I am 27. My bf is 36. He dumped me 2 weeks ago by not answering my phone calls, texts, emails. He has ignored me. He has not told me we are broken up, but it appears so. I'm pissed.
Him:
-Says he has nothing good to say about his past relationships
-Moved out of state to Cali now lives at home with his mom
-Smokes weed several times a day but says its not addictive
-Goes out to a bar every night to drink alone
-Never married/no kids but says he wants to be married and have kids more than anything in the world
-Moved to cali without saying goodbye to me then called a week later to say he missed me wanted me to move to him
-After a few months I agreed to move to him, then he acts distant, not around when I call etc
-Is a skater and hangs around skateparks but doesnt skate that well
-Does farmer blows in front of me and onto the floor
-Constantly asks me for naked pic texts and talks about sex
-Is GREAT in bed
-Sent me a video text of himself ejaculating
- few friends
2007-10-30 04:56:13 · 11 answers · asked by Sad Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
- did a stint in rehab 8 years ago but says he only does weed now and will stop for the "right person"
- Says he wants to buy a house but never follows thru
- spends all his money at bars on beer
- checks out other girls
- tells me if i moved there and we got an apartment i would end up leaving him and he would be "screwed" even though i have told him i want to be with him forever
-keep asking him to come visit me and he never follows thru but says he wants to see me.
- talks about how he used to be in shape but he now has a beer belly
- suffers from depression and years ago was on meds but he still acts sad
- friends have seen him when he is alone and he has a sad look on his face for years now
- hates holidays and birthdays says "its another day to me"
- left my condo when i was crying and didnt try to comfort me
- says he needs a BJ daily and sex at least 4 times a day and asks me if "I can hang with that"
- loves kids and babies and wants one but no follow thru
2007-10-30 05:00:15 · update #1
- raised in the mean streets of Los Angeles and thinks that becuase of that he has more common sense than others.
2007-10-30 05:01:15 · update #2
He is a 36 year old boy. He probably wrecked all his past relationships with his behavior. He has nothing to look forward to in his life, (besides you) but still manage to f*** things up. He needs help from a psychologist. Badly.
I mean EVERYTHING on that list says something is wrong with him so I really think you'd answer your own question. I don't really need to repeat everything you wrote since it speaks for itself. But let me diagnose him-- a manic depressive idiot.
Any smart woman will not put up with half of the crap you'd endured with this guy. I bet the only reason you were hanging on to him like a piece of thread becase he is 'great' in bed. Hate to break it to you but it takes more in a relationship other than sex to keep a person around. He is a little boy that needs to grow up and I don't think you need to 'raise' him.
At 27 years old I thought you knew that. You should thank your lucky stars you didn't get married and had kids by him or else you will end up on a show like Dr. Phil seeking help.
Now that he is gone, make sure he doesn't come back ever again. As for you, ask yourself what type of qualities you want in a man because what you picked sure as hell was in the bottom of the pit. Open your eyes next time or else you will fall for the same type of loser again.
2007-10-31 04:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by ranay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you particular weed is all he's doing? He might desire to be disappearing because of the fact he's off on a bender of varieties.. it does sound like he's cheating on you nonetheless. certainly if he that into intercourse, yet yet not attempting at each hazard, then he getting it else the place. intercourse is taken under consideration one of those issues - the greater you do it, the greater you want it. style your description it seems such as you will possibly desire to realize this plenty greater acceptable. additionally, do you smoke weed? in case you do not than he may be scuffling with attempting to have the superb of the two worlds. I say this as i'm toker and a Cig - smoker. i've got dated women that like one and not the different. it continually brought about problems. So i had to discover a woman who grow to be cool with the two. think of long and not straightforward approximately that one. possibly you basically to smoke a J with the guy.....stable success
2016-09-28 01:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is what is wrong with you. Why would you even care about someone who has that kind of past and still continues it today. Do yourself a favor and realize you dodged a bullet and move on with out any apprehension or back thought.
2007-10-30 05:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Brad H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The list is too long to really write about without making a novel. Regardless, trust me when I say you're better off without a guy like that.
2007-10-30 05:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by Doogin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what on earth attracted you to this dude in the first place!
read what you wrote. that is how your future is if you stay with him. I really hope you want better for yourself and maybe future kids! no matter what he says or promises to keep you around, it will always be the way it is now
2007-10-30 05:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by fretochose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to know what his problems are? Lets start with your problems.
1) you were naive and foolish to move out to him
2) you are equally as daffy for staying with him
3) anyone that dates a pothead skater ends up with a...pothead skater
If you want to stop having problems with the boyfriend...gasp....get out of the relationship.
2007-10-30 05:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like manic depressive to me
2007-10-30 05:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by Noneofyabusiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find someone else he seems like a Real loser and is using you for sex and money
2007-10-30 05:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by nice3fishinggal 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why did u date him with these characteristics..ther are many nice guys out thre like me
2007-10-30 04:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An you're mad about this why? He's a loser, when are you going to realize this?
2007-10-30 04:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋