Family & Relationships - 30 October 2007

Now I think he wants to leave me, cause I don't feel the same way he does. What should I do to keep him in my life? What should I say? Cause it happened when we was watching the movie Casper. and the part at the end when Cat the girl mother was an angel and meet up with her father. He saids everytime he watches that part it makes him want to cry cause his wife died 20 yrs ago. And if I don't say nothing that pleases him about his ex-wife he gets mad and says that I have a cold heart and that he needs to leaves me. I don't know what to do. How can I tell him thats not true at all?

2007-10-30 08:20:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife decided after coming back from a trip to visit her single lesbo friend, that she did not want to be married anymore. She has finally moved out to live with her relative. She states that she can't be the person she is around me. She felt same way last year and left for a month, she states now she came back to quick. Also told me that she likes to flirt with other men and told me at times she does not care if I slept with other women. We don't even have sex, when we do, she makes feel like it is bother to her, she never kisses me and does not like talking about what each other are feelings. I always do all the cooking and majority of the cleaning for her. I will come home from work and cook while she sits on the couch and complains about the house not being clean. I tried to change since last year, but she has not tried. She still makes me feel like it is not good enough. I have lost almost 35 pounds since last year and continue to workout. I’m confused. Faith in god hands

2007-10-30 08:19:45 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

DOES TONGUE RINGS MAKE U A FREAK?

2007-10-30 08:19:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 08:18:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 08:17:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I've taken this girl to a football game , a movie, eaten lunch alone with her at school, homecoming, and I'm going to a movie/concert with her soon. I like her a lot and I kind of want to take the relationship toward a more boyfriend/girlfriend thing and I think a kiss would definitely seal the deal.

So I was wondering what is the best way to initiate a kiss with her and when?

It will be my first kiss, and her first kiss as well (as far as I know)...I dunno the best way to do it, so I'm asking help from all the ladies here that have some experience, or the best way to kiss her.

We are both 17, and neither of us have really gone out with anyone else, so its always kind of weird, and holding hands is as far as I have gotten with her to this point, so any help would be good!

2007-10-30 08:16:58 · 25 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

#1 reason is you aren't giving him any "loving"..
#2 reason is he feels like you are putting him last..
#3 reason is you are no longer taking care of yourself like you did in the beginning of the relationship...

Why do women constantly complain about men being dogs? They have been that way since the beginning of time. If you treat your man right the relationship more than likely will remain "active" and he will not stray.. However, if you stop seducing him and become complacent he WILL stray! It's a promise! So my question is, why do we constantly complain about men? We basically made them the way they are!

2007-10-30 08:16:54 · 27 answers · asked by Lucy L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

child without necessarily getting married right away. Give some details if you're serious. Women only please.
peace out

2007-10-30 08:14:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hmm...well HE doesn't really live here. we talk online FOR NOW. i kno wut ur thinkin online stuff doesnt work..but you're wrong. well he supposedly will come visit by the end of this week. i have my own laptop but he signs on with his phone. and talks to me. i like him sooooooooooooooooooooo much...to the point i sigh really hard or w/e. he knows i like him but how would i kno if he feels da same way back? please give opinions i'm lookin forward to it!! thx!!

2007-10-30 08:14:19 · 4 answers · asked by SimplyMe<3 3 in Singles & Dating

i need advice on if this would be ok...

i realy like this guy...but we were talking on msn and i found out something i could never picture him doing. i found out that he had felt up a few times and he had a handjob before he was in highschool. hes in gradee 11 no.
. would it still be ok to like him???

plz help

2007-10-30 08:14:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the best thing i can do to my lover

2007-10-30 08:13:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, my ex called me and woke me up out of my sleep this morning to tell me about a dream he had. Now the dream sounded really made up to me and my intuition is usually right so I believe he just made it up, but anyway. It was some dumb dream that involved me, him, and this guy that he knows I really really like. Well he told me the dumb made up dream and then went on to talk about how he thinks the boy I like is ugly...take note, I'm still half asleep here. Well I was tired of hearing my ex talk about the boy I like so I changed subjects and when i did this he got disturbed, like he wasn't done talking or something......Anyway, after he was done talking about my "boo", he said this "The dream I had about my OTHER girl was worse." WTF?? Who cares......my question is.......
Why in the hell did he call me insulting the dude i like and indirectly throwing another female in my face?
GOD, men are so freakin weird, I was just trying to get some sleep. Why did he do that?

2007-10-30 08:13:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, my ex called me and woke me up out of my sleep this morning to tell me about a dream he had. Now the dream sounded really made up to me and my intuition is usually right so I believe he just made it up, but anyway. It was some dumb dream that involved me, him, and this guy that he knows I really really like. Well he told me the dumb made up dream and then went on to talk about how he thinks the boy I like is ugly...take note, I'm still half asleep here. Well I was tired of hearing my ex talk about the boy I like so I changed subjects and when i did this he got disturbed, like he wasn't done talking or something......Anyway, after he was done talking about my "boo", he said this "The dream I had about my OTHER girl was worse." WTF?? Who cares......my question is.......
Why in the hell did he call me insulting the dude i like and indirectly throwing another female in my face?
GOD, men are so freakin weird, I was just trying to get some sleep. Why did he do that?

2007-10-30 08:12:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I forged my dads signature on a paper for science clas (permission form). I am afraid something bad is gonna happen cause i did this. Should i fess up now or hold off and see if they catch it. I am really worried they will and I will be suspended.

2007-10-30 08:11:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Girls, im confused here so help me out, why is it that even if u like a guy u can show these emotions...

-> act b*tchy with him
-> kinda expect him to read ur mind along the lines of wut u say to him, but if he can't u get mad at him
-> pretend like he doesn't exist
-> let him go through this "game" of to the point where he gets frustrated with u...
is this a test of emotions or trust 2 see if hes really the 1 for u? leading by example - this girl who I like & I assume she likes me aswell has been acting moody around me of late

Reason y i assume this girl likes me...

-> she says she missed me during the summer
-> she wants to know when im working
-> she'll stay up even if we argue
-> she tells me to call her
-> she seems shy around me

2007-10-30 08:10:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IVE BEEN HAVEIN HEAD ACHS LATELY AND EVERY TIIME I DRINK SUMTHIN WITH MILK N IT THE HEAD ACHS COME OR GET WORSE AM I PREGNANT

2007-10-30 08:08:53 · 13 answers · asked by WIFEY-4-LIFEY 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. I always have this gut feeling that he wants someone else, and it makes me think that he is cheating. I had a bad relationship before him, and the guy I was with cheated on me, so I think that might be the cause of my paranoia. I always ask him if he is cheating on me, and he always responds " No, I love you baby, I would never do that, I dont want anyone else."
I dont know what to think. Another thing is he always goes out of state to see his family. I am just so worried. Am I just paranoid, or do I really have something to worry about?

2007-10-30 08:07:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

everything is negative about him, he was never like this in the beginning and now that we are getting further in our relationship he gets worse. he acts like a kid and he is 28 years old and i'm 22. we have a son together. he complains of the house always needing to be clean when he gets home, he gets disgusted of me, when he is clearly the pig of the family, he has a bad temper, he is always yelling at me for no reason, he never repeats what he has to say. he gets mad at any little thing. he get aggravated when our son cries and then he blames me for it. we have been together for 3 years. and i'm tired of him treating me like i'm lower than him. and to add he like to hurt me. he plays rough with me and i think he does that to take his anger out. i need advice should i get out or should he get help? and plus i told him that i don't love him anymore. but i stay cuz i have nobody to turn to and i don't have a place to stay, i have no money and i don't work and stay at home with my son.

2007-10-30 08:05:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Which does turn me on...however, I need more romance. I told him this on several occasions...Now, this weekend, he is taking me up north for a weekend of romance. My question is, how can a woman take a man's man and turn him a little mushy? I'm talking about turning me on emotionally more than physical. Is it possible?

2007-10-30 08:05:36 · 34 answers · asked by Rogue 5 in Singles & Dating

I understand that she is young but she acts more like a 7 year old than a 10 year old and in fact my 7 year old daughter is more responsible than she is. She forgets her things at school. She lies all the time. She's just an all around mess. I'm a single mom and I try my best to be supportive and helpful and anything else she needs but she is just not returning the favor.

2007-10-30 08:04:30 · 5 answers · asked by Rin 3 in Family

Ok, so my friends have told that I look like Jessica Alba. But I am very shy and they say that shyness is a very ugly quality in a person. What would you think if you met a person like me at a party?

2007-10-30 08:02:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 08:02:10 · 11 answers · asked by mony y 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm straight female dating with good looking, macho, single, straight guy. He insists that he's straight but the way he acts and behaves make me suspect that he might be a bisexual bloke. Well he's extreamly clean & neat from top to toe. His house, car, etc are also very clean and well-organised. He used to live with gay flatmate once, always living with one male flatmate. I found out that he has a profile on an adult site looking for a group sex, couple, or lesbain. He's a male **** but the thing is he's very nice, sweet and gentle, it's quite difficult to give up on this guy then I really want to know that does he sound a bit of bisexual or not? Because if he's just a playboy who loves to have sex with girls, then that would be fine, at least. But if he's slutting around plus being "bisexual" then I'd have to tell myself to give up on him straight away.

2007-10-30 08:00:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 08:00:26 · 8 answers · asked by Taylor O 1 in Singles & Dating

And what do u think they'll be capable of doing? Will women become obsolete?

2007-10-30 07:59:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He waits until the very lasy min to do anything. then we usually miss out on things. I sorry but I feel like hes pulling me down. Hel stop at his friends EVERY day after work, then hell come home and sit at the computer, I work overnights so I sleep after he gets home untill 8 when I have to goto work. every night when I wake up for work the house is trashed from my children. he cant even get away from the computer long enough to take a shower. I feel like the bad guy telling him he has to take a shower because hes starting to smell bad. I guess on his defence, he does cook dinner evey night, but he leaves the foos sitting out if it doest all get eaten, wont even soak the dishes. I clean the kitchen after I get home from work every night. I spend my days off cleaning the house and doing laundry and hopfuly have time for fun with my kids. (the house is usually very messy by the time i get a day off. I tell him all the time that I need help but he doesnt hear me.

2007-10-30 07:56:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

any of you girls out there? Women only Please....thx

2007-10-30 07:53:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We took in a stray dog 11 years ago. A neighbor had found him and spent days finding the owner and couldn't. We were looking for a dog for our family and decided to help her out also. The dog had obviously been abused, he crouched when anyone tried to pet him. We named him Kramer. We found out soon afterwards Kramer is epileptic. We decided to keep him anyway, though the two medicines he needs runs about $40/month and we must visit his neurologist once a year. A few years ago we were told he has a thyroid condition, so now he takes 3 medicines a day.

The problem is: he is so much work. Because of his seizures, we have to keep an eye on him 24/7. When he seizures, he can't control his tongue so he tries to eat our carpets. We put him outside, so he pulls at the grass until the seizure stops. A few times he got to our carpets before we could stop him, so they needed repair. The medicine keeps his seizures to around 3 a month, without the meds it would be 3 a week.

2007-10-30 07:52:30 · 7 answers · asked by Maureen S 3 in Family

what if u dont want to be in love....what if u are afraid of being hurt...its normal to love someone but is it normal to hate urself for that...is it normal u want to kill this feeling....

2007-10-30 07:52:10 · 5 answers · asked by Sunflower 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have two kids and they weigh me down, they are 3 and 7 years old. I would like to have an affair. Am I doing the right thing. Please...my body is urging me tosay yes but I know it's wrong. Please help.

2007-10-30 07:50:48 · 70 answers · asked by SPMZ 2 in Marriage & Divorce