Family & Relationships - 30 October 2007

I just had a baby boy, and my feelings towards him are different, I mean don't get me wrong I love my daughter shes nine, but I dont remember having feelings like this when she was a baby.

2007-10-30 07:15:17 · 19 answers · asked by PRETTYGIRL 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-30 07:13:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf loves watching porn more than being sexual with me.. so i finally say that i will watch it with him just to make him happy, and he doesnt want to... he wants to watch it by himself! .. what is his problem.. i say i'll watch it with him even tho i HATE porn and he would rather just pleasure himself alone, and not do anything with me. wtf?

2007-10-30 07:11:38 · 15 answers · asked by *Babycakes* 3 in Singles & Dating

I ride to work on my mountain bike and every so often i see a blonde lady that i find very attractive. I am abit of a shy person and i think she caught me having a sneaky look on monday.. :-) How am i going to say hello and not sound or look like a wierdo?

2007-10-30 07:11:32 · 15 answers · asked by googoo!! 2 in Singles & Dating

At what point does it become OK to hire a professional for oral service?

Note that this happened all the time prior to marriage.

And where do I find such a professional?

2007-10-30 07:07:11 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Whats the emotional difference??



i'm guessing woman see everything as a sighn, i am also a girl lol

2007-10-30 07:06:30 · 17 answers · asked by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 in Singles & Dating

i was waiting outside for my ride & my ex- (who i haven't seen in FOUR long years) walked past me & all he did was nod his head, & kept walking. but THEN today our mutual friend "vern" told me that chris wanted vern to give me his number & wanted me to call him. but the thing is he was a HORRIBLE bf. he repeatedly dumped me for other girls & took advantage of the fact i loved him so much. we never had closure 'cuz the THIRD time we broke up he ended up dating someone else and i heard that he got her pregnant (it ended up that it wasn't his) & we had planned on dating a fourth time (thank god we didn't) but the thing that ticks me off is that by the time i figured out what a scum bag he was, he had already left & he still thinks i'm that annoying little 7th grader who stuck around & let him treat me bad. but now i'm a junior & alot has changed, & i want him to see that i'm wiser & confident & mature. should i tell him off when i call? SHOULD i even call ?? i'm curious 2 c wat he wants

2007-10-30 07:05:36 · 16 answers · asked by mnd_hunt 2 in Singles & Dating

When I broke up with my girl I said maybe it would work later and I needed to sort my life out and I never wanted to hurt her. I told her it would be a long time before there was someone else. Well she said some hurtful stuff so I went out and hooked up with some girl after the break. I get a text from my ex saying although some of the stuff she said wasnt necessary she didnt think she deserved what I did and she never felt so betrayed. Its been 1 week since I got that text. How long should I give her to cool down before talking to her? We were broken up but she said I lied by saying what I said and then hooking up with the girl

2007-10-30 07:05:22 · 5 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Singles & Dating

are people really your friends if they don't like what you do or wear and benasty about it?

2007-10-30 07:03:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just dont know.I seen a gorgeous girl today with her 2 kids and she gave me a flirty smile,she had no rings on her finger so it was obvious she was single.Would you date sombody with kids that are sombody elses and not yours?I think it would be hard.What do you think?

2007-10-30 07:00:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, i like this girl that i work with (shes actually now my manager). well i want her to come to the movies with me on thursday but i dont know what to say to here. Should i tell here that im going to the movies on thursday, and ask her if she wants to come? or should i ask her if she wants to go get dinner and see a movie with me on thursday?

2007-10-30 07:00:44 · 8 answers · asked by davidvbinder 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months. I love him with all of my heart but I'm sick of his games! We lived together for about 5 months. One day we got in a fight and he kicked me out of the house! He called and said he wanted me back, I took him back. Well now we live 20 minutes away from eachother, I'm always the one has to drive! He never will pick me up! He's always drinking! I think we should take turns driving, Whenever it's his turn he makes up an excuse why he can't do it that night. Do you think if he loved me and really wanted to see me he would come and pick me up? What would you do?

2007-10-30 06:58:37 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are in our early 20s and have a 9 mo. baby. He has 2 personalities. Half of the time he says he loves our family. He is really helpful and loving with our baby. He treats me like a queen. We have a loving relationship. We have date nights. The other half is unhappy. He has to pay for $800 a month for day care. He says that I take all of his money from him. We have so much credit card debt that I pay $800 a month for that. So we end up with no extra. He calls me names and says that I keep him in bondage. He says that I am trapping him to be with only me. He wants to experience younger women! Later I will ask if he really meant it and he says he was just hungry, or tired!!! I love him to pieces. I don't know what to do. This saturday he wanted to go to a RAVE. I wasn't too happy about it, but I said "Have Fun!" with no fuss. He returned at 7am. Geez! He said it was like a vacation. I can't tell if he really wants out or if he is playing mind games.

2007-10-30 06:57:16 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the man does not look his age (he looks about 30) he very attractive, nice, sweet,and he has all the qualities I look for in a man.

2007-10-30 06:57:01 · 31 answers · asked by misslady 2 in Singles & Dating

It is right to ask his ex from time to time?it may be a form of emails or letters,phone calls...behind your back?or I may say without your knowledge?and paranoid about you if you 're doing the same?

2007-10-30 06:56:17 · 22 answers · asked by TMD 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The other day we were talking and,he said you know you can touch me more. But where, I dont want to touch him like to sexually.If you get what I meen?Like when we are kissing what should i do ?

2007-10-30 06:55:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm frazzled. There are lovely dresses out there, but they are all strapless. Between being overweight and having tattoos, I don't want a sleeveless, spaghetti strap or short-sleeved dress.
I don't want to hide a beautiful strapless dress under a jacket/wrap - thats not the point.
The only thing I can find, so far, that offers sleeves are Renaissance dresses, and that isn't exactly what I'm looking for.
SO, are there any dress makers out there who are located within 4hours drive of NYC or who you can order from over the internet?

2007-10-30 06:55:17 · 7 answers · asked by nova_queen_28 7 in Weddings

Our family received an invitation to a friend's wedding. We're accepting with four people.

The invitation looks like this:

.......................................................

Kindly respond by November 1

M ___________

__ Accept with Pleasure
__ Decline with regrets

.....................................................

What do you write after M? Do you add the proper ending, i.e. Mr / Mrs, or do you leave it M Last Name?

Before "Accept," do you mark, or do you write the number attending?

Thanks :)

2007-10-30 06:55:00 · 16 answers · asked by XXX 2 in Weddings

Why is it stupid people with no life ask why you are not married or when is the big day? My 3 brothers and I in our late 30s to 40s are not married or do not choose to get married. My parents were married 40 years and everyone assumes we will get married as well.
Why don't people mind their own business.

My Comeback is: We are a gay family. Haven't you heard 4 kids are all gay? Then they just leave in shock.

2007-10-30 06:54:22 · 28 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Weddings

2007-10-30 06:52:30 · 15 answers · asked by dunamis 2 in Singles & Dating

He's funny, good looking and overall a nice guy. I don't know if he is interested in me, but I am interested in him. He's getting ready to leave for a trip so I am thinking of writing him a letter and putting it in this bag..I want him to read it on the plane...

2007-10-30 06:51:19 · 29 answers · asked by DesperateinVA 1 in Singles & Dating

They were only "officially" together for 3 months but they hooked up for sex for 4 years. I feel that he treated her poorly but she told me he is well endowed. She claims that he was lousy in bed but every weekend she would travel 50 miles to his parent's basement to be with him. She wants to marry me and gets very upset when I ask about their relationship.

2007-10-30 06:50:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok this is probably a stupid question but im still in high school(Junior) but im just really curious about college. Is it better than high school? like are the people more mature? also do you get asked out alot more in college than people usually do in high school? Is it easier to meet people?? also has anyone ever went to an out of state college and loved it?? please help, your opinions are very much appreciated!!! thank you

2007-10-30 06:50:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

..in touch with someone online even though the needy one does not know if he/she is really wanted or will be taken care of by the other one? Is it okay to be in touch if just seeing the other person online for few mins in a day makes the other one feel gr8 and cheery and makes it worthwhile? Is the needy one compromising his/her selfrespect? If the needy one has nothing real to offer to the other one ..is that okay then? Are some things beyond self pride/love/needs/being reciprocrated or not? What if the needy one so to speak feels or finds stability with the other one? Of course it is psychological since the other person cant offer any real help as it online/virtual and not real. So, can the needy one still call and talk to the other one?

2007-10-30 06:49:09 · 2 answers · asked by Reina L 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex jarred have been broken up since the middle of august.we broke up becuase after the first time he left me i went out on a date with my exjames who ****** me over big time b4 i dated jarreda nd it hurt my ex jarred to know that i would just go straight back 2 him becuase i told him how i went on a date james the next day after he asked me back out. so after the months i tried getting him back, crying 2 him but i keptt screwing up by talking to his bestfriend who likes me too, and then i ****** with his bestfriends head becuase i wanted 2 get closer 2 jarred and then jarred was even more mad and lost all his trust in me and then some days he would tell me he cared and then the next second we would be fighting and we would be syaing that we never luvd eachother and regret dating and then he kepts questioning me if i was honest when i said i still luvd him and then we talked oct19th while i was in cali and it was just a friendly talk and now he wont speak to me

2007-10-30 06:45:59 · 3 answers · asked by iluvcheer618 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 06:43:59 · 22 answers · asked by carnellshoneybun 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering?

2007-10-30 06:43:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

highschool sweetheart, been through alot together. including me in the Marine Corps, school at UK, her depression, family divorce, miscarraige, drunk nights and me cheating on her with her best friend (first year of relationship) but we made it past everything and i bought her a ring when i was discharged. and i was going to propose to her next month, but she left me, but wants to be friends. i cant do that. i want to learn how to meet new people

2007-10-30 06:41:40 · 6 answers · asked by UKmarine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

was it a turn off for you after your wife had her first baby....i mean because of the exess fat, belly bulge and all the stretch marks. i just had a baby 3 months ago and i feel totally gross. i dont like for my husband to see my naked body. he still makes love to me but i only do it at night with the lights off because i'm so embarrased of my body. i know he loves me but i feel that maybe i gross him out sometimes.. what did you guys think about it?

2007-10-30 06:40:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need to talk to her but also need to reduce her ego?

2007-10-30 06:37:32 · 6 answers · asked by AM......... 1 in Singles & Dating