Family & Relationships - 30 October 2007

why does a married woman who degrades her self and her family .cheat. and dont have no shame to herself. knowing she.s only being used . by younger man who only degrade her .and make fun of her afterwards. when used . dont she know .she. is nothing compared to a younger woman while she is in her.40.s thinking a man in his. later. teen.s.19. only tells his buddies how cheap. sorry she is . where is her morals. toward her children and husand dont she have none at all nothing but trash is how we younger ones look at her. is she that crazy. knowing she only end up divorced. and made fun of

2007-10-30 20:12:43 · 9 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

so i dumped my girlfriend
but i feel bad
but i dont want to be with her????
whats going on?

2007-10-30 20:11:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys .... I don't need you to answer this but can you give me 100 reasons why girls are better than boys ? Thanks !

2007-10-30 20:01:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any nicknames for them?

2007-10-30 19:55:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I compete in ballroom dance competitions and I have a partner whom I'm really good friends with. Since we started competing together he comes over to practice with me every night that he has off from work which is about three times a week. We get along really well and he loves hanging out at my house and loves my family too. He has never asked me out and always implies that I am too young for him. I am a year and a half younger. He dates other girls and mentions it to me. Our personalities match so well and I really enjoy him. I'm afraid to let myself fall for him because I don't think he's interested. Does anyone think he could be interested in me or will he always just consider me a friend?

2007-10-30 19:55:17 · 2 answers · asked by Diane 1 in Singles & Dating

why or why not??

2007-10-30 19:51:46 · 9 answers · asked by Kristeη 1 in Singles & Dating

ive hooked up with this guy 3 times in the past. my best friend is hooking up with his best friend. they go to a diff college and are very accomplished and focused on their studies, however on the weekends love to go out and party. they invite us up on the weekends to go to parties with them, then we usually end up hooking up when we go bak to their apt. becuz we're all so busy, none of us really talk much during the week. do you think depite the fact this guy and i dont talk much during the week, is it possible he might like me more than just a hook up? (by the way, ive spent the nite twice in his bed, however have never had sex with him - nor do i plan on doing that anytime soon. hes respectful of me and really nice and we do usually spend hours talking about serious stuff... he doesn't really even flirt with me.. our convos are more real than that. we act like we're friends actually and we all just joke around. then we'll go and hook up. he begs me not to go in the mornings...

2007-10-30 19:48:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if they've been seeing each other for about a month?

every day? every other day? two three times a week? once a week?

2007-10-30 19:44:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that at times I really enjoy being around. Other times, she makes stupid comments like, "I used to sit around feeling sorry for myself all the time, but I don't anymore." After I confided in her about my husbands physical and mental abuse, less then a month after it happened.
Today, after I called and told her about a job she wanted. I told her about my step-children's new hamsters. She then asked, did their mother get them for them? I felt like it was a jab, insinuating I would never do something like that for them. Which is intirely not true.
I've gone from talking to her everyday to a couple times a month. I've never told her how much comments like these upset me. Should I? Or should I just stop talking to her all together?

2007-10-30 19:40:38 · 17 answers · asked by steffi 2 in Friends

I need some advice as i am stuck with this issue. My partner walked out 2 months ago 6 weeks after we bought our first home together, he moved back home to his mother and father.
I was his first girlfriend and the first time he has lived away from the family home, he is nearly 32.
Problem is however i still love him and he wants to reconcile, but how do i reconcile with a man that places more importance on protecting and worrying and fussing over his mother than he does with our relationship..his mother and sister have treated me pretty badly over the last 3 weeks and im not sure i could even or would want to have them in my life again..i find them interfering, needy, manipulative and placing alot of pressure on my partner if they dont see him regularly.
His mother calls him the rock in the family and i always feel that i come 5th best with him, after mother, sister and nieces and nephew as before me he would spend most of his time with his sister and her children. Is this weird?

2007-10-30 19:34:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Things used to be great (sexually) between my husband and I when we were dating. As soon as we moved in together he got real shy but I figured he would get over it after awhile (I was the first woman he's ever lived with and by his stories definitely the most "adventerous"). I love him to death and now we are married and have two beautiful daughters. But if I never brought up sex then it would probably never happen!! He won't ever try to turn me on, take the reigns, or be playful at all. The only time he initiates sex is on weekend mornings (this is VERY RARE) and it's usually bc he was horny in his sleep and is trying to plug me before he's even really awake. Sex is always the same with him. He always touches me the same way and he always wants to finish in the same position. I got sick of always being the initiator and decided to see what he would do but now we haven't had sex in like 6 weeks...it's like he never even thinks about it? I'm 22 and he's 26 so it's not like we're old or

2007-10-30 19:34:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my 20 year old son is a huge pervert, he looks at porn all the time, but last night i opened his door and he's in bed having sex with his girlfriend.

i screamed at her to leave and the only thing my son will be doing until he's financially independent in and out of the house is going to school and sleeping

I will not let him use the argument that he is over 18 now, since he uses my money to pay some of his bills. I don't also care if its protected sex!

I never had sex the first time until i was 33 years old, so i cannot withstand son having it at age 20 only.

I did the correct thing, right?

2007-10-30 19:34:35 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did you leave him? Are you still with him?

2007-10-30 19:33:29 · 19 answers · asked by TheMightyOne 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my brother wants to go out for halloween this year and hes 13 i think hes to old what do you think?

2007-10-30 19:32:01 · 26 answers · asked by josh g 2 in Family

2007-10-30 19:31:43 · 6 answers · asked by jose 1 in Family

Realy curvvy? athletic? skinny?
I have gained, and sometimes feel insecure, which leaves my normal high self confidence, feeling low. My husband is trim and fit. What do men really think or like?

2007-10-30 19:30:43 · 11 answers · asked by PinkDiva72 1 in Singles & Dating

been with bf on and off for almost 3 years (last 2 years solid-no breakups). we've had our issues due to me having PMDD (caused alot of our fights-now takes meds and see a counselor) and him being too used to being a bachelor. i'm 28 w/3 girls part-time that he loves very much and he's 29 never been married or lived w/a gf.

we've been seeing a counselor for a couple of weeks now to help sort out the little hangups that are causing our arguments. he was totally agreeable to going. but in the sessions, he seems scared of having a "timeline" of me and the kids moving in w/him being put on him. the counselor asked him what he thought should happen if we didnt fight anymore-his anwers were to have the kids spend more time at his house during the day and eventually all of us spending the night there. but he stated that just b/c we were all spending the night didn't mean we were going to move in right away.

little more below..

2007-10-30 19:28:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am young. But I met a man on the internet who is 7 years older than
me! But I think I love him. Should I go and meet him?! I need your
advice. Thanks! I meet him here, http://www.agematch.com/photo/cougar2008 , a nice and free place.

2007-10-30 19:28:06 · 21 answers · asked by Cougar C 1 in Singles & Dating

I just started dating this girl we both really like each other. I don't know what to do on the first date like where to go and all that stuff. We've hung out a few times with people to break the ice but its time to move to one on one. Or at least give it a try. I thought about the common dinner and a movie but I've heard that can be bad. We are still pritty shy around each other.

2007-10-30 19:25:10 · 8 answers · asked by TuRtLEpiE 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with a hot guy and I really want him bad... Please help, he probably doesn't know that I even like him this way, or does he... I notice he looks my way and sometimes gazes in my eyes when we talk. Or is that just how looks at people?

2007-10-30 19:23:35 · 30 answers · asked by gemini<3 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf is really shy. He won't even hold my hand in public. We take a lot of pictures together when we go out. One time he was showing me one picture we took together, he put a frame to it and the frame says "Love". Is it consider his indirect way to tell me he loves me? Also if he teases me or tickles me a lot and always put his arm around the passenger seat when we go out. Are these all the signs that he loves me?

2007-10-30 19:22:40 · 7 answers · asked by My Dear 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 19:18:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am 17yrs old. i have my boyfriend last month his family went to taiwan and they will stay there for good. i dunno but i just agreed to still maintain our relationship and we'll wait for each other. i dunno how to manage this thing. it just bothers me alot. my parents aren't around for me to ask them advice. i miss him so much we give each other calls but i have a very bad premonition. i am not very sure that he'll keep his promise.

how am i to deal with this?
this is my first time to encounter such thing.
please help

2007-10-30 19:18:07 · 12 answers · asked by soinlovewd08 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-30 19:17:40 · 11 answers · asked by irene m 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok...here's the story...my kid's have lived with their mother for the last 3 years. I've worked every Sunday for the last 5. I now have Sundays off, and I'm wanting to start going back to church. My kids want me to go to their's. I don't believe the same way they do...not sayin they're wrong, but I just don't believe that way. Anywayz...my kids are ages 7,6, and 4, and they're really into their church. How do I tell them I don't wanna go there without upsetting them? Please help me! I don't know what to say!!

2007-10-30 19:15:59 · 7 answers · asked by Ronnie 1 in Family

i have 2 extremely close friends. one is goin through a very difficult time. the guy she loved is gettin married in a week's time. final exams are goin on & she's ruinin them. she cannot stop thinkin about it because this guy's house is right in front of her house and she knows every activity that takes place there. we've tried our best to convince her, her tears don't stop, she doesn't stuy either. i'm concerned, pls help.. thanks in advance..

2007-10-30 19:12:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a virgin and I am dating someone who is sexually experienced. We have tried to have sex already but I just couldn't. I need to get over this before it ruins our relationship

2007-10-30 19:06:45 · 13 answers · asked by yoman025 1 in Singles & Dating

How does a guy determine after 2 dates whether he just wants sex with a girl or is actually interested in her? Is it usually because the girl does something that turns him off or says something that is dumb or is not that pretty or is not up to his standards, and that is when he decides he will just use her for sex?

2007-10-30 19:06:29 · 5 answers · asked by angelgirly999 1 in Singles & Dating

I need some thoughts here. Here is the scenario. Around April I went out of the country to Australia to visit family. When we were there that was alot of family. One man in particular my uncle a very nice guy, I think he was not of my nationality (i know irrelevant) just putting in all details. Has two step kids with my paternal aunt. Anyhow we spent two days there no nights. But when he would play around with my child he would pick him up and joke and say I am going to bite your ear, ur nose etc..NEVER did he mention his peepee or anything sexual. My son was with me the whole time when this uncle was around. Not once did I not no where he was, plus he was still sick from his infection he had from the US, ear infection to. A few days later we were at another relatives hm. Here he stayed with my maternal grandma who came with me from us to australia. There they stayed and her sister in laws house. Ive talked to my grandma and she states she was with him all the time. And the man of the

2007-10-30 19:05:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i need to read 1 persons column either in the news paper or in a magazine where they write once a month or once a week o even everyday. i just want something interesting and it has to be opinionated but not about politics!!!!!! please!

Thank you

2007-10-30 19:02:57 · 3 answers · asked by No 2 in Singles & Dating