How does a guy determine after 2 dates whether he just wants sex with a girl or is actually interested in her? Is it usually because the girl does something that turns him off or says something that is dumb or is not that pretty or is not up to his standards, and that is when he decides he will just use her for sex?
2007-10-30 19:06:29 · 5 answers · asked by angelgirly999 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, he can be interested in having both sex and a relationship. But when does he determine that he doesn't want a relationship with the girly but only sex... ?
2007-10-30 19:16:48 · update #1
If you feel like a guy wants to "use" you for sex, why would you want to stay around him?
What you're describing isn't healthy at all, I'd suggest running as fast as you can away from him, find someone who appreciates you for who you are, (what you look like is just bonus).
Luck
The real answer to your question is who cares when or why?
The minute you become an object to him, ("use for sex"), you shouldn't be around him at all, unhealthy for you, (and believe it or not, unhealthy for him, too).
Sorry this happened
2007-10-30 19:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you will find that every guy is after sex --- sometimes we are after sex plus a relationship and you can usually tell after the first date which has highest priority ---- and its not any one thing that makes a guy uninterested its a whole range --- starting with how well you both get on together ---- even deciding you want more than sex (and getting sex) you find that you both just dont get on that well --- well enough to form a long term relationship ---- sometimes you have one date and want nothing (not even sex) from the relationship --- after 2 dates and without constant innuendo or requests for sex then he wants to know you better ---- have fun
2007-10-30 19:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl give premarital sex
=> Men Like
=> Men look forward to
=> Men get tired of her
=> bye bye girl
Men subconciously loses respect for the girl and may even label her asa Cheap or Easy to Get while satisfying his need of sex to the last drop and while the dumb girl is giving it away hoping for true Love or for the sake of being "IN"
Girl have morals & principles
=> Guy wait for girl
=> Guy learns to love & respect girl & vice versa
=> relationship gets stronger and more productive
=> financially & emotionally ready & gets married
=> have the greatest sex they have been waiting for
=> children comes
=> lives happily ever after.
there is a purpose on why some religions try not to encourage people to have pre marital sex.
2007-10-30 19:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by jace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the emotional state of the guy. and age.
maybe he just date her honestly hoping he will get in her pants pretty soon.
maybe he just dated her he really like her and wana know her better.
maybe he dated her and learned shes no good, but shes hooked, he might as well have her.
whatever your reasons are, its just a phase where everything is all about having fun. no serious commitment. the easier to get the better.
but if you come of age and of maturity, your perspectives change towards seeking female companionship. it gets tiring playing the field after a while. or maybe not.
maybe if your standards higher, you'll meet a girl that really for you. LOL.
best of luck
2007-10-30 19:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually we know we want sex even before the first date. Its always in our head.
2007-10-30 19:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tony D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋