Currently i am in college and most of the women i like, i have hard time talking to them. When i try to talk to a women i keep keeping getting nerves. I can talk to women but the ones that i like or meet, i just don't know what to do for some unknown reason.
Any help will be good thanks
2007-10-30 11:57:34 · 9 answers · asked by Johnny 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself.
If they need more than that to have an interest in conversation they are not worth the time.
College age women are all completely nuts and no amount of thought or reasoning can make sense of them, so if one of them disses ya or something, just remembr that it is her problem not yours..........
It is also really important when talking to women of any age not to wear your heart on your sleeve, just talk about whatever comes natural, and if nothing does come natural then put yourself physically near a group of girls. Go to the library, or shcool related events or the little diner or bar that everyone is always hanging out at and just listen to whats going on around you until you find a conversation that appeals to you and then jump right in.
Just keep an open mind and see whats in front of you rather than what you WANT to see and pretty soon it will no longer be a big deal.
Also remember to listen, a LOT. Women like to talk , sometimes they are harder to listen to than talk to =P
Anyways, bottom line, try not to be nervous, there is nothing to be scared of and , IF you get dissed so what ?.......
All that does is prove she is a ***** and it doesn't really speak about you at all.
2007-10-30 12:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by aural_exstacy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is ,before talking to a Girl or Woman, have a small pep talk to yourself, tell yourself that she is a girl, that is ordinary and you will be able to talk to her without feeling nervous. Repeat that three times and I am sure you will be able to hold a normal conversation, not only to her but to other Girls as well. The problem you have is that you feel that if you get up the nerve to talk to a Girl, she might laugh at you, or worse, turn her back when she sees you approaching. You are self conscious about yourself ,but all you need is to think that you are someone special and you will conquer this feeling you have when approaching a Woman.. I know that you will be able to fight this feeling you have of yourself. Good Luck.
2007-10-30 12:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry too much about talking, some women like a quiet guy. All you have to do is give short answers or nodding is good, try it and see. Once you get used to being around the women you like then it'll get easier to talk. They will know that you are quiet, we don't like big talkers/show offs. Stay cool, and hang in there. Ask them to tell you about them. This way all you have to do is listen. Take deep breaths and relax when you feel like getting nervous.
Good Luck.
2007-10-30 15:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by CARMIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
John, welcome to the "what do you say club". Try the very honest approach. Just tell the young lady you are close to speechless by her beauty, or whatever you see, and admit you really don't want to say something stupid. See if that gets a conversation going. I have known girls that are so very pretty that they seem unapproachable, and those girls will tell you it's a curse. Nobody will try for fear of being put down. I did once tell my date the reason I was so quite was I just enjoyed looking at her and wishing. When she ask what I was wishing for, well, we really had a talk then, among other things!
2007-10-30 12:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Joe H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit enjoying it out on your recommendations. you're questioning too plenty. basically say "hi". Do it to each woman you run into and finally it wont be not straightforward anymore. Its like using a bicycle, the 1st few situations you will fall off and probably scrape a knee... yet you will study and with prepare, grow to be a grasp.
2016-09-28 02:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them in the same way you just talked to me.(okay wrote your question) Be friendly, open and honest. Girls love a guy that can make them laugh. a lot of girls laugh at me you would think that I would be doing better. Anyway, just be yourself.
2007-10-30 12:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by doctor love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys feel that way but they just dont show it v much! Its just a natural feeling.Dont let that upset you.
2007-10-30 12:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by God is awesome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find negative aspects of them so u wont like them anymore
2007-10-30 12:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by §†∂®§ & §†®∂P§ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think in your head what your going to say before you say it
2007-10-30 12:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by Brooxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋