im your great aunt Ruth that you only see 3 times a year and ive just died. i was really boring but i gave you chocolate every Easter. my funeral is the same day as your company trip to Hawaii. there will be another one in about a year but you "really, realy wanna go!"
so, what are you going to do?
2007-10-30 20:31:05 · 10 answers · asked by pj_jc_jh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
just so you know 'great aunt ruth' does not exist. i just wrote something random to see what people would do. youll notice that i use 'i' and 'my' as if i really was great aunt ruth.
2007-10-30 20:52:00 · update #1
Go to the funeral and then catch a later flight--the airline company can alter the plan ---there are lots of flights everyday--go the next day and enjoy it. DO NOT talk about the trip at the funeral--not being concerned about your family sounds crass and boorish--so do the right thing, Sorry to hear about your loss.
2007-10-30 20:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the slightest sadness over her passing away, then you must go to the funeral. Now that she's gone, wouldn't you at least miss the Easter chocolates? This funeral is a one-time affair and your kins will need the emotional support you can give. . . just this once. Just think: if a similar thing should happen to you and your relatives did not appear at the funeral because they went on a company trip, how would you feel about it?
Condolence!
2007-10-31 04:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab the chocolate and go to Hawaii whilst crying in my fresh coconut milk showers every day... Via La Stupidity!
2007-10-31 03:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sir Adam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them to change the date lol
OR
Quitely go to the furneal and then get a private jet from the furnural straight to hawaii and better yet GET THE COMPANT TO PAY!
LOL GOOD LUCK!
Sorry to hear about her passing away
2007-10-31 03:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the day before pay your respects and talk to the caretaker and find the graveyard where she will be burried and leave flowers at the burial site and a From (whoever you are) card showing the people who attend the funeral that you paid their respects
2007-10-31 03:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by ??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family is the most important thing in this life. You don't go for the one you lost, you go for those who got left behind. They Will need support. How many times has your family been there for you? You need to be there for them.
2007-10-31 03:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by bullcity25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there calling hours? I would go to those and then to on your trip. If there are not you can still see her and pay your last respects before you leave. She would not want you to cancel your trip. I wouldn't not want you to if it were me that died.
2007-10-31 03:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Light a candle and go on the trip..
2007-10-31 03:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by [275] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the last time you can see your aunt but the vacation has a second time. if you dont do you will feel really bad....i know i would....
2007-10-31 03:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ ʇɥbıuoʇ ǝıp sʇǝ1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the funeral or u will feel guilty the rest of ur life. come on man, dont u have a conscience????????????
2007-10-31 03:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋