Family & Relationships - 30 October 2007

I'm giving away candy favors at my wedding and can't decide which one of the two is preferable? I think both taste good but only want to go with one.

2007-10-30 10:45:16 · 22 answers · asked by MARY 2 in Weddings

I was a bridesmaid for someone that I considered a very good friend. As her bridesmaid, I hosted one of her multiple bridal showers. I also purchased a dress that she picked out from an online wholesaler, and paid for alterations, shoes & accessories. Well now 2 days after the shower, my "friend" comes up to me & says that I'm no longer needed to be a bridesmaid. Her hubbys friend isn't going to be coming,(groomsmen) therefore there is no need for me. Because of the seating arrangements I'm also no longer invited to the wedding. (I would have been sitting at the attendants table if I were still invited) Because I'm no longer an attendant she can't add chairs to the already full tables. I feel that I was used. I asked her to reimburse me for my expenses. She said that she is not paying for items that she didn't purchase. I think she should at least pay me for my dress ($250) if not anything else. Is it wrong for me to feel that I should be compensated. I cant even attend now!!

2007-10-30 10:43:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well. My boyfriend and I agreed that we weren't going to talk to these two certain people. Well, my best friend invited my boyfriend over to this girls house. The one that he's not suppose to talk to. Well, my boyfriend has a really hard time turning people down but he finally told her straight up no. However, she was complaining about it at school the other day and I just finally blew up and confronted her about if she was a true friend she wouldn't have even asked my boyfriend over to that girls house; when clearly both me and my boyfriend are not comfortable with it. Should I be this mad?

2007-10-30 10:41:15 · 18 answers · asked by Lovex_Fan 1 in Singles & Dating

Because I love you, dearly. I think you are just the most wonderful creature on this earth. I've seen things that break your heart with their wonder, and when I compare them to you, I don't find you wanting.

2007-10-30 10:39:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started liking a guy two weeks ago.Yesterday he asked me out and I said yes. Most of my friends say that we would look good together and all, but one of my most godly friends said I shouldn't havve a boyfriend. Well lets just call her girl A. She doesn't ever flirt w/ guys or anything. She thinks my bf is not a good guy to go out with. I would usually just brush it off, but she seems concerned that if I keep going out w/ him that I'll get into a bad habit. (He is my first bf). Today, a lot of people I don't know that well said that my bf is practically a player. I would probably go out w/ him for another week, but then should I break up w/ him? Girl A's friendship w/ me is very important and so is God. I don't wanna get myself into a bad habit, I doubt I will, but what should I do?

2007-10-30 10:37:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I really like this guy... He always gives me these special looks and flirts w/me alot but he has a gf! I kinda want them to break up I kno thats mean but I really like him & he acts like he likes me sumtimes to! Wat do i do??

2007-10-30 10:36:35 · 35 answers · asked by KEELY 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a pretty big problem. For about 3 weeks now, I've had this very attractive friend who is a year older than me and of course a girl. We've been casually flirting at parties and hang outs lately. We hug and stuff just like normal friends, but we're a little more open. Now I'm wondering whether that's my chance to go after her or build something towards that. We were at a Halloween party this weekend, and as we were a little drunk, I started comparing her to my other less attractive friend, and calling the girl I like, way above her on the hot scale. She openly hugged me and said, "oh my god I love you so much right now". Now is that just her being girly friendly to me for telling her shes hot, or is that my que to start going after her?

I want to know because it's been a while and we constantly flirt and touch, but I don't know if it's a friend thing for her or more.

2007-10-30 10:35:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just found out yesterday that some kids are planning on egging and t.ping my house for halloween. and me and my so called best friend got into an arguement starting with that im overreacting and ending with we'r no longer friends.

do i have the right to be furious???
would you be???

2007-10-30 10:35:39 · 56 answers · asked by BUBBL3Z <33 2 in Friends

kids out the balcony just for kicks! He says "look at my peks babe!" the kids begin to cry and run to their rooms.. he just laughs it off.......... is he somebody to settle down with?

2007-10-30 10:35:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 10:35:11 · 14 answers · asked by redcandal66 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you sleep with a woman or a man who is already married to another. Now the caveats:
1. There is no abuse in the marriage.
2. They are comfortable financially.
3. The spouse will not know about your tryst. But they could find out if it went on for awhile.
4. Basically, you don't get a cop out of "saving" the spouse from "worse than death".by starting a relationship.
Would you do it? Do you mind being known as a "homewrecker"?

2007-10-30 10:33:40 · 23 answers · asked by SUMMERWE 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, im 12 and i look 14. in bos opinions they say that im "hot". boys always wink at me and slap my butt. what should i do to make the boys to back off?

2007-10-30 10:32:52 · 6 answers · asked by Katya Cutie 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy I'm dating (we like each other and we're only dating each other, but haven't made it official) is finishing grad school. I was thinking of getting him a watch, but I realize that's a little much given the current state of the relationship. Any other suggestions that aren't too girlfriendy?

2007-10-30 10:28:48 · 2 answers · asked by graybear 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 10:28:35 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

We may have a little money to spend. So i'm wondering if any one has run into the same problem and if they have maybe some ideas they thought of. thank you.

2007-10-30 10:28:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am 25 years old and my best friend invites me to sleep over all the time still, but I only take her up on it once or twice a year. Last night my boyfriend and I were discussing it and he is trying to put a stop to it completely. He says that he feels like I don't want to be with him and that its not normal for grown women to have slumber parties still. We have been living together for 5 years, and its not a trust issue or anything. I feel like it is unfair for him to try and tell me that I can't or shouldn't sleep at my friend's house a couple times a year. I was hoping to get some perspective-should I be angry at my boyfriend or is he right and I need to "grow up"?
Thanks

2007-10-30 10:27:55 · 8 answers · asked by is_just_me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do they think they can put you through hell cause they are afraid of making a comitment but then three weeks and two girls later they think they can just come back and tell you they were wrong and they are ready to settle down and expect us to just be jumping for joy?

2007-10-30 10:27:36 · 17 answers · asked by ... 4 in Singles & Dating

There is a woman who I no and says im at the best place for dating its mc donalds now I have been there 6 years and never even botherd about dating any one from work because if it whent rong my job could be on the line. Im 26 and the girls there are 17 to 18. is that age difference a problem? and is it a bad idea dating people from work? a shift manager is now dating a asistant manager who worked there whos moved stores.

2007-10-30 10:27:26 · 7 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a freshman at college. I moved in to school with this girl Alyssa her and I were friends. She moved out after 4 days because she hated it here.

Then this Jehova Wittness was placed in my room. She would not allow me to curse, would not allow me to watch certain movies, would yell at me if i listen to rap music, and wouldn't allow me to have any visitors over.

I ended up moving out of my room into another dorm called "Lions." Lion's was the only place that had open rooms. The room was cramped so badly I couldn't take it!! I moved out of there after having an anxiety attack and having to get rushed to the emergnecy room.

I then moved into "Dickson Hall" where I am living now. There is nothing wrong with the dorm I'm in I like it....I live by myself because the girl who I roomed with became an RA and now has her own room.

The only thing is I'm still not happy!!
I have a friend who is transfering moving in with me next semester but yet again I want to move dorms!!!

2007-10-30 10:26:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for or against?

2007-10-30 10:26:13 · 53 answers · asked by Alou Arsenal 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

do GUYS JUST GO FOR THE EASIEST GIRL TO HANG OUT W/THAT NIGHT or who they think is gonna put out?

2007-10-30 10:26:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think everybody should have a romantic partner, because I think it's selfish to be unattached . I think I should have a girlfriend, but the women in my town won't cooperate . How can I handle being unattached when it goes against everything I believe in ? How can I get into a relationship when the women in my town won't cooperate ?

2007-10-30 10:23:26 · 3 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 10:23:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or is it horrible and im a weird loner?

2007-10-30 10:19:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have said 'SORRY' to my dad most number of times.

Then mom.

But hey, i have been with them for 18 years. My best friend (female) isn't far behind.
I met her 2 years ago & i have said sorry to her thousands of times.
So, at this speed, she will become #1 in that list in 1 year i think

2007-10-30 10:18:30 · 13 answers · asked by The Great Montitude 7 in Friends

I am getting married in a little over a year and need some help finding a location to hold my ceremony/reception. I would ultimatley like to find a place that does package deals where almost everything is included. Can someone help me?

2007-10-30 10:17:11 · 7 answers · asked by K B 1 in Weddings

As a guy, I hate the way things look after I have been swimming in cold water. I don't want to look like a little boy after I am grown.

It looks to me like girls wouldn't want their bodies to look like a preteen girl.

2007-10-30 10:16:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im just really worried,im always lost in my mind and i dont speak up in lectures or tutorials or to my lecturers themselves!i feel so nervous trying to make friends and thinking of joining clubs as i think people will view me solely as a weird loner!!and reject me,im a nice person when people give me a chance,what will i do?it gets me down quite a bit and i cant be a dynamic active person when i wake up in the morning,as when i have to speak to others im either shut off from them or i come across as slow as im not practical,im abstract and find it difficult to be practical about things,what am i gonna do?i really need help,i dont want to be a weird loner,do you guys view girls like me as such?

2007-10-30 10:16:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a client of an aesthetician, we both seem to be interested in each other, the next time I see her is 3 weeks from now, when I see her I planned to ask her out. A female friend of mine said to call now & do it over the phone, I prefer to do it face to face, she suggests that would be awkward to ask her while shes at work like that. I think it would be strange to call someone unexpectedly & ask them on a date, can you give your thoughts or opinion on how to do this under the circumstances.

2007-10-30 10:13:43 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 10:11:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings