ok so theres this girl i like and ive already talked to her tons aobut this and she likes me back.
we started talking but were also best friends.
so were not sure if its gonna work out between us.
i aslo dont want to ruin our friendship or screw up.(ive never had a date before)
oh and by the way were in the grade 9 year (14years old)
2007-10-30 16:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aw!! well i think yall should try it out and just see and if it doesnt seem right or doesnt seem like it will work just say you know were still best friends lets just forget about it and stay good friends or also like make a little deal with each other about if yall decide to get together or have something more than friends that before you guys decide to do this make sure yall both agree that if things dont work out yall will still be best friends and wont let that make yall not friends anymore.
2007-10-30 16:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive always believed we become friends first an thats about learning about each other having fun getting closer an being able to talk about anything you seem too have this already an thats a good thing.. I dont see why not you cant get closer to this girl if you both have the connection thats a good thing... All you have to be is the way you an thats yourself she seems to like you the way you are you just have to keep going an Im sure you wont screw up you have to make sure this girl wants the same as you want just friends or more than that.. good luck
2007-10-30 23:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet_mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweet heart,
your still a baby with your whole life ahead of you! But I have to say that I can understand where you are coming from because I met my now husband when I was 14 years old!! We were best friends and in love. we watched each other date other people because we were afraid of messing up our friendship, but let me tell you something, I have been married to him now for 10 years and I wouldnt change a thing! I can't say that the same thing will happen to you love but let her read this email too. Take things slow and always love and respect each other!!!!
2007-10-30 23:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Desire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yay! im the 1st to answer this. ok so ive been there done that.
1st of all my advice may or may not help you, considering im a 7th grader but ive had my fair share of boy drama.
ADVICE: if yoiu two are head over heels do it. youll be happy.
if you just like eachother and are comfortable with your relationship as besties and don;t want to put that friendship at stake, id hold off. let her make up her mind first and she will give you signs that you should be2gether.
BTW., if you become the one to break up with her
NEVER say,"can we still be friends?"
just assume the role and everything should be normal again by like next week depending on how forgiving she is.
hope this helpes =D
2007-10-30 23:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the best marriages started out with a very good friendship. I would definitely NOT mess this up by having sex with her. Take it very slow if you really care about her. Do the things you both enjoy doing together as friends, and relax. Dating her will not mess your friendship up unless you do something to hurt her, like pressure her into sex.
2007-10-30 23:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by Hope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u like her and she likes you and you guys show it in public , your already dating. Just take her out to eat or to the movies, then after the date ask her if you guys are official. all girls love a guy with CONFIDENCE! Good luck
2007-10-30 23:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by KMGSP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure you really like her because it just might ruin your friendship. Seen it too many times. Since you two are 14 i wouldn't recommend it
2007-10-30 23:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...i jus went threw this same exact thing..do u feel like u want her bad enough to chance ur friendship? but she doesnt feel that way...that means u probably lost ur chance already...or she is likin someone else..an is stinging u along..u sound like me///hnoestly....ask her before it gets worse..i love the girl now..and i will never be with her =/
2007-10-30 23:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure she likes you first. if she does, take it slow. a date here and there. if it feels awkward, stop going out with her. its better to try than never know.
2007-10-30 23:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by joho_899 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dive right in and give it a go :D
I hope it works out x]
2007-10-30 23:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by -WS- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋