i've been going out with this guy 4 almost a year. the problem is that he lives in another country. i used 2 be there and then i moved here last year. he never keeps his promises. he says he'll do this and he doesn't do it. if he knows that he cant do it, why does he say he will. i broke up with him three times...and we end up going out again. that was because he doesnt contact me for more that a month. i really don't like that. recently, i told him that its over between us and that i cant do this anymore. i called him and told him that. he said that he loves me and we should keep it going. so i told him i'll think about it 4 a week. he promised 2 call on sunday. sunday came and he never called, plus he said he was gonna send me an email and he never did.
sometimes he'll say he mobile gets stolen or something came up and he couldn't call. he has an email address but he doesnt send me emails. i dont mind him now calling..but at least he can send emails. what do i do?
2007-10-30 16:32:12 · 3 answers · asked by Aggie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i just got an email from him and he's glad that i care about him and stuff like that. am not sure whether 2 take him back or break it off. but i really like him and i really want 2 break it off too.
the problem is that i don't wanna hurt his feelings. he's hurt me alot too.
plz help!!
2007-10-30 16:34:52 · update #1
thanks u guys. i need more answers plz.
2007-10-30 16:40:45 · update #2
Let him go. Life is to short to be unhappy and I'm sure there is a guy out there that is a bit closer that can make you smile. He's full of excuses. Move on. You'll feel better if you do.
2007-10-30 16:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ben 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not waste your time and energy on a guy like him. If he loves you that much, he should also put a lot of effort on trying to make the relationship work for both of you. But from the way you are telling it, he doesn't seem to have energy on your relationship. To put it bluntly, he is just not into you. Break it up. It is going to hurt a lot, I know. But you will only get more pain if you continue your relationship. Waste of time, waste of energy. There are lots of nice men out there, that is near your place. Move on. Time heals. Good luck.
2007-10-30 16:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by aileen a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should end it and start finding someone that treats you with respect and cares about you.
2007-10-30 16:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by :DDDDDD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋