me and my good friend like a same guy(this happen alot of time and it is usually me like the guy 1st)...i have already told the guy that i like him(i like bout months ago)...and my friend who just like him, get to know that i told him that i like him, tell him that she like him too!!! then...she would be sticking around him and speak bad bout me...saying that i bully her and stuff like that which is not true!!!
what should i do?
what do you think about her?
2007-10-30 17:06:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should just continue being his good friend or friend...help him whenever he needs help and be there with him when he is down...
as for your good friend...i think she is giving herself too much false hope...guys do not like girls pestering them...she isn't worth being your good friend gal...
2007-10-30 17:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not a good friend. if you really love or like the guy and he likes you just tell him the truth no matter what he thinks about you the truth is better than a lie like your friend she lied to win him so tell him the truth and if he did not listen just live the guy because that kind of relationship can not work out for a long period of time
2007-10-30 17:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sandra A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally this is NOT a friend and I dont think it is right for you to fight over a guy, friendship is more important except in this case where your friend is being selfish and I would not be friends with the type of person who talks behind my back. Friends are like diamonds, precious and rare, guys are like leaves, found everywhere.
i would move on from this guy and find a new guy and friend as she is very nasty and if my friend liked the same guy as me, I would rather let him go then to lose her over it and I would hope she felt the same!
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2007-10-30 17:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by Me, myself and I 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is not your "good friend" she is a horrible friend. It is hard when you and a friend like the same guy but she weer a real friend she would go talking bad about you. At the most she should let him know she likes him too and then let him choose what he wants to do.
This is why its good to be friends with girls with complete opposite taste in guys. :)
2007-10-30 17:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U probably need to re-evaluate ur friendship first of all. Based on her actions, I wouldn't consider her my friend if I were you. Secondly, in the future, when it comes to friendships vs. relationships, you're gonna have to decide which one is more important than the other- unfortunately a lot of times you cant always have both, Good luck.
2007-10-30 17:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she does that? Why would you call her a good friend? I think that your "friend" is putting relationships first before friends and your friendship could be ruined if she continues saying bad things about you.
2007-10-30 17:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by seeleeree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A true friend would back the hell off. Maybe she needs to be reminded of that.
2007-10-30 17:09:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not your friend if she is doing that to you. Time to move on to to a real friend. People show you who they are, why fight it! Obvious this boy is more important to her than your friendship!
2007-10-30 17:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by blaqisbaq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your bestie and your guy, I say, if you dont get him or her back... war begins.. Dont try to win him back unless you HVE to! But ask him if he likes you, and not your bestie. That would tell alot.. hope this helped, good luck!
2007-10-30 17:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be good if you could tell your good friend why she is poison to you. Then find another good friend and maybe another boyfriend, too.
2007-10-30 17:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by Bond girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋