ok look i love these two guys with all my heart and i just dont no what to do the first one he loves me with all his heart and wants to be with me always but he lives in Ney York the second he loves me to he is such a sweet giy but he just dont care for me like i think he dose and i dont no what to do i feel like helpless plz tell me what to do?!
2007-10-30 04:50:38 · 16 answers · asked by ~Baby~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can you love 2 people? Of course. I love my Mom, Dad, best friend, Aunt, friends, etc... I probably love a couple dozen people all at once.
Can you be IN LOVE with more than one person at the same time? Yes, but it's nothing but a heartache.
2007-10-30 04:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you start playing this game with yourself and two other people, you'll fall into a perverse loop. Later you'll be sitting with the one you chose and may question that choice. I tried it once, and it just didn't work out. The only course that I take is stay with one person. If that person is not meant to be with you for the rest of you life, then leave in a civilized way.
But in time, with practice, you won't be lying to yourself. Questioning yourself about choices within a relationship is normal. But to have an outlet to save your feelings from a fallacy, is just self torture and destruction. I mean, if things don't work out with one, will you run to the other? And feel better for the mean time. Then run to the other when the second seems not to work for you. All this leads to an immoral way of looking at relationships. Divorces are like nickels and dimes, everyones got one. But you don't have to be like everyone.
If my advice is way out there, then go to church or visit children in a cancer ward or an orphanage. You'll find out how small your concerns really are.
2007-10-30 05:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by JOHNNY D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can love two people! I believe in the whole soulmates thing, but seriously: if you only had one soulmate, that person might live in another nation, you might never mett your soulmate! That's why I believe every person has more than one soulmate: at least ten or twenty. I love my boyfriend and I still think Ephram Brown from Everwood could be my soulmate!
PS. I'd go for the first guy.
2007-10-30 04:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Interesting question, as the Scriptures says: one cannot serve toward 2 persons lest you love one and hate another... that´s what there says, so i guess there should be priorities and it´s written:
>But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness... Matthew 6:33
Greetings
2007-10-30 05:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that is so weird
the same is going on with me
i love this guy in new york which is a problem because i never see him and he claims he loves me
and the one that lives here claims to love me with all his heart
but i've lost feelings for him
i say follow your heart
thats what im doing
hey we can sneak off to NY together
hahahaha jk
2007-10-30 04:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Love<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible to love two people at once. In my opinion, perhaps one provides you the security you need, while the other provides you slightly more excitement. You choose the one who cheers you up when you are sad.
2007-10-30 05:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by j o e Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loving and being in love is 2 very diff thing. you can love more than one person but you can only be in love with ONE. so you are in love with who?
dont push it if the other guy doesnt care. dont force urself to the first one even if he is so into you only if you dont really really realy love him as in IN LOVE.
2007-10-30 04:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by smiley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love 2 people.
Choose the one you feel loves you most
2007-10-30 04:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by HM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were meant to love everyone bud, which means we have a huge capacity for love but this goes beyond love this is a different arena what do you want is all that matter now not wut Yahoo! Answers says
2007-10-30 04:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by Amnite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving two ppl is a very dangerous game.someone is def. gonna get hurt.
2007-10-30 04:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by TT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋