Would you sleep with a woman or a man who is already married to another. Now the caveats:
1. There is no abuse in the marriage.
2. They are comfortable financially.
3. The spouse will not know about your tryst. But they could find out if it went on for awhile.
4. Basically, you don't get a cop out of "saving" the spouse from "worse than death".by starting a relationship.
Would you do it? Do you mind being known as a "homewrecker"?
2007-10-30 10:33:40 · 23 answers · asked by SUMMERWE 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey folks, this is just a general question to get a sense of the answers I'd be getting on this site. I'm not married nor would I EVER cheat with someone else's wife. Please keep your answers general. Thank you.
2007-10-30 11:58:30 · update #1
No. Not something a real man or woman would do. No
2007-10-30 10:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anna C 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I would never do it. What would be the point? Stay away from situations that bring with them a whole new set of complications and issues. Sticking with single people is hard enough . Why would you want to be a part of breaking up a marriage where they took vows even if one of them is being tempted to break them.
I belive in Karma. If you were married , what if someone was tempting your spouce? What would you think of that person?
2007-10-30 11:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by purplewaterhorse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully I couldn't sleep with a married person. I consider marriage sacred it between the husband and wife and god. Even if they had problems or not I still couldn't to it. There could be children involved and it could hurt them as much as the spouse. I'm sorry I couldn't be a "HOME WRECKER". I put people's marriage before my selfish sexual desires. I know if I were married I wouldn't want that to happen to me. That would break my heart and soul if that was to happen to my marriage.
2007-10-30 11:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.
If i found myself in a position that i wanted to have sex with a person, then obviously i would be in love with them, so then i would tell them to first get out of their relationship if they wanted me.
Either fix your relationship within the marriage, if it really cannot be fixed then i will be waiting for you.
People have no thought for others these days and it really does bother me, Jesus golden rule, treat others how you want to be treated is just magically true!
No-one wants to be cheated on, so why consider doing making someone else cheat, think of other peoples feelings and surpress your own, espeicially if they come with very bad results, if they were to be acted upon.
2007-10-30 10:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by BUTTERFLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I would say fooling around with a married person puts you in the cheating circle. In some states you can be sued civilly for breaking up a marriage. Also if she's screwing around with other guys you could be known as the sap of the week, not sure I could be proud having people think that of me. Good Luck
2007-10-30 10:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, I would never, ever, never do that, no matter how hot the person was, no matter how lonely or bored or aroused I felt at the time. I am married, I know what I promised to my husband and God. Even if I was single, I would not do that to a married person.
2007-10-30 11:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by Linni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope; can't be a homewrecker, but there's obviously something wrong if one of the spouses STILL wants to cheat after having the "perfect" relationship.
2007-10-30 10:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by ron-D 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No caveats.
I would NEVER do that.
My ex cheated & ruined our 24 year marriage---and knowing how it felt, I could never betray anyone like that. Even if THEY never found out, I would feel so shitty about it that nothing could ever make it worthwhile.
Sorry, Brad Pitt....I'd have to turn you down!
2007-10-30 11:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama, I'd pass. Karma - what goes around comes around. You sleep with a married person, you are telling the universe that when you are married, it's ok for your partner to cheat too.
2007-10-30 10:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There's enough single people in this world. I do not need to seek that kind of thing from someone who is already in a legally binding relationship.
2007-10-30 10:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the time and place was right, I would do it. Abuse or financial situation would have very little to do with my decision; I'm not out to "save" anyone, but I like to have fun.
2007-10-30 10:50:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋