If a girl Looks at me and smiles...What's my next move?

Question

I always freeze up or look away when a chick smiles at me because i am shy...what should i do instead. I never know what to say if I actally did start talking to her,

Answer 1

pick your nose

Answer 2

Well to look away would mean your not intrested you are giving the potential girlfriends mixed signals so what you need to do is keep your eyes locked into hers for atleast 10 sec smile back and wait till you see what happens next if your eyes connect again go to her there is nothing more sexier than a bold man who knows what he wants

Answer 3

well she might not always like you. she might be trying to be nice. But either way you should definitely talk to her. Small talk is good. Try to have a conversation. The more often you can talk to her the better. Then eventually when she gives obvious signs like always laughing at stupid things and constantly trying to be with you and that kind of stuff, you should ask her out. She might say no but you have a better chance of getting a yes than if you were never to ask at all.

Answer 4

BOOHOOOO! I'm so tired of hearing of men (boys) being so shy :(
Be a man! Or at least gravitate toward being one.
My mother used to always say "if you're over the age 6 & cannot carry on a conversation you only appear to be ignorant".
So, smile back & speak because that's not cute nor are you a little boy. (I don't think).

Answer 5

Don`t ever smile back, just pretend looking behid you and act as though you are lucky that she smiled at you.. she will start acting ,like moving her hands while talking to someone else that means she likes you. so just say , Hi, ask her something like do u work here, or do u live here, or ask or u by any chance (some name) and start conversation..

Answer 6

A simple Hi may get things going if you are interested in starting a conversation. Flattery is your next move, comment on something she is wearing or the color of her eyes, something simple, if she wants to talk to you that will strike some kind of conversation.

Answer 7

Smile back. Walk over and say hi introduce yourself then make small talk...then bow out and go back to whatever you were doing. If she likes you she'll follow you or come over and talk to you some more.

Answer 8

lock ur eyes with hers and smile back..it won't hurt you or her I promise. Then compliment her on something and go from there. Good Luck and try to not be so shy next time

Answer 9

The absolute best thing you can do, is smile back, only take it up a notch, so you are creating more "excitement". With any luck you guys will start talking.

Answer 10

smile back... look if she is fixing her hair and trying to get a glance at u.. usually if u lock eyes 3 times u know she wants u

there is only one way to find out.. compliment her about her smile and say you think she is cute. ask her name and the rest u should know... dont drop a line on her about her smile.. just be simple about it

Answer 11

Build up your confidence, or you won't get anywhere with her. You must show confidence!
Most girls notice who is watching them---so as soon as you make eye contact with her, stand up straight and walk over, slowly, keeping eye contact as you approach, (so you don't spook her) introduce yourself. Say "I noticed you and just wanted to meet you. My name is...." Ask her if she lives in the area, and if she'd like to exchange e-mail with you and if so, then get her e-mail address. Try to be different in some way from other guys. Don't play it safe and be boring. Spark her interest by being playful in a slightly bad boy way with a friendly sense of humor. This will make you stand out in her mind from other guys and intrigue her. Create that spark between y'all. Then excuse yourself and walk away. Send the e-mail the next day... maybe with a reference to something you said to her earlier, to pique her interest even more.
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