Well. My boyfriend and I agreed that we weren't going to talk to these two certain people. Well, my best friend invited my boyfriend over to this girls house. The one that he's not suppose to talk to. Well, my boyfriend has a really hard time turning people down but he finally told her straight up no. However, she was complaining about it at school the other day and I just finally blew up and confronted her about if she was a true friend she wouldn't have even asked my boyfriend over to that girls house; when clearly both me and my boyfriend are not comfortable with it. Should I be this mad?
2007-10-30 10:41:15 · 18 answers · asked by Lovex_Fan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, to be young again! your issues, not hers...calm down.
2007-10-30 10:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by colormehappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be mad at the agreement you and your boyfriend made with one another. Your friend is not suppose to keep track of who you two are talking or not talking to this week. Your boyfriend already forgot. Come on now, get real and stop all the nonsense about making agreements on who not to speak to. One week it just might be you no one is talking to.
2007-10-30 17:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Nettajay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...
u should be mad
but if u didnt tell ur friend about the deal u and ur bf made then u should be the bigger person and tell her u r sorry that u blew up in her face like that and explain what happened; the deal thing with ur bf.
but if she already knew u told ur bf not to talk to those certain people and ur friend still invited him to the girls house then u should be mad @ ur friend for doing that.
but remember forgive and forget!
hope i've helped!
2007-10-30 17:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because if your best friend knew that you two had agreed to stay away from those two certain people then she should respect that and shouldnt have asked him to go over there in the first place.
p.s. why would she ask him over there anyway exspeacially without you if he's not sapposs to be talking to that girl.
2007-10-30 17:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by p3bbl3s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why you're not talking to two certain people, but seriously, how old are we, 5? and its a bit immature to be mad at your boyfriend for talking to or thinking about/wanting to go to someones house that he's "not supposed" to be talking to.
2007-10-30 17:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a mess.
If you guys are genuinely together, and secure in that then it shouldn't matter who you talk to or hang out with.
Setting artificial boundaries like this has a tendency to make a really miserable relationship. Be who you are and your relationship will either work or it won't but you won't have to compromise your identify.
2007-10-30 17:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by Tony P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if she is really your Best Friend than she would understand why you and your bf have agreed not to be around that girl.
2007-10-30 17:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by allspells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At whom are you mad? Your true friend or the bf?
Let this one go. It's small and of no consequence.
2007-10-30 17:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by Level 7 is Best 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like "yes." but for the future...dont ask, "should I be mad?" --You cant help how you feel so you either are or you arent...
2007-10-30 17:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yeah cause shes suppose to be your friend and be on your side when it comes to that stuff whatever the reason might be.
2007-10-30 17:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by motherandwife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u only live once. why be mad because girls want to get it on with him
2007-10-30 17:44:38 · answer #11 · answered by Ty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋