Ok guy and gals, I got a tuff one for ya, if your wife cheats on ya do you give her a second chance?

Question

I mean I've given mine three chances, is that too much or should I just pack up and move on.

Answer 1

personally i think you know the answer, but if you love her and cn put up with it, keep her around, but i doubt if its gonna stop, sorry pal, i had one of those myself when i was very young, thank god and the greyhound she is gone.

Answer 2

Well first things first: You have to figure out what is important to you. For example, religion, what is your religion, or what faith do you practice.? For example, in the catholic religion, you try your best to keep it together, because your not just dissolving a marriage, your slapping GOD in the face. So, if religion is important to you, you have to think about that. 2. If not, well then if you just think it's you and her, well then you should still think what is important to you, for example, family, do you have children, how much do you love her, things like that. Now GOD is the most important. But you have to think about those things. What if she's trying to tell you to let her go, by cheating on you, I used to know someone who did that for that reason.? Well, whatever the outcome, good luck, and remember, just because she leaves, it doesn't mean the end of the world.

Answer 3

As an ex-wife who cheated I would say once is too much. I had an affair because there was a lot missing in my relationship with my husband. If she's 'stepped out' three times, there's something she needs....therapy.

Answer 4

It is not a tough one at all Don. There is no excuse for cheating - none! I would never accept someone back after cheating not now not forever. Pack up and move on.

Answer 5

Move on. If you haven't cheated, despite everything she has done, you deserve better. But don't re marry until you've completely forgiving your current wife, otherwise you could push your potential wife to cheating to just by being to scared and overly controlling

Answer 6

First chance she cheated

Second chance I'd walk

Third chance SHE and her family should kneeldowns and bows to me and beg for my forgiveness for they hadn't have educated her enough for her to have any self respect and decency...

Without that third chance have been enforced. I would not give her any chance, which translates to ZERO TOLERANCE IN ME MYSELF AND I WOLONGQLKM'S BOOK OF MARRIAGE.

But who Am I to say and/or to enforce that rules since I am single but I just wanted to raise my awareness to whomever it might have concerned about my position of infidelity in a loving marriage between two adults and what kind of preemptive action should be taken to prevent the actual misconduct of the other partner might have caused upon my shoulders and/or mishaps might have happened in my life before, during and after an infidelity, etc....Thank You very very much!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Why is this a tough question? This is a daily question that gets asked about 200 times.

After 1, I would have asked to have them pack their bags. Three equals gluton for punishment.

Answer 8

she should have been out the first time. to me its the same thing as when a man cheats. they do it once they do it again. i can almost understand the first time you taking her back but when she did it a second time it proves that she cant control herself and she isnt ready to commit herself and her body to one person. she doesnt need to be married she needs to be on her own to grow up so yes you should move on and find someone who can respect you.

Answer 9

I'd give her a single second chance. She screws around on me again, she's history and he's a corpse!

Answer 10

OMG move on! She evidentially is NOT happy w/you. She has proven to you that once a cheater always a cheater & she will keep doing it because you keep taking her back. What is it going to take, catching her in the act!!