Family & Relationships - 30 October 2007

guys, Besides SEX, wat turns u on? wat does a girl have 2 do 2 get ur attion?? WAT R U LOOKING 4?? :)

2007-10-30 09:31:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and we are really close, she had a play and we did not see eachother for a week. One of her ex boyfriends was in the play and she started to have feelings for him. She told him she liked him. After the week she told me about this and told her ex boyfriend that it won't work out and that she won't talk to him again. It still hurt me that she would tell another guy this and have feelings for him. What should i do?

2007-10-30 09:31:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does he like me?
he has a gf he is my brothers friend i asked him to be my friend on myspace now were are myspace friends so does he like me


he is 2 yrs older and is always nice to me


when i was with my friend he came up to me and asked me a question


does he like me as a friend

2007-10-30 09:29:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 09:29:11 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my hubby slit up in may 07 he walked out on me went with someone from his work i stopped him seeing the kids cus he would only c them when he wanted to and still does dont want him around me or the boys am i being selfish and do i as their mother have the right? i have now meet someone and hes so good with the kids also the kids are going off their dad alittle cus they dont get to c him as much as they would like to ifeel like a bad mum at the moment am i ??

2007-10-30 09:28:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-30 09:28:34 · 1 answers · asked by erika 1 in Singles & Dating

he has no money to buy me out. does he have a choice?

2007-10-30 09:28:19 · 47 answers · asked by kravitz67 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or was this guy just an asshole?!?!?

2007-10-30 09:26:56 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Kely_Biatch♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 09:26:46 · 12 answers · asked by ANGEL 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl ticks me off so much, but i love her. We always talk in school and she's so cool but we go to parties and she's surrounded by at least three guys all the time, so any way i gave her an di tunes card for her b-day and she said it was great. I told her to save enough for one song, then i told her to get you and me by life house so she gets it, but the i went to talk to her later and she comlpetely ignored me, and put this up on her im away message evertime i say hi to her "Life comes rushing at you from out of the darkness. When it does, is there someone in your life you can count on -- someone who will watch over you when you stumble and fall, and in that moment, give you the strength to face your fears alone?" i want to say yes there would be if you let me talk to you but i don't know what should i do now?

2007-10-30 09:26:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been married 5yrs had two children but we never show each other any affection we never have sex apart from when he is gagging what do you think i should do to try put this problem right.

2007-10-30 09:26:08 · 13 answers · asked by bumpa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone tells me I'm a beautiful girl, but I just recently encountered a terrible infection in my eye due to sleeping in my contacts too much. I had to get glasses, & will have to wear them for a month probably. Is that a turn off for most guys? I got black rimmed ones because they looked kind of pretty & stylish to me. I'm only 15 so do you think that would be a turn off for most guys?

2007-10-30 09:25:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 6 monthes, we are sexually active, but for some reason he wont let me see him naked, i duno why, like during sex i see him naked. but when its all said and done and he puts his boxers on, i feel like he wants to hide. why does he do this? and how can i make him relax about it a little bit. and its not like he is small in that region, so it cant be that. help

2007-10-30 09:22:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All i seem to be doing is work, work. I tired of my job, I'm having trouble finding a job. I have offers from girls but they are not the girls that i want to be with. The girls that i want to be with, don't seem to want to be with me & i can't be with someone that i really don't like. I get the mick taken out of me from some of my friends calling me gay, as i have not had a girlfriend for a while. I'm a decent looking guy. Nothing motivates me in life no more. What is a guy to do?

2007-10-30 09:21:48 · 6 answers · asked by Star 1 in Singles & Dating

I always freeze up or look away when a chick smiles at me because i am shy...what should i do instead. I never know what to say if I actally did start talking to her,

2007-10-30 09:21:15 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he has decided that sex b4 marriage is wrong. Well not just decided but he has always thought this because he was brought up a Catholic but at the moment he feels sex is stopping him from having a closer relationship with God. This is something i can understand, because the bible teaches sex with someone who is not your spouse is a sin, but i always felt as long as we are in a loving relationship this is ok, but i think i now see we shouldnt have sex. This is not really a problem. The problem is that he believes that wanking is also a sin. This is something i have always felt strongly about but i think he believes this because the Catholic church teaches that every sexual act shld be open 2 life (as the sperm shld be given the chance to make a baby, i.e it is sort of murder to masturbate) not sure if this is exactly what the church teaches but im sure someone will help me out. How can i be a Christian now i hav had sex b4 marriage + how can i get him to understand wanking isnt wrong?

2007-10-30 09:19:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl, she likes me. she have an over-protective mom, that won't let her hang out with guys, much less date them. i am in a boy scout troop, she is in the sister-venturing crew of a different boy scout troop. we're both catholic so the youth group would normally be an option but she has Confirmation then. i go to a public school in the suburbs, and she goes to a catholic school downtown. i am 1 grade older than her.

i would really like to go out with this girl because we enjoy the same activities , not to mention the fact that she is quite attractive and that is is quite rare that because of the entity that occupies the back of my head(mullet) that i can convince a girl to go out with me.

what are some suggestions you have on how we could get together?



P.S. everything i've tried to set up so far is with the help of her best friend-idk if she(gal i like) knows we're trying to get us together, but it always fails. . . .confused much?

2007-10-30 09:17:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a guy i work with said he wanted to meet up with me today as were both on a day off he said he wud text me but he hasnt shud i just leave it be now?

2007-10-30 09:16:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a female friend who has had some major automobile expenses in the past month and she’s not going to be able to pay her rent this month (I think its like $600 a month). A male acquaintance of hers has offered to help her but with a catch: he wants her to have sex with him. He has basically told her that he would pay her $1,000 in cash (he apparently does have the cash, as he showed her) in return for 1 hour. Though she desperately needs the money, she says she’s not going to do it, though I’ve wondered about this, as I’ve seen her talk to him since he made the offer.

This situation led me to a question: if, as a lady, you were hard up for money and were offered that type of cash, would you even consider taking up the offer? I know people generally say that they are worth more than that and that they won’t sell themselves for money but this has really made me wonder. If you were offered that type of cash in this situation, would you even consider it?

2007-10-30 09:16:18 · 9 answers · asked by mm92280 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I both work full time. We have a 5 year old child. He insists that the house is not clean enough, and has asked me several times to do more. I honestly don't have time to do everything. I started a business with a family member, and I spend alot of time on that. When I get home, I spend time with my child, and do whatever I can. His schedule is a lot more flexible than mine. He is off two days a week, just like me. But whenever he does some housework, he points out that I am not doing it. I feel like I am being pulled in several directions and there is a lot of tension between us. We have not had relations in 7 months, due to the stress between us. I don't know if he is just picking on me because I am not having sex with him, or if I am being lazy and need to clean more. Maybe I need to stay up later than normal and try to get more done. Please help.

2007-10-30 09:15:06 · 41 answers · asked by ACE Tx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wedding day is a year away. But i am worried that i am going to cry the entire damn day? I am one of those people that cry when there happy, or when they hear a touching song that reminds me of someone.
I think now sometimes of how happy i am going to be, and how excited, and the dancing with my daddy, and just everything, and i get teary... What i am i going to do that day??
I am hoping that i get all the sappy stuff out now and just smile beautifully on my wedding day..

Anyone else worried about this happening?

2007-10-30 09:13:35 · 15 answers · asked by Gotta luv it! 4 in Weddings

I ordered a dress online that was pictured with a sash (sold separately). I had assumed that the sash would come with some sort of instructions as to how to tie it, but that did not happen. I'm freaking out now, because I can't seem to get the bow to look halfway decent. Please help!

2007-10-30 09:12:34 · 6 answers · asked by SM 2 in Weddings

use ur brain good answers

2007-10-30 09:11:33 · 27 answers · asked by smite69 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend of a year broke up with me a month ago because we were arguing over stupid little things. We stayed friends and she told me she needed time to think if she wanted to get back with me. Of course being friends after a break up caused arguments of jealousy. I decided to stay faithful to her and not do anything with anyone because she was still making a decision. She then told me we needed to both move on to other people. And still we talked at least once a day and we are getting along. So, yesterday I told her to either take a risk and start the relationship back up or I would cut off all contact with her because I was being hurt by talking to her as a friend and knowing she could hook up with some guy or something. She chose me and said she wants to start off slow and work things out but we are a couple again. Now I don't feel like a couple because she cant say I love you yet or talk about certain things and I want to hear those words from her and I dont know wat to do

2007-10-30 09:11:11 · 13 answers · asked by dj51234 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 09:06:30 · 17 answers · asked by punkingirl29 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems to me that I've got nothing to lose, she is paying for her own flight and I've not made any promises.

She might be wanting to live in Europe and see me as her ticket to do that, but could it work out anyway?

2007-10-30 09:04:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am friends with this white guy and he told me that most white guys dont date black women because we have bad attitudes. Is this true for you, why dont you or why do you like black girls.He say that they are controlling and try to control the relationship. I love white men i only dated one but still love them i just hate how most black girls do have those nasty attitudes and mess it up for me

2007-10-30 09:01:53 · 8 answers · asked by Im just tooooo freakin cute 2 in Singles & Dating

So,this summer I met this guy... We were on a party and I thought he was cute... He came onto me an asked me my name...We talked but I wasn't that interested in him at the time... He talked to me a couple of times that evening and said I was hot.... But,he didn't know I was 4 years younger(cause every1 thinks I'm older)...And next month I went for a drink with my cousin and her fiancee(and that guy is his mate) and he was there...We didnt talk,but I noticed him looking at me,and so did my cousin...He later told my cousins fiancee that I'm beautiful....And 2 months ago he said that I'm way beautiful and hot,but just too young.... And I hate that!!! He would be with me if I was 2 years older but now he doesn't want to.... I had a boyfriend after that and everything was ok until I read something about past love(or something).And I still think of him a lot and I really care about him.I always ask what is he doing and stuff...And I haven't seen him since that drink we had... Help me please!

2007-10-30 08:59:32 · 9 answers · asked by glad to help :) 6 in Singles & Dating

known her since we were 17 working weekends in a clothes shop. We both finished uni this summer and we're back at the clothes shop while we're trying to find a door into our respective carears.

I've fancied her madly all this time but NEVER made a pass. We've always been good friends, but lately we've been getting on really, really well.

She wants to get a job in a big city which is quite far away! But my work could quite easily lead me to the same city too...

Should i continue to be the good friend?

Should i make a move?

Should i try to build a life in NYC and see what happens?

I really don't want to mess it up. If i make a wrong move i could destroy our friendship, i'd rather have her as a friend as not at all...

how should i handle it?

2007-10-30 08:59:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She likes to wear dresses, she reads novals books, reads

love stories.

I ask her can i say i love? That she started lol lol lol lol.

She also like a her back rob down every night after she come

out of the hot shower or bath.

Also today iam thinking of give her some roses and a dinner

night out with a candle light dinner? I take her out 6x / year

and getting her roses and dinner out with a candle light.

i need some help with all females please answer that to me?

2007-10-30 08:59:00 · 5 answers · asked by BIG BLACK GRAZZLY BEARS 3 in Marriage & Divorce