Have you naughty things ever had a fling? Tell us, was it fun? Was it a total disaster? We want to know!
What's the most exciting thing about having a fling?
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2007-10-30 16:11:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The most exciting part is you are living in the moment. You have no past, except what you make up or choose to share. You don't have to worry about saying or doing "the right thing" because you know is there is no future. The "shoulds" and "shouldn'ts" cease to exist.
2007-10-30 16:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by deirdrezz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah the fling. Well some girls I've been with probably didn't want to fling but I was travelling around europe so I couldn't stay too long, plus there's a lot of girls in europe, haha. It might sound weird but I really just liked the company and getting to know someone, that was the bits I remember more than anything. Plus when you're with people for the first few weeks they're trying to impress you and always share some really great stories. I remember that more than anything else.
2007-10-31 12:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by junglegymgeorge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sex is usually very spontaneous, naughty, and sooooo fantastic, the laughter is real, and the excitement of not knowing whats going to happen next just blows you away. Who needs drugs! Have a fling!
Live life to the max, don't think about it, DO IT!
2007-11-01 12:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it was an easy way to break back into dating as I hadn't had a date for a while so to know there was no strings attached was good. I resisted the guy for a while but he was going back overseas for in a few weeks so he convinced me by saying let's just have some fun spending time with each other. We had really good chemistry and just had fun going out at nights laughing at the world and having a ball
2007-10-31 12:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a friend who said her life was a series of flings. She never slept with any of the guys but she enjoyed being taken out to do different things she wouldn't have ordinarily done, like snorkelling and going to certain clubs and stuff.
2007-11-01 14:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by shoppingfool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, can I bit a bit naughty and say they, um, bedroom. Well, if you're with a guy for 3 months it's the most exciting time to be intimate, after a while it just gets well, no surprises.
2007-10-31 12:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't had a fling myself but I think it would be the lustful anticipations that makes it exciting.
2007-11-01 01:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by ♆Şрhĩņxy - Lost In Time. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least both parties know what the deal is. They have some down sides but it depends on the other person, if you both can relax and have fun then have fun. It's less reward but also less of a stress too.
2007-10-31 12:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by Gwen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh saucy,
I'd have to say the electricity of it all. Meeting someone new and just being able to live and bounce of each other's energies. It might not last long but boy it's fun while it does last. Just the whole, hmm, aura of it all. Phew, getting all flushed just thinking about it, hehe.
2007-10-30 16:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um do u guys use protection when on a fling??? or is it all about having fun and letting yourself 'lose' you know what i mean...
2007-11-03 21:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋