Family & Relationships - 30 October 2007

I'm looking for a friend of my mother in the Usa, but i can not find her phone number, because i live in Italy, i know that she live in New York around Woodsbury probably, near a beach, if anyone is interested to help me, please send me an email and i will write you the name to search on the phone book.
I thank you in advance, Leo

2007-10-30 17:22:44 · 6 answers · asked by anubi_85 3 in Friends

If my X-spouse and I share custody of our 2 kids 50/50, Is if fair that the the my state require the non-ustodal parent to pay 1 week of pay or any child support to the other parent?

2007-10-30 17:20:49 · 23 answers · asked by koriey_610 1 in Marriage & Divorce

....and them also telling you of the stupid things they would do now and then, that you wouldn't do?

2007-10-30 17:18:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you know if a guy is serious about you or just wants to play games? Will they act different in both scenarios?

2007-10-30 17:17:21 · 2 answers · asked by person 1 in Singles & Dating

ok long story short me and this guy ruined our chances of being together. he got a gf i got a bf.
Then i became single, and this guy was still flirting with me, trying to persuade me to hold on, as he was unhappy in his relationship
Recently things went a little to far..he didn't cheat, but he flirted a little too much, and told me that he loved me..
Now the guy has completley backed away, as he feels guilt.. and thinks that if he left his gf for me, then he wouldnt deserve true love

I have learnt to accept this and have let go, cos i want him to be happy.. But at the same time i am really pissed of that he lead me on for so long... And he has been lieing to his gf
What is your view on this?

2007-10-30 17:16:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Boyfriend and his family whom i love beyond belief and are pretty much the most important people in my life, have a grandson. Well it's His grandson. The boy is 10 & i have asked a few questions before regarding the kid. He is beyond any 10 year old i have ever seen. he calls his mother a *****, uses the f word like it was candy, hits any one he so chooses with a big metal bat, tortures the neighborhood animals and on and on and on. his family says that he just has a few issues and to let him be. Well i'm not going to let some obnoxious out of control little brat hit me with a bat or call me curse words that no kid has any busines saying. But it is also not my place to correct the kid. i feel totally uncomfortable in the house when he is there. But i don't want to hurt my Boyfriend or His family. How do i tell them i can't be around when the kid is there without it sounding like an ultimatum or needlessly hurting them?

2007-10-30 17:15:19 · 5 answers · asked by purple dove 5 in Friends

my boyfriend went into rehab, choice of jail or rehab court ordered .... i heard he's back at work this week and i'm curious if you think i should call him to see how he is or just leave him alone.
maybe he met someone new at rehab or maybe he wants to be alone.
i've never known him clean and sober, so he will be some brand new to me and i'm kinda scared to make the first move.
i think he is scared too.
what do you think ?

2007-10-30 17:14:39 · 22 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

My mom is not into her grandkids..she doesnt like when her own kids get along...she only lives 2 blocks away and never sees them... she tells everyone her family doesnt care or love her... even though we all tried to prove otherwise but gave up...Dont feel sorry for me.. we are used to her... The problem is she calls a week before xmas asking what to buy the kids and makes a huge deal out of what SHE bought for xmas... I am not taking her gifts this year am I wrong ?

2007-10-30 17:12:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why am i attracted to (as i put it before) igNORANT selfish pigs?

2007-10-30 17:11:44 · 7 answers · asked by jojo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 17:11:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 17:08:59 · 10 answers · asked by markymark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need help imma virgin and i would like to no how bad does it exactly hurt and how much does it bleeed. oh also those of u who are answering and are not a virgin could u help me like tell me exactly what will happen like the day after or while u are having sex.

**thanks in advance**

2007-10-30 17:07:22 · 42 answers · asked by ~**ThE oNe AnD oNlY**~ 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a really seroiurs one!!!

2007-10-30 17:07:18 · 7 answers · asked by Leanne R 1 in Singles & Dating

We tied the knot only after a few months of knowing one another. I come from a different country. When we were dating he made several trips to my across the continents to meet me & my family.

Shortly after we married, I moved to be with him. However only a few weeks later, trouble started. He kept saying he made a mistake & wanted me to ‘get out of his house’ – over every little disagreement we had. This also resulted in him destroying my books & other personal belongings. I lived in fear all those months. When my parents visited us later in the year, he threw them out of our house too – without an apology. And still refuses to apologise even today.

Today we are separated. I am devastated & broken-hearted given the way things went as I always believed that a marriage should last a lifetime. He says he is disappointed & sad as well!! What gives? Any ideas on what might explain his behaviour? How did he expect things to be any different??

2007-10-30 17:07:11 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my good friend like a same guy(this happen alot of time and it is usually me like the guy 1st)...i have already told the guy that i like him(i like bout months ago)...and my friend who just like him, get to know that i told him that i like him, tell him that she like him too!!! then...she would be sticking around him and speak bad bout me...saying that i bully her and stuff like that which is not true!!!

what should i do?
what do you think about her?

2007-10-30 17:06:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 17:04:59 · 8 answers · asked by Don't Give Up On Me 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband started playing the game world of war craft around three years ago i have three children ages 8 5 and 2 that have got used to the fact there farther woud rather play this game than play with them it is also hard for me to accept that i have lost him to this game every time i say somthing to him im called a nag am i over reacting
i call myself a computer widow help what do i do now

2007-10-30 17:03:59 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know what to do with my life... i really love her... but she is pregnant with someone else's baby right now... im clueless

2007-10-30 17:03:46 · 11 answers · asked by King Diamond 2 in Singles & Dating

hes way too hard on himself and never accepts compliments.

2007-10-30 17:03:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How does a couple go about testing the waters with swinging? We're happily married for over 17 years, but we'd like to try something different to "spice" things up a bit. Don't want any "you'll go to hell" or "why did you get married" answers. I'm an atheist and my wife is non-practicing, so you're wasting your time. And marriage is primarily a financial relationship anyhow. Afterall, you can love more than one person anyhow (I love my wife, my kids, my mom, etc.).

How do you get started? Need some practical advice.

2007-10-30 17:02:21 · 10 answers · asked by davey_m_m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In looking at some of the answers on here I have come to the conclusion that my feet {7.5 in mens} are smaller in fact alot smaller than a lot of women out there. How would you feel if you were with a guy and your feet were bigger?

2007-10-30 17:01:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my man and sleeping next to him... but he snores soooo dam loud and sounds like he is eating a pack of gum....

No he isnt overweight... and he is healthy.

2007-10-30 16:59:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just curious.

2007-10-30 16:57:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do people come to the conclusion about if they should get married? Does he ask her? Does she ask him?? And how did they come to the conclusion?.......was the girl usually pushing about the subject??....

2007-10-30 16:55:19 · 15 answers · asked by toenail 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when i was letting him see them he would come to my house but was seeing me also ,but i told him i dont want him coming over anymore cause he was always coming over drunk and real late ,and i got tired of putting up with that type of relationship. well now he wants to pick them up but i feel like he has a drinking problem when he did come over he would bring his other son over and pass out and not watch him i dont want him to do that with my kids so i jusr ignore him and dodge his calls because i am not gonna let him take them ,but i dont want him to take me back to court either but if i let him come over and play house with him he doesnt try to take them by the way he lives with anther women who swears they just roomates but then again she tells him she does not want my kids at his house its confusing and i just want to leave him alone completly but he says he will get a lawyer to get his kids and he does have the money for one the kids anr 3months and 2 years old girls

2007-10-30 16:54:49 · 11 answers · asked by Sd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, how long were you divorce and what had to happen for all to forgive and reunite

2007-10-30 16:51:14 · 12 answers · asked by john wayne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would you ever get back with an abusive partner? if so what would he/she have to do to win your heart back

2007-10-30 16:48:36 · 17 answers · asked by john wayne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems like they just don't care when that happens. I can't put the two together.

2007-10-30 16:45:27 · 18 answers · asked by whitetop94538 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It is quite common that a girl says she wants a nice guy, but in the end, she ends up dating a jerk. Why is that ?

I, too, have been rejected in the past in favor for a jerk. Do I need to act like a jerk just to get girls ?

Thoughts and comments ?

2007-10-30 16:39:55 · 33 answers · asked by JustANiceGuyHere 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush who teases around with girls but idk if he likes the populars, loners, tom boyz, or rebels. wut do guys like?

2007-10-30 16:39:28 · 8 answers · asked by Margo 1 in Singles & Dating