Just tell her the situation, shes your friend and you are going because you haven't seen her in a while. I mean unless you truly and honestly believe that something might happen between you and the girl, then dont even go if you respect your girlfriend.
But there is nothing wrong with going out with a girl who is your friend and specially youve known her for a while. Of course your gf is going to be like wtf? and get mad, but if she trusts you and stuff then she shouldn't stop you.
again, if you still have feelings for the other girl then don't even go! why mess up your relationship? but if not, make your gf understand.
oh and just because you'e going to the movies and dinner doesn't mean its a 'date'!. but i would recomend doing somehting else, like just go eat somewhere. nowhere romantic or anything or otherwise your gf is really going to be pissed.
2007-10-30 04:42:48
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answered by Anonymous
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If you'd like to do something for this girl's birthday, you have a lot of choices. Send her a card. Give her a book. Go out with a group of friends, including your girlfriend, where you all buy the birthday girl dinner. If you want to take her to dinner and a movie, just the two of you, ask yourself whether you have something more than celebrating a friend's birthday in mind. I bet that's what your girlfriend would think, no matter how you break the news to her.
2007-10-30 11:48:08
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answered by GPB 5
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Personally, why not ask this other girl if you girlfriend can come along? Or tell your girlfriend the truth what you just typed, about your past and that your friends etc?
If your current girlfriend isn't the worry wart type, then she should understand and accept that you can have gal friends. But if she is and taking her to dinner w/ you she may see that you two still possibly care for each other and she may say get back w/ her or something like that.
2007-10-30 11:45:54
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answered by evanescence_fr3ak 6
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Your girlfriend is gonna flip. I totally think it is a mistake and even wrong of you to want to go on a "Solo Date" with this girl. Did you stop to think of how you are going to hurt your girlfriend? I would ask your girlfriend if she would like to go with you to take an old friend out. That would be the respectful thing to do. If you go alone you don't know what migh happen and might as well not be in a relationship. It is better for you to tell her and invite her.
2007-10-30 11:42:43
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answered by spleefarella 2
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Instead of breaking the news, I will call it asking permission first. Afterall, she is your girlfriend, which should be more important than any other friend you have... unless you're going out with your girlfriend for sex only and not much of anything else (commitment, etc.)...
Tell your girlfriend about your other friend. Be honest. You should probably offer her to come with you if she so desire. Afterall, it's best if she knows your friends and you know her friends as well.
I personally think that going to a movie will be viewed as dating because that's not the place for old pals to have a conversation with. Dinner is good though. You have dinner with your friends, with business partners, etc. My suggestion is for you to drop the movie plan unless your girlfriend is coming with you.
2007-10-30 11:46:25
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answered by sir_b_man 5
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First off where do you get off wanting to know how to TELL your girlfriend you are going to do something like that, how about talking to her about it, asking her about her feelings?!
Second, Would you like it if her and one of her old flames went out on a date and she didn't even ask you, just told you!
and Lastly, assuming this isn't a date, just you doing something nice for her birthday, why didn't you think to bring your girlfriend along, or maybe make it a group get togather so your girlfriend doesn't feel like the 3rd wheel!
I think it's not only a bad idea, but something that could put al ot of strain into your relationship!
2007-10-30 11:41:59
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answered by Tean 3
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That depend on your girl. Will she be able to take the truth? She should not have a problem with the girl if you are honest. I was in that situation once. But I have to come out and tell the truth and I eventually let them meet. Now my boyfriend know my friend and trust me. But you have to see how your girl feels first.
2007-10-30 11:43:53
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answered by aelt15aelt 2
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I think it's inappropriate for you to take another woman on a 'date' if you have a girlfriend whom you are exclusive with. Either include your girlfriend or turn the date into a short meeting for coffee and chat to catch up.
Would you be kewl with your girlfriend going out on a date with a guy she used to be involved with? C'mon dude...use your head.
2007-10-30 11:39:54
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answered by . 7
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well, tell your gf that since we arent really dateing, that your going with this girl that you've been knowing for 4 years. just take it easy and slow. tell her the truth, dont lie and say your going out with some of your guy friends or anything like that. tell her straight out.
2007-10-30 11:42:38
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answered by ashlie m 1
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Would it be all right if your girlfriend was to go on a date with another guy? If you guys have an open relationship then YES otherwise hell No .
2007-10-30 11:41:10
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answered by Ana C pisces1976 4
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