would you ever get back with an abusive partner? if so what would he/she have to do to win your heart back
2007-10-30 16:48:36 · 17 answers · asked by john wayne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no...there are too many fish in the sea that are NOT abusive. Lots of people go back because, deep down, they feel they deserve it or are somehow responsible for the abuse. Or maybe they believe that the abusive person really loves them? But that is NOT love. Those people don't know how to feel love.
2007-10-30 16:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by chandiepoo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have the personality that I can see going back to an emotionally abusive person. I hate to admit that but I can see it happening, if there were no kids involved of couse. And sadly all he'd really have to do is sweet talk me back in. It might take a while and hopefully it would but ya. I'm a total push over and I hate that. I'm trying to change it now. Its hard. I admire all these people that won't put up with anything. They are AMAZING
2007-10-30 23:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ria B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is doing it because she has a low sense of self-worth. Low self-esteem. I would, but I like a little abuse. Actually I was trying to be funny, and that wasn't funny. I wouldn't get back, and if I was being abusive I would have to leave too. I would be disgusted with myself.
2007-10-30 23:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by PUMA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
RUN !! .. from getting back with an abusive partner.
You could be abused again.
2007-10-31 00:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't want to say "never", but having grown up in an abusive home, I'd tell her... Don't ever go back, no matter what. Sorry.
2007-10-30 23:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Proof of counseling.
Change of Heart. HE needs to win YOU back.
And we don't know you, we can't judge.
But if he's made GIGANTIC steps, then don't close him out, especially if you have kids together.
If he's fronting, RUN.
Good Luck!
2007-10-30 23:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Queenie` 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitly needs counseling. Then he'd have to do some major wooing. Ok, cross that out. That'd probably be too much like stalking. Ok dude, I think you had your chance and you blew it!
2007-10-31 00:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Holy cow! They would have to have an epiphany similar to St paul in his way to jerusalem; otherwise, it's just more of the same
2007-10-31 00:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no i would'nt,they would definately have to prove they've really changed for the better,and it would take a long time to prove that change.
2007-10-31 08:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
2007-10-30 23:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by philosophy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋