2007-10-30 04:55:15 · 34 answers · asked by Top Contributor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Counseling. If that doesn't work, divorce.
2007-10-30 04:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by Juggman 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You are on the right path. There is no Mr. Right. No one is perfect, but what counts is how much "imperfection" are you willing to put up with. A person will not be the same after they get married, you yourself will change. A long as you are aware of these changes and you know the basis of your marriage I think things can work out inspite of everything else. if it takes you years to find out these "problem areas" then count yourself as blessed!
2007-10-30 05:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by Carmencita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump into any conclusion! First, evaluate whatever had happened and then start elimination method. In the process, on might find Mr Right, Ms Right, Mr Wrong and Ms Wrong. Then, strike a balance and go on with your life, your wedded life, and try to get the best out of it every day! You don't need to be reminded that to clap and make sound you need two hands! BE HAPPY!
2007-10-30 05:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sami V 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why think ahead in a negative way?
If he's Mr.Right, then go for it. In the future, if the two of you have problems, you should always make sure to communicate with one another, tell how you feel, and if it comes down to it—get marriage counseling.
Stop stressing the small stuff that hasn't even came to be yet!
2007-10-30 05:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know that in most marriages, that after a couple of monthes; most women believe in their hearts that they had married the wrong guy. Many go as far as to spell it out to their husbands without letting them generally know. My suggestion to you is to discuss your situation and doubts with that man if you believe he is your faithful gift.
Do not attempt to convince yourself that this is the right man because look at Britian and their discussions on the purpose of marriage. Be honest with all that you do by baring your truth. The initiation may be rocky, but in the end it is always worth it.
Remember love bares all. So if this man holds true, he will not shift his attention nor his motives less he spells guilt. It is with all truth that we curtail or reactions and thoughts and focus on the next stage. Stay with him and work this thing out like one full of love, hope, and desire.
Thank You
2007-10-30 05:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by GodCares 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you marry him I assume that he is your Mr. Right. If you have doubts about this then don't marry him. Be careful and try your best to not get swept up into expecting perfection. We are all humans and I am getting so tired of everyone getting divorced in America because their significant other isn't "perfect" anymore.
2007-10-30 05:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by andie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That happens a lot....
I know it sounds mean, but the honest truth is that it happens a lot.
that why you should stay together for a long time before you get married, and despite people thinking its "not okay"...whatever, move in with eachother.
you need to live and be around that person AND be having sex with them to know if it will last.
The thing that most people break up about is that...they didn't know their spouse was such a neat freak/pig...and the sex is bad.
2007-10-30 05:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by Megan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only Mr. Right is the one you are married to.
Marriages go through phases, and sometimes you wonder if there is someone better out there for you.
But the fact is that you have made a commitment to your man, and you must honour that commitment. It is your responsibility to make it work.
2007-10-30 05:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by johnny_100pesos 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
when we enter into any relationship, we are taking a gamble.... there is less of a gamble if you and your potential spouse discuss your futures, goals, how you expect to live, views on having children, how to spend money/budgeting, solving problems through calm discussion and etc.
and take the time to step back and observe this person. does he treat his family with regard? is he consistent and responsible? does he treat you well? can you live with his little character flaws and quirks?
there is a lot to take into consideration before getting married. if you are hesitant, because of his character, then don't do it...
everyone is nervous about getting married -- it's normal. but if there are RED FLAGS about the particular person, it's probably a bad idea.
2007-10-30 05:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess you stuck, huh? No seriously, maybe you should seek a marriage couselor to help you with your problem. Marriage is hard journey for most, but you shouldn't give up too quickly and work hard to keep Mr. Wrong if you really love him. No one is perfect so we can't be in a relationship with Mr/Mrs Right all the time. Again, just talk to someone and most importantly talk to your husband about how you feel.
2007-10-30 04:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by JK 6 · 3⤊ 4⤋
that's a very tough question! well, there is no such thing as "Mr right" in my opinion, cos nobody is perfect... this kind of feeling comes into mind sometimes which's normal, but counselling is the thing that'd be required if this situation persists
2007-10-30 05:07:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋