Ex Gf pregnant... and she dosent know who the father is... and i still have feelings for her?

Question

i dont know what to do with my life... i really love her... but she is pregnant with someone else's baby right now... im clueless

i know for a fact that im not the father, we've been apart 5 months and she is 3 months pregnant

Answer 1

if you love her enough to FORGIVE what she has done, then you should still stay with her i guess... but if you see her cheating agian you should just straight up DUMP HER

Answer 2

Don't get mixed up in it until she knows what it is in life that she really wants. You don't need to be getting into the middle of it emotionally and have the baby's Father come back into the picture and her dump you. Let her get her head and heart on the same wavelength. Besides, I would think you deserve to be someone that isn't going to use you as an easy fallback or last resort sort of thing. I'm not saying that is the case, but you need to be sure what her intentions to you are exactly.

Answer 3

The real question should be are you willing to step in and be there for her no matter what. Even if her baby isn't yours, and there is a big possibility you aren't the father, are you ready to accept the responsiblity of being the baby's father no matter what?

There are some tough questions you need to ask yourself, and more importantly, you need to let her know you still care about her.

Answer 4

I'll tell you what to do with your life... stop crying over this wh*re and approach several women and date several women every week until you find a loyal woman who will reciprocate your romantic interests. And leave the pregnant sl*t alone.


Chi-Town Flawless
author of,
The Nice Guy's Manual on How to Stop Simpin and Attract the Woman That You Really Want

Answer 5

take her to get a paternity test. If the results come back that you are the father, then man up and do the right thing. If you are not the father, than it is another mans responsibility. If she doesn't know who the father is, than chance are, she doesn't love you anyway.

sorry and good luck

Answer 6

Well if you Really love her, you don't have to be the father to be with her & take care of the baby. She is a package deal now......instant family...or move on. It's a tough situation, but you have to make a decision.

Answer 7

OH BOY!!!!! LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!! and maybe she can figure out by the days of the month who it could be,,it goes like this...only 15 days after the first day her period started can she get pregnant for 3 days, so go back to the first day of her period,,,,count 15 days from then and on that date for 3 days she can become preg. and maybe she can figure out who she was with...good luck to you

Answer 8

you answered your own question .
EX gf. EX. do you drink your own spit?? no . let someone else carry that baggage.
move on, you have no idea how important that step will be for you. don't close yourself off from someone who would really like/love to stick by your side, if that is what you are looking for. (( meaning,.. there could be someone else for your, no , i really mean that. ))
unless it was strictly physical.
in that case , you're on your own,
make your own decision on that bro.
hey, we're all in this together

Answer 9

she was your ex. shes had someone elses kid . If she doesnt know who the Dad is then how many possibilities are there ?

Sounds like you should stay clear until she gets her life sorted out better .

Answer 10

Move on. It will only be more and more complications as things go on if you get involved.

Check your feelings. Wanting sex is not love.

Answer 11

If she didn't cheat on you then who cares about the baby! If you love her be with her and treat the baby as if its yours.