Family & Relationships - 30 October 2007

Will I ever? I was lovestruck 2 times in my school, one who was average weight, and an average-joe girl, and I met another one, a super in shape muscular girl, who was still an average girl. I know both of them, one little more then the other, but they are both in grade 12. I was hoping they were in grade 9 (like me)

There is no girl I am attracted to in grade 9, even if they are the model looking ones that their goal is to look good, and I hate how they act. There is no girl in my entire school of grade 9 I like..

I know alot of you would probably say "oh you have your whole life. I was only deeply lovestruck with 2 girls (no including the one actress)

Will I ever find someone as I age? I am certainly thinking alot.

This, is a picture of the actress, on the left. This is probably one of the most beautiful pictures I have ever seem.

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2007-10-30 16:38:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 16:38:46 · 11 answers · asked by markymark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of about six months is turning eighteen this month, and I want to get him an extremely special gift, without the extreme price tag. What would you suggest?

2007-10-30 16:37:08 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a little worried about my sister. At work she has this one employee that is constantly giving her money like 20 dollars to go and eat which I didn't worry about but then he bought her flowers. He continues to give her money and buys her stuff (once he bought her ice cream). She is 19 and he is 57. She works as a registrar in the ER and he is a nurse. He also recently bought this other girl in our dept a $2,000 purse and that girl is 20yrs old. I asked my sister if he does this with other people and she said he does do nice stuff for this co-workers but he doesn't hand out money like he does with the younger females. Should I be worried for my sister? I mean I can't figure out this guys intention. She says he is not doing anything harmful and he is just very generous, but how do you know? I'm really scared for her. Am I just blowing this out of proportion? I don't wanna see my sister get hurt.

2007-10-30 16:35:06 · 3 answers · asked by Marium M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He moved far away, but he answered my letter two weeks before so he could drop it the post office near me. It was scented and he said he was moving back. Think it was more than just being polite?

2007-10-30 16:33:38 · 10 answers · asked by goodness 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been going out with this guy 4 almost a year. the problem is that he lives in another country. i used 2 be there and then i moved here last year. he never keeps his promises. he says he'll do this and he doesn't do it. if he knows that he cant do it, why does he say he will. i broke up with him three times...and we end up going out again. that was because he doesnt contact me for more that a month. i really don't like that. recently, i told him that its over between us and that i cant do this anymore. i called him and told him that. he said that he loves me and we should keep it going. so i told him i'll think about it 4 a week. he promised 2 call on sunday. sunday came and he never called, plus he said he was gonna send me an email and he never did.
sometimes he'll say he mobile gets stolen or something came up and he couldn't call. he has an email address but he doesnt send me emails. i dont mind him now calling..but at least he can send emails. what do i do?

2007-10-30 16:32:12 · 3 answers · asked by Aggie 2 in Friends

I love her to death and my grandmother up in my face about my girlfriend and I've told her to f off. My girlfriend is a beautiful person. my parents are ok with it. Should i care what my grandmother says?

2007-10-30 16:29:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have Lupus and back problems. he does not go out of his way to help me like cleaning house or doing laundry. when I say I hurt all over he has to say the same thing. I just want some love and caring but he's also the type that don't show his emotions but I do. I sit at home every day cleaning this or that. I'm getting tired of it and I'm not very happy. He don't even compliement me on how I look or the house looks nice or ever brings me a little something to cheer me up. I know I have my faults but I' don't ask a whole lot. I feel like running away and never coming back! For I don't feel cared for at all!

2007-10-30 16:27:29 · 14 answers · asked by smiley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-30 16:27:03 · 7 answers · asked by Khairul A R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't tell my gf that I love her that often. Maybe once a week I'll slip it into a conversation. Don't get me wrong, I do lover...more than life itself!! But, I don't want to wear it off and plus I don't think she wants to hear it all the time. I think it make the guy come of as "soft" guy. Also, I think it means more when used less. The problem is that sometimes, I want to tell her so bad and don't which is painful...and other times I do tell her and don't get much of a reaction. What's up with that?

2007-10-30 16:26:14 · 31 answers · asked by bananas4breakfast14 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 16:25:41 · 14 answers · asked by jojo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 16:23:38 · 6 answers · asked by 11:11 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. I just recently moved in with him and now we are fighting more than ever. Our fighting turns physical almost everytime and I always end up with bruzes. I try to leave but I can't stand the pain of it all. He just leaves and dosen't answer his cell. But when we get along it's great. He's out right now, not answering, and I don't know what to do. I hate sounding like a dumb girl but this as really painful. I thought I was stronger than this. My whole life is him. Or at least it was. How do I solve this? Will I ever get over it?

2007-10-30 16:22:30 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica S 1 in Singles & Dating

have you ever thought about him/her 's smile..pretty eyes....
all day long ? before go to the bed.. while tryting to sleeping..

Damn ..its suck.....

2007-10-30 16:21:38 · 7 answers · asked by HAPPY 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean I've given mine three chances, is that too much or should I just pack up and move on.

2007-10-30 16:19:50 · 19 answers · asked by Don m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so this guy that i really like doesn't like me, so should i just go out with this guy who really likes me even though i don't really like him? i'm just sick of being alone and i'm kind of depressed.

2007-10-30 16:17:56 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

stay mad at him all of the time. It seems like he does something everyday that upsets me or hurts my feelings or just plain pisses me off. I can't even say what it is that he's done. I take everything he says personally, even if he means it jokingly. I need to figure out why he's getting on my nerves so badly. I don't want to push him away. I need serious help. What in the world is going on with me??

2007-10-30 16:17:04 · 13 answers · asked by ncgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so theres this girl i like and ive already talked to her tons aobut this and she likes me back.
we started talking but were also best friends.
so were not sure if its gonna work out between us.
i aslo dont want to ruin our friendship or screw up.(ive never had a date before)
oh and by the way were in the grade 9 year (14years old)

2007-10-30 16:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in 6th grade and boys dont really express there feelings that much! theres this boy that likes me and he even said that he does but he doesnt act like he does! and i like this other boy but if he doesnt express his feeling 2 then how will i know he likes me or not?!

2007-10-30 16:13:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its very small, and i know it shouldn't matter, but how would you feel?

2007-10-30 16:13:28 · 12 answers · asked by andy e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

In other words: you thought you would 'never' cheat on your spouse, only to find that you did.

What happened before and after? Why did you get in to the affiar? Did your spouse find out? Was the affair worth it?

Thanks.

2007-10-30 16:11:06 · 27 answers · asked by Paul S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-10-30 16:11:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok.... latley ive been having the WORST writers block i have ever had. i love writing and i usualy have at least 2 ideas to work with... but this time i have nothing to work with. ive been at this writers block for 2 weeks. i swear. i cant get over it. and ive brain stormed. ive let it alone for 1 week. and i just got back to it.... and i cant seem to find anything i want to wrote about. any ideas? please help me....!!!

2007-10-30 16:11:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for 13 years and we have a child together. However within the last year, he has been in contact with an ex and talking to her when I am not at home. I have found things that says he loves her and vise versa. When I confront him, he tells me he will always love her and noone can stop that. He tells me the conversation occur when I am not home because that is the only time that he and she can talk. She is also married with children and from what I am hearing her husband has the same concern but I was told he had an affair and that is why she has to hide their conversations. When he is talking to her he acts differently towards me. The conversations revolve around her, and he is more touch feely with me. Am I making a big issue out of this or should I be concerned? I don't mind the fact they are talking but the I love you stuff and other things that are talked about to me is not right to say to an ex. Any advise would be helpful. Thanks!!!

2007-10-30 16:10:48 · 17 answers · asked by jbb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive known this girl for like 2 weeks we talk I asked her to be my friend she said yeah I want to ask her out on a date but I dont want to pressure her or make her feel uncomterbal how do I do it ?

2007-10-30 16:04:50 · 31 answers · asked by what do I do 1 in Singles & Dating

well if youve read my other questions then you know what im talking about. if not then let me summarize it for you. i moved to minnesota from texas to live with my dad, stepmom, and little brother so i could attend highschool. i thought i would love it up here but my dream did not turn out like so. i have come to the conclusion that i belong in texas and i am going to move back after i complete my freshman year. my dad has even stated that i can move back if i really want too. i probablly dont want to confront him untill after new years that way i can focus on school work. so how should i go about confronting him? im really afraid that his heart will be broken cuz him and i are like best friends. what should i do or say???

2007-10-30 16:01:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and I have been fighting for 2 days straight now. Everything I do is bugging him, he's yelling about everything! Up until now he's been really supportive, but because I didn't drain the sink he had a spaz attack and threw things around the kitchen...because I told him it was too late to use a shop vac he flipped out and told me to piss off. I dont know what I'm doing wrong and its stressing me out big time which is something I don't need. I want him to go away but I cant because well, he lives here. What should I do? I'm totally stressed out!

2007-10-30 15:57:06 · 11 answers · asked by krisindeed 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-30 15:56:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can you be best friends with the person your in love with? Do you have to be? Should you be? Why? My friend and I were debating these question and i want to be some more views and reasoning behind them. Thanks.

2007-10-30 15:50:43 · 34 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i made a mistake by touching my gf's butt in school. My gf;s bro. found out and then told her parnets. Now they hate me and i can't do anything w/ her. I'm serious. I can't even sit at like a table w/ her w/o her mom staring at me. making sure my hands stay above the table. everything is wrong and messed up. I can't see besides in school or school activities. It sucks ****. I really love my gf and i want to respect her word that i shouldn't talk to her parents. I really feel like i can change them. I'm a good negoitiator. I don't want her to get in trouble or it to get any worse but I just want to have a normal relationship w/ my gf. Now for the questions:
1) should I talk w/ her parents?
2) Do u think this can get better?
3) what should I do to show her parents I've changed? (don't say do stuff to show them bcuz I can't do anything around them?) I'm not very good at writing so yeah. it's kinda short. SO can u help me? PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ I'm begging u!!!!

2007-10-30 15:49:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating