Family & Relationships - 30 October 2007

It's drawn out, but try to make it short but detailed.
My 5 yo daughter's father and I first of all broke up, because he had become a pathological/ habitual liar and I had started to become physical, I left him, because of the lieing, him detaining me and because of me becoming physical.
He found someone new, at first things were fine, until she started getting in the middle telling me how to parent and what I had the right and not the right to do.
He allows her to make false accusations against me, She posted my daughter's name on an adult profile, she doesn't allow him to spend extra time with my daughter, she thinks she should be involved in everything, when they aren't even raising their own 2 children.
Fathers, How would you feel about your current wife doing these things? How would you feel, if your child's mother ONLY on occasions involves your new wife?
Need any more info., just ask please.

2007-10-30 05:02:59 · 10 answers · asked by Cyndi G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-30 05:02:46 · 39 answers · asked by louiedy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's drawn out, but try to make it short but detailed.
My 5 yo daughter's father and I first of all broke up, because he had become a pathological/ habitual liar and I had started to become physical, I left him, because of the lieing, him detaining me and because of me becoming physical.
He found someone new, at first things were fine, until she started getting in the middle telling me how to parent and what I had the right and not the right to do.
He allows her to make false accusations against me, She posted my daughter's name on an adult profile, she doesn't allow him to spend extra time with my daughter, she thinks she should be involved in everything, when they aren't even raising their own 2 children.
Fathers, How would you feel about your current wife doing these things? How would you feel, if your child's mother ONLY on occasions involves your new wife?
Need any more info., just ask please.

2007-10-30 05:01:11 · 3 answers · asked by Cyndi G 1 in Family

I know that motion and skill matters a whole lot, but let's assume that the skill level is equal. Which matters more for female pleasure: the girth or the length of the penis? I'm a girl but I haven't slept with enough guys to be able to compare. I'm really curious.

2007-10-30 04:59:10 · 9 answers · asked by ............ 2 in Singles & Dating

this is what happened, I overslept for school in the morning, and so my mama woke me up and she told me to give up my phone that she put no money in to, so I told her no, but she snacthed it and the she start yellin at me and talkin about the girl that im in love with and she called my girl a *****, and I told my mama she's a *****, and she got real mad and got a knife and told me to get out the house without my stuff, so I didnt get out, I hid in the attic until she left, when she left I took my not even half of my stuff, because most of it was mixed with garbage, so now im wit my friend staying with him, and i told his parents what happened and thy're trying to help me out, but I cant stay there for long, and my mama and my dad in cali are trying to make mecomout there, i dont wanna go because of the crime rate out there, but I do have a stepdad that my mama broke up with, I think I can stay there but I dont talk him much, and my mama jus doesnt care where I go, can someone help me?

2007-10-30 04:58:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

To put a smile on your face?

2007-10-30 04:56:57 · 19 answers · asked by Gone 7 in Singles & Dating

I am 27. My bf is 36. He dumped me 2 weeks ago by not answering my phone calls, texts, emails. He has ignored me. He has not told me we are broken up, but it appears so. I'm pissed.

Him:

-Says he has nothing good to say about his past relationships
-Moved out of state to Cali now lives at home with his mom
-Smokes weed several times a day but says its not addictive
-Goes out to a bar every night to drink alone
-Never married/no kids but says he wants to be married and have kids more than anything in the world
-Moved to cali without saying goodbye to me then called a week later to say he missed me wanted me to move to him
-After a few months I agreed to move to him, then he acts distant, not around when I call etc
-Is a skater and hangs around skateparks but doesnt skate that well
-Does farmer blows in front of me and onto the floor
-Constantly asks me for naked pic texts and talks about sex
-Is GREAT in bed
-Sent me a video text of himself ejaculating
- few friends

2007-10-30 04:56:13 · 11 answers · asked by Sad Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 04:55:15 · 34 answers · asked by Top Contributor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter is 16 and i think she has had sex with her boyfriend. They have been dating as they call it for about 7 months now. He is 15 and she is 16... they dont go out on dates. She will go to his house since she drives ( one day a week) I allowed her to go to his football games and bring him to where his parents and we were when it was over. that is the only time they have actually been alone. I don't know how to address this or bring it up. I was cleaning house and was in her room and there was paper on the floor and when i picked it up i read what was on it to see if it was any good or if it was trash. On that it went into a round about way of talking about them being stronger and closer. I know that is what she was talking about. ( or i feel that was what they were talking about.)
i just don't know the right thing to do to bring up the conversation. We have had this talk before , but now it is diff.
She is a very shy person on topics like these. any suggestions ?

2007-10-30 04:55:05 · 8 answers · asked by theathcock3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My b/f broke up with me a month and half ago and I said hurtful things, which I regret. Shortly after the break up He goes and drunkenly hooks up with some girl. He then comes back saying he misses me and he messed up. We both did some f'd up stuff with what I said and what he did but I do love him. If I do go into this, i want to go slow being friends first. Am I being an idiot?

2007-10-30 04:54:23 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok... I know this Iraqi guy, he's a family friend of ours -- my dad knew him for 20 years, and I've known him since I was born - great guy... He's been a refuge - he left his homeland when he was a teenager... He married a nice white lady (she's really friendly) but she said something kind of weird the other day...

Well, he's a smoker and a drinker, so his wife was saying that she calculated online that he would die in ten years, and she'll take the money in their joint account and move into a studio with their daughter... nobody said anything, but that sounds kind of, well... morbid...

Also, for some reason, she does not want to help him get a citizinship (he seems ok with it) -- but I mean, it's just funky...

I know its not my business... but I have to question: WTF?

2007-10-30 04:54:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you meet someone and they tell you they've always been afraid of being hurt so they push people away when they feel they are getting too close, what do you do to keep them if you have started getting real close to them and you are also the same...i.e you also tend to push people away when they get too close.....

2007-10-30 04:53:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok look i love these two guys with all my heart and i just dont no what to do the first one he loves me with all his heart and wants to be with me always but he lives in Ney York the second he loves me to he is such a sweet giy but he just dont care for me like i think he dose and i dont no what to do i feel like helpless plz tell me what to do?!

2007-10-30 04:50:38 · 16 answers · asked by ~Baby~ 1 in Singles & Dating

they say one thing whilst knowing deep down its not what they feel, and that really they feel something else.


an example. girls say they dont like cocky guys. but really they do. they deny it... but they do

2007-10-30 04:49:43 · 16 answers · asked by Fall Back 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 04:48:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...Instead, my husband and I would like a donation made in our name to a few charities that we are including in the email. It's hard to write and I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings or make them feel obligated. I'm just stuck. I have my two charities listed and why they are important to me, with the link to the donation area. I'm including my husbands three also. Any suggestions/comments are welcome. Thank you!

2007-10-30 04:47:46 · 7 answers · asked by princess.suzyq 2 in Family

How long do ya have to wait before u can go in for a divorce when ya split on good terms and want to stay friends?
I heard that u have to live apart for 2 years before even going for a divorce.

2007-10-30 04:47:26 · 16 answers · asked by blank 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am just 42, in a fairly new loving relationship, my boyfriend & I met through a dating site & corresponded for 18 months before meeting in July. Have breezed around the subject a few times & had negative comments back.. though once on messenger he did say ...'never say never' However, time is running out for avoiding the subject. He has a son by a previous partner & I have a daughter from a previous relationship, both are aged 10. It has come to light recently that my boyfriend thinks 'it is not a good idea to have children past 40 which I feel is getting in the way of me committing to this relationship emotionally as I dearly would like to have another child. I am finding it hard to speak about my feelings, his son seems to be his world & enough for him, I feel I need the option of another child for the relationship to progress or life will feel very empty, I have a fulfilling career & love my only daughter dearly, however I have this need for another child.

2007-10-30 04:46:52 · 13 answers · asked by weaving star 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know a lot of people todays think that not getting married is the better way to go. With increasing divorce rates, the financial burdens and ect. Not getting married SEEMS like the ideal solution.

I don't believe that! I think its pretty ignorrant the way people make it sound like not getting married will automatically make everything prefect. Doesn't mean that the relationship will be anymore loving, that you won't end with any less of a jerk or witch! That you won't have financial issue as well at end. A lot of non-married people ending up court these days. I've know people who weren't married that have had some horribel relationships! The easy way out wasn't so easy!

The only real benefit not getting married has, is the expendability factor. Dump 'n' run. And to be honest, if thats your priorty. I'd rather be alone! Whether your married or not people with always be people. Marriage doesn't create the issues, people do. Problem can come in many forms.

Agree or disagree?

2007-10-30 04:46:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So lets imagine we were told our last day of life was tomorrow how would you spend this day and with who?
Come on people halloween its coming let get into the mood.
I would spend it in the beach with my family and my love!

2007-10-30 04:45:23 · 14 answers · asked by krixty 3 in Singles & Dating

Ive been with him for 18 months, things went downhill rapidly after my Dad passed away 4 months ago.( It opened my eyes to the important things in life if nothing else!)
Since then, he's been really controlling and jealous of every thing I do, to the point of verbally abusing me.
Ive always had lots of completely platonic male friends (having no mother figure and a really great and strong father has made it easier for me to get along with men) and none of my ex boyfriends ever had a problem with it.
I dont flirt, I dont go out clubbing every other night wearing next to nothing, and spend 99% of my free time with my boyfriend.
I work hard at my job and earn twice as much as my boyfriend, but I have never made a problem out of it.
He is eastern european (im British) so is it a cultural thing? Im getting sick of being told who I can and can't hang around with, and no matter how much I try to explain he just wont listen!!

2007-10-30 04:41:02 · 22 answers · asked by sofie b 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and my man have known eachother for a long time amd before we were together we were identical. He has never been faithful to a girl ever and that includes his ex wife and I have never been faithful to a man which includes my ex husband. We both come from very bad past and both act the exsact same way... we are identical in the way we have treated people and what we like , want , and have been through. we have been together for a year and this is the longest faithful relationship we have both been in infact we both chased everyone else away. we both are signed to the same modeling company and he used to break a thousand hearts... i was more careful and told everyone i got envolved with not to fall in love... So my question is... do you think that he will cheat down the road since he has never been able to be faithful?

2007-10-30 04:40:25 · 42 answers · asked by soldurs 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband is 25 he was born in portsmouth va in portsmouth general hospital of 1982

2007-10-30 04:40:24 · 6 answers · asked by 24onlyonce 1 in Family

i am a 18 year old male studnet. me and my high skool sweetheat are now in first year uni(same uni) and ve have been together for 16months. v lost our virginity together about 3 weeks ago. lately i just feel out of the relationship i dont know if its since v lost our virginity or its sumting else. i live on campus while she commutes so i m very bz with campus stuff and i dont have the time to talk to her as much as v use to. sumting just feels off the spark that was there b4 isnt there ne more when v go out i barely talk and b4 v use to talk a lot(3hrs) on the phone everynite now i dont even know wat to talk to her about on the phone. plz help i dont know wats happening should i break up with her(which i dont want cuz shes a girl tat only comes in ur life once) or should i put it on a break? how should i confront her with it?

2007-10-30 04:37:35 · 7 answers · asked by Mafia 2 in Singles & Dating

them, and i don,t like people looking down their nose at me, but their are alot of nice ordinary people, how would you react to these sorts

2007-10-30 04:36:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ill try to make this as short as possible i am 26 have a 8 year old child from a previous relationship, i met my husband over 4 years ago we dated for a very long time had a lot of problems but love never let us part ways for long my husband joined the military and seemed like a new wonderful man all i ever wanted comes home we get married and soon after meet him in a different country.. and where do i begin... problems,problems, he isnt the same man i thought i was marrying. my husband really will call me every name in the book **** ***** u name it and for the dumbest reasons alot of the time i just know when i agree theres a fight. and no i do fight words back, hes always telling me im useless becouse hes the only 1 working but we only have 1 car and it is hard to find a job with very little english working jobs i went to school before coming here for dental assisting for a year and can not get that job... he has all access to bank accounts only putting my name on the one that has it

2007-10-30 04:36:25 · 12 answers · asked by misty l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do i brake the news to my girlfriend that im going out to dinner and a movie with another girl? The oter girl ive known for like 4 years shes been gone for the past 4 1/2 months now shes back in town her birthday is comin up and i wanna do something for her. but i need to tell my girlfriend that me and this other girl r goin out for the night. now i have a small romantic past with this girl but we didnt date and we didnt have sex. do u think this will b a mistake? should i even go? how do i tell my gf im going?

2007-10-30 04:35:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 04:34:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Excessive porn worked for me last time, its not working now... I just feel guilty... any other ideas -- by the way, I can't see someone else, this is virtually impossible because I'm 20 and only one girl has ever given me a chance... it was good for a while, but she disappeared...

2007-10-30 04:32:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been living with my partner for 5 years we have 2 boys and never been married. We both live together, although we want to go our seperate ways we both agree that it is better if he live with us and pay the mortgage while i provided the income for the children. As time goes by it's getting more difficult to provide for my children and was wondering if I can claim for single parent benefits?

2007-10-30 04:30:46 · 23 answers · asked by hanif1022326 1 in Marriage & Divorce