omg i just fu**ed up like no other, help!?

Question

gahhhhhh i'm sucha stupid idiot!!!! i had this long talk on myspace with this girl that goes to my school and i didn't know if she liked me or not, but i thought mabye she did but i told her i thought she was cute... and this was the first time i've talked to her like this.... i hate myself! she hasn't responded! what do i do?!?!?

Answer 1

WAIT!
If u send ANYTHING AT ALL u will be written off as a stalker!
WAIT!
She will respond and if she doesn't, u know how she doesnt feel about u. That way u know not to waste ur time. She'll come around.

Answer 2

Dude pack your s*** and leave town you're done, change your name and phone no. Wait a minute, I thought you did something wrong. lol You're fine man, first off how did this even come up as far as you telling her you thought she was cute? Did she ask you what you thought of her, or did you just say it cuz you're an idiot? I'm only kidding, but anyway she might not have written back to you because all of a sudden she's shy now because she may feel the same way you do, take it easy and don't send any other messages, give her some time. Let us know what happened. By the way what was the conversation about anyway you gotta give more details, stuff she does or says that might indicate she likes you. Spill your guts man.

Answer 3

telling her she is cute doesnt make much of a deal. She might not be responding because she might be thinking that you find out that she likes you. There a many reasons why se may not be responding. I did that to my boyfriend when he told me that he liked me. He did the same thing he did it through myspace. But dont worry Im sure everything is ok

Answer 4

Thats not a bad thing you done, she's probably got a huge smile on her face right now, and you just caught her off guard, and possibly she's a little embaressed is all. Girls tend to be more on the shyer side. Look at it this way if she didn't like you she probably would have said something nasty back. So look at it as a Good thing.

Answer 5

Well it depends on how yall were talking most of the time. well if shes mature enough, just be like...what?i think your cute. and?....it was a compliment and she should have taken it well. Alot of women would have loved to hear it. Maybe she's shy or just didnt know what to say.Dont be hard on yourself, you should get use to giving small compliments here and there. Itll help in the long run.

Answer 6

There's nothing to hate yourself over. You took the plunge and put yourself out there. That's a good thing!

So maybe she's not interested. Or maybe there was a friend with her and she was embarrassed and switched the window. Maybe anything.

Just play it cool. Nothing bad has happened, right? Chat to her if you see her at school "hey I had fun talking the other night". Don't push it. See what happens :)

Answer 7

Talk in person---avoid feeling the way you do---it is a 50/50 shot that she will talk again or not---computer chat sucks--keep it all face to face--smile and relax---ask her to go to lunch or have coffee and see what develops. Dress nice---be well groomed, be respectful--keep the inane looks talk out of it. You don't say she is cute and that is why you want to go out--that is a terrible line--but you said it---just forget it...move on and have fun. Good luck

Answer 8

Play it off like you just meant that she was a good looking girl. Don;t make a big deal out of it. If she says anything, just act like you were giving her a nice compliment only.

Answer 9

dude, stop trippin out. U like her, its good u took the first step. U did not "f*** up like no other" and you should not hate urself. Geez man I thought u had cheated or something.

relax everything is fine

Answer 10

clear things out at school. make out what she thought abt ur comment n play safe the next time u chat with her.