Ive known this girl for like 2 weeks we talk I asked her to be my friend she said yeah I want to ask her out on a date but I dont want to pressure her or make her feel uncomterbal how do I do it ?
2007-10-30 16:04:50 · 31 answers · asked by what do I do 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok say this ....
" ok (insert name here) i know we have been friends but i sorta like you and i dont want to ruin our friendship but do u maybe wanna go (insert thing to do here. e.g. movie,dinner) just to see how it goes
2007-10-30 16:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by theendishere1232000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your afraid to ask her out on an actual date then just take it slow, ask her if she wants to go to the movies or out to eat with you and a couple of friends, just make sure you sit by her so you two can start to get closer.
Then when you think the time is right ask her to go with only you to the movies or something, that could possibly make it less akward.
I hope this helps you.
2007-10-30 16:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait to long or you will stay in the friend zone. who gets uncomfortable when they are hit on? it is usually flattering! there has to be some chemistry? if she doesn't want to date you are you still going to be her friend. if the answer is no. . .just ask, SAY: "i would love to spend some more time with you, what are you doing Thursday night. Don't tell her, "movies, or anything, if she asks, tell her. . .to dress casual, and you will pick her up at 6:30", then plan a great night, so you can gurentee she will have fun. girls love it if you put thought into it. and do something unique.
2007-10-30 16:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by dabeach13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask her out to do something. You do not even have to make it into a date. Ask her If she likes to bowl or something fun you like to do and see what she says. If she says yes then go have fun and enjoy spending time with her and see how she feels around you. If you hardly know her and ask her out too soon you might freak her out. This is the closes way to getting what you are looking for without pressuring her. Do not spend too much time around her, because women like space. What I mean by this comment is that before and after this predate let her gather her thoughts about you. If you can get her to spend time with you like this alot then just keep it up, if she enjoys having you around. Let her say: hey wanna do something?? Do not always be the one to go after her let her go after you. This lets you know she is interested in you in some way. Women enjoy a guy they can be comftorable with and share things with. Good luck!!
2007-10-30 16:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask. Why you had to ask her to be your friend I'm not sure that is usually a relationship that is developed much like an intimate relationship but if you would like to ask her out on a date to get to know her better just ask her to go to dinner or for coffee sometime ...
2007-10-30 16:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a group date. You and a bunch of your friends get together with her and her friends and go to a movie or something. Just make sure there's an even number ;)
2007-10-30 16:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by Tonya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She won't feel weird, YOU will if she says no right. If you can handle a NO then go for it. Go to her friend and get in good with her so she can help you out. Your chances are better if her friend thinks its cute that you have a crush on her.
2007-10-30 16:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by fastfreedombailbonds 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say invite her out with a group of you friends [even boy girl ration ^.- ] then ask her out agian with a smaller group... get down to about four [ you could start out with six ... it doesn't matter just w.e.] then on the fourth date when you take her home, ask her to go out with just you.
that'd be a minimal pressure situation [the dad might be stalking with a shot gun... lol jk that only happened in the 50's]
just take it slow, but kinda fast...
2007-10-30 16:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont use the word DATE ask her if she wants to hang out with you (just make sure she nows u like her tho or she'll think ur just frineds) .then if she says yes the next time u wont to ask her that u can use the word.
2007-10-30 16:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have been friends with a girl for a little over month, i asked her like hey , would you like to come see a movie, i think its gonna be good, see if she likes those movies, maybe bring someone else along beacuse this is not yet about you to, no kissing, no messing arond unless she REALLY Likes you, it a very quick thing man
2007-10-30 16:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you know her well and ask her out to a place she will feel comforatble at, maybe somewhere she loves going to like the movies
2007-10-30 16:08:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋