Help could this mean he was sexually abused.?

Question

I need some thoughts here. Here is the scenario. Around April I went out of the country to Australia to visit family. When we were there that was alot of family. One man in particular my uncle a very nice guy, I think he was not of my nationality (i know irrelevant) just putting in all details. Has two step kids with my paternal aunt. Anyhow we spent two days there no nights. But when he would play around with my child he would pick him up and joke and say I am going to bite your ear, ur nose etc..NEVER did he mention his peepee or anything sexual. My son was with me the whole time when this uncle was around. Not once did I not no where he was, plus he was still sick from his infection he had from the US, ear infection to. A few days later we were at another relatives hm. Here he stayed with my maternal grandma who came with me from us to australia. There they stayed and her sister in laws house. Ive talked to my grandma and she states she was with him all the time. And the man of the

of the house came home late from work, so anyways when my son returned from this second persons home randomly he said someone ate my peepee. At first I was shocked. Then I calmed down and started asking him questions like who then he said my sister (who also traveled with me from us)

and i knew that wasnt true cause she was with me most times and when she wasnt he was always with me. But he said a brown man. Do you think he said this because my uncle said Im going to eat ur ear, mom what part do you want to eat his nose, sister what part...this was all fun joking around

my son said this at night lights were out, he showed no signs of anal penetration, he wasnt scared clingy etc...Honestly after he went to bed I went in the living room and thought what if something happened to him. How could I etc... But there were no signs that would suggest. And when I left him with my grndma I asked her if the man of the house was around and she said no. Plus she was always around him

so coincedentilly now in July he has tics, and stereotyped movements waving his hands(he is not autistic) he seems anxious. BTW I am anxious and have panic disorder. But your thoughts please. Thanks

other than this behaviour that just randomly popped up, along with tics at same time. He is just as social not shy, doesnt suffer sep anxiety, no signs. I am just wondering. Why would a child say this in your opinion do you think he just stuck the word peepee in there because of what his uncle was mentioning before. By the way he was about 2 years and 9 mos at the time

Answer 1

I would look further into this. Children that age do not make things like that up.

Answer 2

I think that is what happened if you child is around 15mths to maybe 2 1/2 they tend to repeat things that they hear or when they were having fun my daughter does that I'll play a game like that where i eat all her body parts and then probably later when she is having bath time she will say mom mom eat nose or ears and laugh she think it is the funniest thing ever so i don't think he was molested or any thing you could talk to him some more and ask different questions to try and figure it out but god forbid he was hurt i think he would then be shy or bothered when you play that game again with him

Answer 3

Take him to the Dr and have the Dr discuss the situation or lack of situation with you. Be completely forth coming with your fears and by all means include the information about the new tics. Never guess about your child's emotional, physical or spiritual well being always get the best advice available on either.

Answer 4

I agree with the person who said to go to a professional. Don't freak out at anything your child says, they have imaginations and don't know how to communicate. It could mean anything. BUT I would seek the help of a professional and mention your concerns and see what they can find out if it really bothers you.

Good luck!

Answer 5

This sounds weird. Try to get more informaton out of him & maybe he'd talk to a specialist & find out. If he's been abused you need to find out & apparantly you're worried about it or you wouldnt have posted the question.

Dont leave your child alone with anyone you dont know, & sometimes even ones you do know! & See a dr. too they may perhaps can tell. I hope not, be sure though. you cant be too safe.

Answer 6

I've had this problem before, except it was a german wh**e
who bit my "Pee Pee"(otherwise known as Sergeant Bang)

had to put some ice on it the next morning, hell of a night, I tried to explain it to my superior officers.
I told them I was attacked by an illusive enraged rabbied artic whistling snow Beaver.

not really, I told them I fell out of a chopper and landed on a flag pole.

na, I told them I tripped and fell on a fire hygrent or somthin like that

Answer 7

No, I think his imagination took over, and it is you who are making a bigger deal of it. I'm not saying that you are a bad parent, just taking things to an adult level. Just give it a rest, and yourself. If he was never out of your sight I wouldn't worry. Especially if he has no other complaints.

Answer 8

No it doesn't. But more questions are revelant here to ask him. More explict questions. You could seek child counseling for him, they have a way to find answers to these questions quicker.

Answer 9

well ..for a kid..we could play with them..but todays..generation..i think private parts shouldnt be joked about to small kids...
they speak the truth...sexually abused maybe that person who did that just play ticke tickle or whatver..but i think shouldnt do that.

Answer 10

wooo..wat a story!!;) i laughed out loud..sorry..but thats really funny n unusual..