In other words: you thought you would 'never' cheat on your spouse, only to find that you did.
What happened before and after? Why did you get in to the affiar? Did your spouse find out? Was the affair worth it?
Thanks.
2007-10-30 16:11:06 · 27 answers · asked by Paul S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i had actually thought that i would never cheat on my husband but i did and it was wrong but i couldnt help it. when he started pushing me away someone else that was married approached me and we were sleeping around and of course got caught. thats not the worst part. a few weeks later i found out that i was pregnant. when my daughter was 4 months old i decided to leave my husband because we just couldnt get along at all. was it worth it? no because i really hurt him just as much as he hurt me. it took everything i had to leave him and move on with my life.
2007-10-30 16:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have I had one? Yes I have.
Before it things were just not working at all communication wise or in any other way. After it things had not changed but I had found some relief in more ways than one.
I got in it due to being tired of not having anyone I could converse with in a civil manner.
If she knew either she did not say or it did not matter. All the bills were still being paid by me and she was spending her money on what she wished. Might have been that she did not want to have to use her money to support her ****.
Oh yes, well worth it. I did get some adult sane conversation and mutually agreed upon sexual gratification out of it. Would I do such again? If in the same circumstances BET YOUR BOOTY!!
2007-10-30 16:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ronnie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I thought about it. My husband is military and right now he is gone every other 15 months. I love sex and I need it. But it really isn't worth it, a one night stand isn't worth losing my baby. I would never have an affair. And if I wanted to I would rather tell my hubby cause the cover up is always worst and it makes things more difficult. We are human and weakness is in all us but submission is not. I rule my desires and not vice versa.
2016-04-11 04:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, I have never had an AFFAIR!
I seperated from my spouse, this marriage did not last a year. We seperated because I was not in love to stay married to someone that could not clean up their act after they were given two fair chances\ and a choice that if they did not, I was gone. Soon after I started seeing who I was in love with and had been in love with for over 2 years. We had a platonic relationship and my spouse knew about.
I let my spouse know who I was seeing once it started.
I am still with the person that I started seeing after we seperated. That was 10 years ago.
Though my partner and I seperated for 4 months I could not even bring myself to have a one-night stand with an attractive man because my heart still belonged to my partner and still does.
2007-10-30 16:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I had an affair. And a month into it, I swore I would stay with my husband, that I would do anything to stay with him, because I was pregnant (with hubby's baby) and our baby deserved to have her father. This was a planned pregnancy and I was THRILLED.....hubby wasn't so happy about it, though, and he started to pull away from me more and more. We were already on shaky ground and the pregnancy didn't help. The breaking point was about 2 months into my pregnancy. Not only could hubby not get one sinkful of dishes done in 14 hours while I was at work, but when I came home and asked him for some time, he looked at his MMORPG, then at me, then at the game, then back at me and asked "Can it wait? I'm really into something here."
I left my husband for the other guy. The other guy was with me throughout the entire pregnancy, was there at my daughter's birth and moved 500 miles with me when I chose to move up in my career. He is now SAHD to 'our' daughter and I'm waiting on the divorce papers.
Was the affair worth it?
YOU BET
2007-10-30 16:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I thought I would never cheat but then I grew out of love and there was another man there to tell me what I needed to hear.I did come clean about it and in the long end it was not even close to worth it.
2007-10-30 16:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time I ever cheated on my spouse was when he did it to me first. It hurt. Once when you cheat, it is NEVER the same. You might as well break up/divorce. It is not worth it.
2007-10-30 16:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had an emotional affair and it was great, but then I realized that if I wanted to be with my husband I had to be honest. So I told him that I would stop being "friends" with this guy and my husband was upset because he thought my friend was good for me even thought he knew that my friend like me more than a friend. Then I told him that this guy was more aggressive and I couldn't take it anymore. So my husband told me to tell my friend to stop. After that I told him that I had to stop seeing him because I liked him and he told that it's was OK for me to have sex with him because he knew I would be bored with him in 8 weeks (and it was true). I never did anything but stop that friendship. I emotionally cheated on my husband and he didn't care if I did more.
2007-10-30 16:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by Oops 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends, right now I Love a married woman, and she loves me, because her husband don't makes her happy...Sometimes I feel bad because I felt in love with a married woman and is not right, but at the same time our love is true and I have done to her things that he never did. Hopefully later she would brake up with her husband but in a good way because he is nice with her but doesn't complete what she really wants (we been for 11 months)...God forgive us but we love each other>>>Secret Love!
2007-10-30 16:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by Yulien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I am very happy. Why invest time and energy in another relationship when I have one at home that is perfectly wonderful. I say work on the one you have before looking elsewhere.
2007-10-30 16:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by truely_loved 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋