stay mad at him all of the time. It seems like he does something everyday that upsets me or hurts my feelings or just plain pisses me off. I can't even say what it is that he's done. I take everything he says personally, even if he means it jokingly. I need to figure out why he's getting on my nerves so badly. I don't want to push him away. I need serious help. What in the world is going on with me??
2007-10-30 16:17:04 · 13 answers · asked by ncgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm 31...been married for 8 1/2 years...been together for 14 years.
2007-10-30 16:36:55 · update #1
I'd say you're pregnant! OK, sorry - just trying to lighten the atmosphere a little. Seriously, it's time to speak to a professional counselor about your anger issues. Notice I did not say a marriage counselor - what I gather from your question's wording is that the issue is primarily yours. Mutual counseling might be in order later, but initially, you need to go find some help learning to deal with your reactions to perceived irritants. I bet your hubby isn't the only person you get royally pissed at with some frequency. Your county office of mental health can help you find a suitable counselor...
2007-10-30 16:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could you be pregnant? Or did you just start a new birth control pill? Sounds like me when my hormones are out of wack. No matter what it is, call your doctor. It may be something simple like your body needs to adjust to a new medication or it could be more complex like depression. Either way, it wouldn't hurt to give them a call and make an appointment. Since it's not normal for you, you need to see someone. Good luck!
2007-10-30 16:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy Drew 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you just need to go to the doc and get a good check up, my wife went through the change early and she would do me the same way constantly, once she got through the change everything got back to normal, i just hope you got a patient husband or things could get pretty rocky or down right disasterest, youknow the big D even. but the doc might be able to fix you up with something to stabelize you mood swings, good luck and for your husband sake check in to it, you'll be glad you did.
2007-10-31 00:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your not mad at him, but you're unhappy with your life overall, and you're taking it out on him because he's there.
It's not fair to him, and it's not his job to make you happy, it's your job to find happiness to share with him.
Try talking to family or friends to get to the root of the problem, because if you keep doing this, he will leave eventually.
2007-10-30 16:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound like me after i had our first baby. i had to be put on celexxa, and antidepressent cuz i was always mad at my hubby for everything. you might be going through a stage, or maybe you have depression, or something like that.. i would see a gyno to make sure, tell them whats going on, they can help.
2007-10-30 16:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by lilmomma86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word...therapy. We can't tell you why you feel this way, only you can. You give us no specifics, thus we can't give you a real answer, not that we are shrinks. There is a reason why this is happening. If you can't figure that out, maybe a shrink can.
2007-10-30 16:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by CC 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how long you've been married, or how old you are.
Regardless, counseling will help. Talking to each other will help too. Tell him how you feel.
2007-10-30 16:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by Richard F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormonal changes perhaps? or maybe you are angry about something else, and not talking about it, so every little thing is an issue.
2007-10-30 16:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the last time i felt like that towards my hubby, i was pregnant.
hormones, hormones, hormones
2007-10-30 16:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by karMA_DAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats your a wife !
2007-10-30 16:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋