ok long story short me and this guy ruined our chances of being together. he got a gf i got a bf.
Then i became single, and this guy was still flirting with me, trying to persuade me to hold on, as he was unhappy in his relationship
Recently things went a little to far..he didn't cheat, but he flirted a little too much, and told me that he loved me..
Now the guy has completley backed away, as he feels guilt.. and thinks that if he left his gf for me, then he wouldnt deserve true love
I have learnt to accept this and have let go, cos i want him to be happy.. But at the same time i am really pissed of that he lead me on for so long... And he has been lieing to his gf
What is your view on this?
2007-10-30 17:16:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he liked me before he got his GF, and i work with him.. i usaully keep my distance.. I kept my distance until last week things went too far
2007-10-30 17:24:19 · update #1
HE believes that he owes it to his gf.. and that its WRONG if he leaves her for me
2007-10-30 17:25:10 · update #2
his GF is in love with him
2007-10-30 17:26:21 · update #3
Why are you messing around with a guy that's taken?
2007-10-30 17:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy has a gf and is flirting with you, what's to say if you were with him he wouldn't do the same to another girl. If a guy thought you were his TRUE LOVE and is unhappy with his current relationship, why doesn't he get out?
2007-10-31 00:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by Julie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U did the right thing. U want to be with an unattached person because people with attachments, come with DRAMA.
The only drama I like is on TV....Grey's Anatomy.
Not in my life.
Youll be OK. Stay with your bf. He's your bf for a reason.
2007-10-31 00:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by joseph t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said he was unhappy with his current girlfriend and wanted you to wait. After this, he flirted with you enough to want to tell you he loved you.
My question to you is, if he was so unhappy, why didn't he break off with his girlfriend instead of asking you to wait.
2007-10-31 00:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by don_sv_az 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋