Family & Relationships - 30 October 2007

2007-10-30 22:05:07 · 14 answers · asked by Gen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

someone told me just to put a pillow on there head and you get the same result is this true or false must be 18 and over to answer this ?

2007-10-30 21:57:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a straight-ish guy .this other guy i work with is always getting erections under the desk next to me , then i get one and we smile at each other for the day afterwards.this happens everyday.lunchtime gets complicated. i think we should just do it but my wife and son would disagree. any suggestions.

2007-10-30 21:54:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He has a son well he thinks he is his son and he constantly complains about how he wants his son to live with us, but i dont want to take care of someone elses kid it sounds mean but that is just how i feel. The boy is not taken care of, he has skin problems he has very bad teeth, I had to give him a bath for 2 hours and the tub was black. The mother of him she gave him away to my husbands parents she said we could have him , then took him back and said forget it. We have 3 boys and i dont want to have anything to do with these people they are nasty. My husband says his ex is part of his family they were never married and his son is his family I cant understand that I told my husband its either our family our he can leave. Help!!!!!!!!!!1

2007-10-30 21:52:25 · 26 answers · asked by Key 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...you're just looking for a 'good time' and not any sort of long term commitment or anything? And that you aren't looking for things to develop into that, just some fun while it lasts. I know that this is a good way to look like a pervert, but I think being upfront with what I want would be better then making someone think there might be something there that I don't want.

When I say 'good time', I pretty much just mean fooling around and sex.

2007-10-30 21:48:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What position is easiest for you to "finish", so to speak!! Do you have to do it a lot yourself, or can the person you are with do it for you?? I always have to do it myself to get it done, is this normal?? Also, how long should it take for my husband to get the job done when i am giving his friend kisses?? Thanks, and yes, this is a serious question!!

2007-10-30 21:46:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am just wanting to know - in a marriage what does separation mean? i have this friend whom i really like and she likes me very much and she wants to go all the way and sdays she is separated due to her spouse cheating on her - thus the separation question. My thinking is that women who are married are off limits of course. I have known her for almost 2 years now
Is it a good idea to pursue a relationship with women in a separation status? is it right?

2007-10-30 21:42:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so it will be me, my partner and my 2 daughters (from a previous relationship) on xmas eve and all waking up together xmas day and having dinner at home, just the 4 of us. However he wants to go and see his own children xmas day for a few hours, which i have absoloutley no problem with! The only problem i am having is that his ex is going to be at her mums 4 xmas so i am unable to go with him as she does not like me!! His x is happy for me to go (i think anyway) but its her family with the problem. So me an my girls are gonna be left on r own for a few hours! We are having his kids from the 27th dev for a few days anyway! Also he wants to go an see his mum on boxing day, again this i do not have a problem with but his x and his kids are going to be there as they have been invited. My partners family do not like me also and do not want me to be there!! They havent even met me yet but still they will not give me a chance. I have said to my partner that i might go to my mums 4 xmas ...

2007-10-30 21:35:55 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The other day, I was cleaning my boyfriend's house while he was at work as a nice gesture, not to snoop, and I found a prescription for the morning after pill.

Is my boyfriend a woman?

2007-10-30 21:35:48 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met my in laws last year for the first time. Everything was good untill I saw pic from my husband and his ex- girlfriend in there house. I thought thats was so disrespectful.

2007-10-30 21:27:07 · 22 answers · asked by Key 1 in Family

Is anyone else sick of that "sex on a cruise" posting of hers?

2007-10-30 21:24:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can I get him to do it?

2007-10-30 21:22:53 · 13 answers · asked by JeNnTV J 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do boys always try to look for sex in girls i mean the only aim to be friend and date ends in their longing for the same and on the other side girls want good company ,empathy and someone who cares and also few boys or men while wlking try to touch girls what sort of gratification do they get?

2007-10-30 21:18:17 · 13 answers · asked by jenny c 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't believe divorce is a good option, but my husband left me long ago and filed for divorce. I did all I could to make the marriage work, but he wanted to move on. When should I tell this great guy that I've been dating for a month that I've been married before?

2007-10-30 21:16:44 · 7 answers · asked by Pocahontas 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey, Ive always had this problem where I don't know what to talk about when Im talking to a girl or a person I just met. How can I improve or have more topic to keep the conversation flowing.

2007-10-30 21:15:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

gahhhhhh i'm sucha stupid idiot!!!! i had this long talk on myspace with this girl that goes to my school and i didn't know if she liked me or not, but i thought mabye she did but i told her i thought she was cute... and this was the first time i've talked to her like this.... i hate myself! she hasn't responded! what do i do?!?!?

2007-10-30 21:09:40 · 12 answers · asked by foxracer595 2 in Singles & Dating

Before were always on and off. She break me first then I go after her then she give me a chance. Then another incident I break her then she go after me again then I forgive her. I love her but there were several things sometimes I hate her also sometimes I dumb her then she break me again because according to her she was again hurt. I go after her again but she refused to come on with our relationship then it was a bad thing that I was really hurt because I love her so much. Now I realized that I was wrong and I accept it but she told me that it's too late to apologized. I want her to be with me again and I want to change right now because I really love her for now. Just an advice guys and I appreciate it. Also what should I do?

2007-10-30 21:09:12 · 4 answers · asked by tadzzzzz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello

I`ve been in a 6 months relationship that ended a month ago.

I really need to know how other women feel about this...

She was great.We were very different and she was depressive since the day her granpa died (she wore just black clothes; when we broke up, she was still feeling like her grandpa died yesterday).

sex was a big issue.she allways said that we`d only make love, not sex.and that will be when she`ll feel I love her.
we did sexual stuff (some of it very kinky) but never vaginal sex.

I care about her, but a non-sexual relationship is not a true one for me.at least, not a fulfilling one.in the beginning we were very intimate and attracted.then she got scarred and put distance between us.

I tried to just love her and let go, but I felt like she didn`t want me.I found myself hating and loving her at the same time...

I think she wanted to much, too early.now I feel like I loved her, but I`m still mad...and my patience gone long ago...

that`s a shame..

2007-10-30 21:07:36 · 9 answers · asked by Johnny A 1 in Singles & Dating

5 months ago we were just casual gym acquiantances(the introduction,hi,goodbye and may be maybe a small chat).Now i've had a few good conversdations with her,and lately it seems like she is always trying to follow me and pass me by in every section of the gym and sometimes wilol even have a silly grin on her face.I ask herwhat's so funny,and she says nothing,but will continue to try to pass by. What's her deal?

2007-10-30 21:05:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

feel of my friend

2007-10-30 21:01:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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2007-10-30 21:00:53 · 21 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

he doesnt know i know. he has been gay for about 9 years, and my parents are strongly against it (they are devout catholics), they finally told me last year. im fourteen now, and my brother and i have each other as "friends" on myspace. i saw some pics of him and this guy. they were holding each other, and there were some comments about "oh im so happy for you guys" and what not. on his page it says he is in a relationship and he wears a ring on his left ring finger. i am practically convinced he is in a relationship with this guy. my brother shares more with me now than he ever did before. now knowing this information, i feel like a liar. and when my parents ask me "hows lucas" (my brother = lucas) i feel totally dishonest. they dont judge him or hate him because hes gay, but they dont approve either. i dont know if i should tell them or keep it to myself. am i making a mountain out of a mole hill? i dont know. please, tell me what you think and thanks sooo much! =D

2007-10-30 21:00:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Please read everything in story(twists & turns).
2 family friends for decades.betty(female)& etty(male)met eachother became friends.etty was abroad working betty was in college.etty left home due to issues.betty was at home.both were friends but fell in love when went through everything death of a friend,ops together.Since ettys rich educated popular handsome man,betty was geeky nerd duckling in process to become swan girl.They kept in touch by emails & phone.Both were in love etty was scared to commit betty was in love.First 2 yrs etty was wonderful but after finding out betty lied few times like sending anothers photo,height,weight white lies after 2 years for next 3 years etty used to call ***** **** whore etc by email when angry tell on bettys family.bettys lied fearing would fall in love with etty & it would not work out.So guess ettys name calling for 3 yrs by email is justified.Past 3 years back this happened now fast forward to Betty & Etty at present.Continued please read.Betty is 25 gorgeous single working rich travels successful Etty 35 single reconnect after meeting again exchanging pictures.They meet after years in person again.Etty is totally in love with Betty thinks shes beautiful all misunderstandings cleared hasnt called names for past 1 yr being together directly in person not by email wants to commit marry Betty.Betty sometimes remembers years back by email etty used to call her names for almost 3 years it keeps coming back to her though etty is changed man now with age matured totally crazily in love with Betty wants to marry her.Betty does love etty.What does Betty do to stop getting reminded that years ago when in college long distance email communication for 3 years after betty lied few times etty used to call her names since now with age maturity etty has changed totally crazily loves her wants to marry her betty loves him too.Basically 7 yrs later both are grown up matured with age totally in love with eachother married kid etc.

2007-10-30 20:56:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Long story short, i havent been able to breathe properly for the past few weeks. Not bad, but just enough to make my chest feel really tight. Yesterday, i asked my mother to take me to see a doctor. She said no, that i was faking it. Today, i was stressed, and actually fainted. No one was home at the time, and I could barely breathe. I asked her again, to take me to the doctor later this afternoon. But no, she refused because there are no physical signs. I don't know what to, im not faking it. I have no reason to fake it, considering im homeschooled, so it's not to get out of school, and i have no job, so it's not to get out of that. I'm really scared about this, and i've talked to her but she refuses to believe me.. What do i do? I have no way of getting to the doctors without her driving me, im only 15. I'm scared something bad will happen..

2007-10-30 20:53:54 · 25 answers · asked by Clarity. 3 in Family

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2007-10-30 20:53:31 · 27 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont understand my ex. We were together for three years and broke up a year ago. We cut off all communications for one whole year and suddenly he pops up out of no where and comments one of pictures on myspace 2 weeks ago, i took off the picture (including his comment) and put another one up which he commented again! I really love and care for him that's why i tried to keep my distance, cause i've come so far and was getting over him, but i dont know... is he trying to open up a friendship again? guys help me out! and he has a gf too. thanks in advance

2007-10-30 20:47:38 · 12 answers · asked by LT 1 in Singles & Dating

married for 20 years, being abused verbally and phisically, he is influenced by drugs, doesnot want to work, i have to support my family, two of my grown up kids advising me to go for a divorce, please advice.

2007-10-30 20:46:28 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I weigh 155 lbs. and am 5'4 tall, mid twenties woman. My stomach is not too flat anymore, and my body doesnt look as good as an 18yr olds would. granted, i dont have much muscle either. given those facts, would you run to p**n and m********ion if you were my husband>? would you neglect me for months? see i know i am not as attractive as i used to be, but i'm not too fat either. to other people i look normal. yes i can work on my weight to be more muscular and fit...but what happens when i get older...i'm still young and not so ugly and my husband would rather do p""n in secret than care for me while he knows i suffer. am i crazy to be angry and upset, b/c i dont think i am.

2007-10-30 20:42:19 · 21 answers · asked by Ultrabrite 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please read everything in story(twists & turns).
2 family friends for decades.betty(female)& etty(male)met eachother became friends.etty was abroad working betty was in college.etty left home due to issues.betty was at home.both were friends but fell in love when went through everything death of a friend,ops together.Since ettys rich educated popular handsome man,betty was geeky nerd duckling in process to become swan girl.They kept in touch by emails & phone.Both were in love etty was scared to commit betty was in love.First 2 yrs etty was wonderful but after finding out betty lied few times like sending anothers photo,height,weight white lies after 2 years for next 3 years etty used to call ***** slut whore etc by email when angry tell on bettys family.bettys lied fearing would fall in love with etty & it would not work out.So guess ettys name calling for 3 yrs by email is justified.Past 3 years back this happened now fast forward to Betty & Etty at present.Continued please read.

2007-10-30 20:38:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im your great aunt Ruth that you only see 3 times a year and ive just died. i was really boring but i gave you chocolate every Easter. my funeral is the same day as your company trip to Hawaii. there will be another one in about a year but you "really, realy wanna go!"
so, what are you going to do?

2007-10-30 20:31:05 · 10 answers · asked by pj_jc_jh 3 in Family