I love her to death and my grandmother up in my face about my girlfriend and I've told her to f off. My girlfriend is a beautiful person. my parents are ok with it. Should i care what my grandmother says?
2007-10-30 16:29:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate my grandmother she's an old bitc- who spent my dad's inheritance and won't pay it back. Screw Her.
2007-10-30 17:36:51 · update #1
No i'm not a gangster. and my grandmother doesn't like my girlfriend because she's older than me.
2007-10-30 17:38:23 · update #2
No. Your grandmother is silly. (You shouldn't tell her to f- off, though, no matter what she says.) That age difference isn't much. I'm interested in a man 20 years older than me... consider that.
2007-10-30 16:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Do you live in the barrio, or what? Why would you use the verbiage, "Up in my face," and follow with telling your grandmother to "f" off? I'm 33 and wouldn't date a gangster. But this is beside the point... The thing is, parents and grandparents don't like to see their relatives, particularly their children and grandchildren make life altering mistakes. This is your grandmother's reason for being in your face, so to speak. Show respect by listening to her. You will learn from her experience. Your age difference: I've never personally seen a couple with this much age difference succeed without much effort on both parts. Your dating life is your own business at 28 years-old. Explain this to Grandma, but proceed with caution.
2007-10-30 23:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by MWestbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No. If your grandmother seems to have a good track record with summing up your girlfriends I would totally take her advice into consideration but if she just doesnt like her cuz she's 38 dont worry about it
2007-10-30 23:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by moviechick2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You spoke like that to your grandmother? It sounds like you are not mature enough for a girl your age. That's why you need an older woman, someone to take care of you.
After your granny is gone you will regret not asking her for advice when she was alive.
2007-10-30 23:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by DonPedro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be better if you explained to your grandmother why you love your girlfriend so much. If she still disagrees then tell her you respect her opinion, but you're still going to follow your heart. Whatever you say to her, show her the respect she deserves.
2007-10-30 23:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by InLoveAndLost80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More info needed, why is she up in your face? What doesn't your grandmother like about your girlfriend and why?
2007-10-30 23:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by Zach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would but I wouldn't curse my grandma because she loves me. I don't think she's always right but she was brought up differently in her generation. She has old ways of thinking. She could be afraid you won't be able to have children.
2007-10-30 23:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no my Lady love is 33 and I am 45 .her kids think I am the greatest at times .
2007-10-30 23:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by knightrunner13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to others u both are adults. No one should be able to control ur relationships. Good luck to u both.
2007-10-30 23:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by Nuthouse 4456 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw old people get crabby for no reason just remember this the age for love doesnt matter
2007-10-30 23:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by viva_raza_chicano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋