a women that doesn't like women get her Vag? please give real answers. Don't be a azzhole

2007-10-30 11:42:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating