ive hooked up with this guy 3 times in the past. my best friend is hooking up with his best friend. they go to a diff college and are very accomplished and focused on their studies, however on the weekends love to go out and party. they invite us up on the weekends to go to parties with them, then we usually end up hooking up when we go bak to their apt. becuz we're all so busy, none of us really talk much during the week. do you think depite the fact this guy and i dont talk much during the week, is it possible he might like me more than just a hook up? (by the way, ive spent the nite twice in his bed, however have never had sex with him - nor do i plan on doing that anytime soon. hes respectful of me and really nice and we do usually spend hours talking about serious stuff... he doesn't really even flirt with me.. our convos are more real than that. we act like we're friends actually and we all just joke around. then we'll go and hook up. he begs me not to go in the mornings...
2007-10-30 19:48:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes yet to come visit me at my school, mainly becuz my school doesn't throw parties.. his throws crazy good ones. how can i find out if he really likes me? should i not contact him until he contacts me? the last time i saw him i decied not to spend the nite and he begged me to stay and cuddle (Even tho we were only going to make out and fall asleep, nothing more) but i kept saying no and i think it disappointed him even tho i told him i had to leave because i had to wake up earlier in the mornig for somethin. also, i wanted him to be kept on his toes tho. he hasn't contacted me since. i know hes super busyy with school. should i still wait and see if he contacts me this time around if he doesn't, should i assume he doesn't like me? should i invite him down to my school next time (Even tho theres nothing to do... or should i keep going up to see him?)
2007-10-30 19:52:17 · update #1
It there is a possibility that he just wants sex and he keeps calling and hanging with you til he gets it. But I doubt it, its just possible
I would guess he does like you since you've been hanging for a while and he still hasnt given up. And he wants you to stay in the mornings. And guys dont just cuddle and talk to just anyone in there dorm rooms all the time so you are one of the chosen few.
To find out you should break the pattern. Instead of going and partying. Try hanging out during a week day and just go get something to eat. Just do something different and see if he's all for it. If a guy knows theres 0% chance of sex at the end of a date like during the weekend when you cant spend the night and he still goes then he wants more then just sex
2007-10-30 20:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is into you, he would call. Being "busy" isn't enough of a deterrant. Obviously he thinks you are fun, but if your best friend is hooking up with his you gotta start to wonder what his motives are. Are you ever at his place without your friend? Is there any chance he's telling his best friend that you are sleeping together for bragging rights since he's sleeping with yours and you two hang out with them together? Just a thought. On the other hand, he might be into you. Call him when he's "busy". You'll find out.
2007-10-30 19:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he begs you not to go in the mornings??? thats a pretty good indication that he wants you there as more than just a hook up. also, you guys don't have sex yet he would rather hook up with you than some girl that would put out is also a clear sign. dudes only think about one thing and hes respecting you.
2007-10-30 19:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you know what is going on or not. If you are going out and drinking and partying and then going and spending the night with the guy it doesn't sound like just casual friends. Are you sure you remember what is going on when you spend the night?
2007-10-30 19:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun, explore, and leave your dignity at the breakfast bar, so you can get a reality check in the am before you head out to class. Make sure he "wraps the rascal" - know what I mean? Check to see if his anaconda has some bite - Wahoooooo!
2007-10-30 19:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he does like you --- i would redefine your "hook ups" as dates i think ---- there is a lot of potential just dont try to label or categorise the relationship ---- let it develop and see if its friends or more than friends (and i dont mean friends with benefits) ---- enjoy
2007-10-30 19:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds too good to be true - he may be gay
2007-10-30 19:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋